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Re: This Is How Christmas Is Celebrated In Some Polygamous Homes by Mydazz(m): 10:10am On Dec 26, 2021
This does not signify poverty or polygamy in any way,..... I grew up used to this. Back in the late 80s and early 90s, when maternal grandma was still alive. We all want to stay with her house in the village. So everyone abandon their parents houses to stay in grandma's house, cos that's the only time, e we have to spend together all year due to distance in different location of residence. Sometimes we are more than 30, cos even apart from cousins that form the majority, other relatives will also join too.
Our mealtimes is typically like this,..... but really those were the best years

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Re: This Is How Christmas Is Celebrated In Some Polygamous Homes by Brushstrokes20: 10:12am On Dec 26, 2021
Dammmmmmmmnnnn it!

I'm no fan of polygamy undecided

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Re: This Is How Christmas Is Celebrated In Some Polygamous Homes by Chinbunda: 10:19am On Dec 26, 2021
KiNg0G:
betterstyle.

this only happens when the father is around to unite the lots in special days like this.
Seriously I can relate
When my dad was alive Christmas was lively until his death, omo everybody don find him level we don scatter....








but once he's dead ( everybody find your way) like the one in my street, he married 5 wives. they normally kill ram every Christmas Eve, bought by his eldest son.
but their father passed away this year January.... yesterday it was like grave yard over there. damn!
Re: This Is How Christmas Is Celebrated In Some Polygamous Homes by nedekid: 10:25am On Dec 26, 2021
Menace2Society:
Guess u 've been to prison before huh!
Duh, the fact you know and recognize the building called the white house, does not mean you have visited Washington.

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Re: This Is How Christmas Is Celebrated In Some Polygamous Homes by nedekid: 10:32am On Dec 26, 2021
gypsey:
How did you know?
I have tv, internet, ears, eyes etc

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Re: This Is How Christmas Is Celebrated In Some Polygamous Homes by UselessBuharist: 10:35am On Dec 26, 2021
phemmyfour:
Your father is irresponsible not his children

Maybe but he is doing better than your father.

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Re: This Is How Christmas Is Celebrated In Some Polygamous Homes by dipson4u08(m): 10:45am On Dec 26, 2021
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Beebah2000:
Awww cheesy
I dey miss village ooo sad

I'm sure your village people are missing you...

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Re: This Is How Christmas Is Celebrated In Some Polygamous Homes by Nobody: 10:56am On Dec 26, 2021
nedekid:

I have tv, internet, ears, eyes etc
what boring things to have. cheesy
Re: This Is How Christmas Is Celebrated In Some Polygamous Homes by Nobody: 11:01am On Dec 26, 2021
God1000:
well, my friend that traveled on 24 due to work got stranded, he got home 25.

They said the road is too busy around 23-24
I see! But all that drama are what makes christmas seasons exciting. I like driving through awkaetiti, Igboukwu and Ekwulobia traffic jams with other motorists to my father's village during christmas. I love busy christmas nigerian road.

No time is too late if you are going HOME! I mean, what is the rush to get HOME quick?
Re: This Is How Christmas Is Celebrated In Some Polygamous Homes by Kabba1977(m): 11:02am On Dec 26, 2021
My papa wife wey just enter house lock me outside on the 24th night and later apologized when I no greet am Xmas morning come call me after I don go eat with my friends Dey tel me say make i Dey come house say my pounded yam go soon cold as if she Dey give me food before.

Make she go give her children wey she born for another man

I never won die now o

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Re: This Is How Christmas Is Celebrated In Some Polygamous Homes by Nobody: 11:06am On Dec 26, 2021
God1000:
me too dear, I'm home sick
eyah sad

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Re: This Is How Christmas Is Celebrated In Some Polygamous Homes by Nobody: 11:07am On Dec 26, 2021
gypsey:
go village then, what is stopping you?
nothing ooo undecided
Re: This Is How Christmas Is Celebrated In Some Polygamous Homes by damoceile: 11:09am On Dec 26, 2021
Good old days, bring back the 90s abeg..
Re: This Is How Christmas Is Celebrated In Some Polygamous Homes by liya11: 11:09am On Dec 26, 2021
Nyascobar1414:


Word.. When the father is around.. The bond is really united

Was the bond really united or they were just faking it.

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Re: This Is How Christmas Is Celebrated In Some Polygamous Homes by Pataricatering(f): 11:16am On Dec 26, 2021
Aidejay:
Poverty makes everything look distasteful.
Polygamy that is meant to be exquisite reserved for the king's and oligarchs, poor people turned it to mortal combat.
only men benefit from polygamy - (that one sef is arguable)
Its not good for the children neither is it good for the wives neither is it good for society .

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Re: This Is How Christmas Is Celebrated In Some Polygamous Homes by Teripaul(m): 11:18am On Dec 26, 2021
modsfucker:

Mill ko, refinery ni undecided
mills/meals. . Issa pun. . Numbskull angry
Re: This Is How Christmas Is Celebrated In Some Polygamous Homes by ubmech: 11:22am On Dec 26, 2021
This one good the rice even plenti
Re: This Is How Christmas Is Celebrated In Some Polygamous Homes by drlateef: 11:28am On Dec 26, 2021
phemmyfour:
How many church goers are Christian?
The joke is on you


If they are not Christians, are they Muslims? They joke is back to you.

