Keeping this simple
Am very confused right now

I am 25 years while she is 30years
Currently doing my NYSC, while she deals on laptops and other accessories,which is going fine

We have stayed for a year and few months now
We are very compatible and of like minds
We love each other so much
Very decent
Responsible
And very humble all these while we have known

Whatever desired in a woman she has them all

On November,this started
She came to my house and after eating
She asked me out for a marriage and she doesn't mind footing all the bills and everything as regards to that

I never expected this because our agreement is to marry when any serious suitor comes

Again
What will my family say due to the age gap ?

My elder brother is 28years and not dreaming of marriage yet
I come from average family same as her

I don't have a house of mine neither any source of income

She suggested I join her in business as well, as her business is my business as well while searching for a job

At same time I so much love her

Actually at this point
I don't know where to start

Gosh234:
Keeping this simple
Am very confused right now

I am 25 years while she is 30years
Currently doing my NYSC, while she deals on laptops and other accessories,which is going fine

We have stayed for a year and few months now
We are very compatible and of like minds
We love each other so much
Very decent
Responsible
And very humble all these while we have known
We never had sex as she is still a virgin
Whatever desired in a woman she has them all

On November,this started
She came to my house and after eating
She asked me out for a marriage and she doesn't mind footing all the bills and everything as regards to that

I never expected this because our agreement is to marry when any serious suitor comes

Again
What will my family say due to the age gap ?

My elder brother is 28years and not dreaming of marriage yet
I come from average family same as her

I don't have a house of mine neither any source of income

She suggested I join her in business as well, as her business is my business as well while searching for a job

At same time I so much love her

Actually at this point
I don't know where to start

Join her in the business, don't be Alfred but i don't think she is a virgin. But nevermind, date her and co-operate with her.

I think you are not ready for marriage.

Go for her!
You'll be fine

Truvelisback:
Join her in the business, don't be Alfred but i don't think she is a virgin. But nevermind, date her and co-operate with her.

Found out myself
She didn't just tell me

I think she love u from what u said and chances are u re both for each other irrespective of the age difference,

But the part that got me angry was her telling u she's a virgin, how did u know? Did u confirmed it ur self or u just believed her because u re blindly in love?

Make u no come marry tomorrow she go come dey tell u one excesise Rome her hymen or she was raped by some group of guys.

Me I hate nonsense.

Gosh234:

Found out myself
She didn't just tell me

How did u find out? Sorry, if i am being inquisitive.

Let wait for the elders but I think it not worth it , that how they behave until you give in to her demand then see her real nature comes out , unless you are ready , don’t let her push you.

Mehn this is beyond local man logistics

Op.. Age is just a number, go for her if you think you guys are good... A friend of mine got married to a lady way senior her with like 6years and they are living cool no issues. ...

Baba as long as she go give u the respect as man of the house no issues...

I can bet with my two balls that girl is not a virgin.

Her clock is ticking which also means that she is close to hitting the wall. she's willing to do anything to get married. Desperate chick

but how did you confirm that she's a virgin? Seeing that she loves you, you may as well go for it. Find hustle o. Which one be say she'll pay for everything. Make Dem no insult you in the future

NasoLifeBe!

This girl no love you, wetin she want na marriage, and you too no love this girl na Sapa dey worry you wey make you think sey the girl is okay.

Moral Lessons
Don't enter any relationship when you don't have reasonable means of Income.

If u don't have job or money don't deceive urself by woman love na no option the girl dey.

No woman loves broke man..na option no dey.

You already know who the Husband is

Gosh234:
Keeping this simple
Am very confused right now

I am 25 years while she is 30years
Currently doing my NYSC, while she deals on laptops and other accessories,which is going fine

We have stayed for a year and few months now
We are very compatible and of like minds
We love each other so much
Very decent
Responsible
And very humble all these while we have known
We never had sex as she is still a virgin
Whatever desired in a woman she has them all

On November,this started
She came to my house and after eating
She asked me out for a marriage and she doesn't mind footing all the bills and everything as regards to that

I never expected this because our agreement is to marry when any serious suitor comes

Again
What will my family say due to the age gap ?

My elder brother is 28years and not dreaming of marriage yet
I come from average family same as her