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Re: This Is How Christmas Is Celebrated In Some Polygamous Homes by magzey: 11:35am On Dec 26, 2021
God1000:
lol sad na poor family
Poor family dey afford rice and meat? grin grin

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Re: This Is How Christmas Is Celebrated In Some Polygamous Homes by NOETHNICITY(m): 12:15pm On Dec 26, 2021
I will forever be grateful to my dad for marrying 2 other wives in addition to my mum.
Though my mum wasn't pleased about it then but I think she understands now that there is absolutely nothing to be worried about. Now that we all are grown and doing well, and seeing my siblings from other mums, the sincererity of the bond and love we share, and whenever we have the opportunity to come together it wouldn't have been as pleasurable as it alws is if my dad had limited childbearing to my mum only.
My family is an example of how beautiful and successful polygamy can be.

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Re: This Is How Christmas Is Celebrated In Some Polygamous Homes by NOETHNICITY(m): 12:22pm On Dec 26, 2021
Pataricatering:
only men benefit from polygamy - (that one sef is arguable)
Its not good for the children neither is it good for the wives neither is it good for society .
well, my family is different. Polygamy was really good for us kids in my own family.
Whenever we come together the bond and love we (my siblings from my mum and my other siblings from other mothers) share is on another level. I seriously doubt if we would have had this much pleasure coming together during festivities as we do if my dad had only my mum

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Re: This Is How Christmas Is Celebrated In Some Polygamous Homes by Nobody: 12:29pm On Dec 26, 2021
Beebah2000:
nothing ooo undecided
Exactly, i dare you! Pack your luggages and head off to the village now! Do what will make you happy! Come on! angry life's about happiness.
Re: This Is How Christmas Is Celebrated In Some Polygamous Homes by Oovi5(f): 12:32pm On Dec 26, 2021
Exactly how my mum's people in osun state shares food
Re: This Is How Christmas Is Celebrated In Some Polygamous Homes by simplesearch: 12:45pm On Dec 26, 2021
KiNg0G:
betterstyle.

this only happens when the father is around to unite the lots in special days like this.



but once he's dead ( everybody find your way) like the one in my street, he married 5 wives. they normally kill ram every Christmas Eve, bought by his eldest son.
but their father passed away this year January.... yesterday it was like grave yard over there. damn!

What do you expect from an institution not approved by God. God is against polygamy as much as divorce. Forget those false religion that approves polygamy, they and their founder will stand before Jesus to give account of themselves on the final day.

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Re: This Is How Christmas Is Celebrated In Some Polygamous Homes by IduNaOba: 12:50pm On Dec 26, 2021
Fapemz:
grin


Ours was not polygamous but we still had more mouth than this to feed and it was always a joyous moment. I sell portable Inverter and laptop power bank, patronise me or recommend me. Thank you and 'buy' kiss


How much and what's the spec
Re: This Is How Christmas Is Celebrated In Some Polygamous Homes by modsfucker: 1:12pm On Dec 26, 2021
Teripaul:


mills/meals. . Issa pun. . Numbskull angry

Hide your face
Re: This Is How Christmas Is Celebrated In Some Polygamous Homes by nedekid: 1:21pm On Dec 26, 2021
gypsey:
what boring things to have. cheesy
If you say so.
I guess you wish to do without them then grin
Re: This Is How Christmas Is Celebrated In Some Polygamous Homes by Candidlady: 1:23pm On Dec 26, 2021
MrOON:
This is how our common wealth is supposed to be shared but No!
The north has carried the pot and left us with empty plates

lazy fvck! And who is stopping you guys from buying another pot! Prep your own meal and fill up your empty plate?

since bolt didnt kill you am sure nuts/NORTH will! Tribalistic goat!!
Re: This Is How Christmas Is Celebrated In Some Polygamous Homes by MrOON: 1:32pm On Dec 26, 2021
Candidlady:


lazy fvck! And who is stopping you guys from buying another pot! Prep your own meal and fill up your empty plate?

since bolt didnt kill you am sure nuts/NORTH will! Tribalistic goat!!
One Boko Haram Successfully spotted. grin grin

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Re: This Is How Christmas Is Celebrated In Some Polygamous Homes by Nobody: 1:33pm On Dec 26, 2021
nedekid:

If you say so.
I guess you wish to do without them then grin
Yes, i say so. They may not be boring for you but they are for me.

I do actually, i am more like hiking, biking, swimming, travelling, skiing, walking along the beach and camping, who wants to be stuck indoors watching TV and doing online media things? Or listening to their ears and looking at their eyes?
Re: This Is How Christmas Is Celebrated In Some Polygamous Homes by Federalofficia(m): 1:39pm On Dec 26, 2021
I thought they said polygamy is a sin in Christianity
KiNg0G:
betterstyle.

this only happens when the father is around to unite the lots in special days like this.



but once he's dead ( everybody find your way) like the one in my street, he married 5 wives. they normally kill ram every Christmas Eve, bought by his eldest son.
but their father passed away this year January.... yesterday it was like grave yard over there. damn!

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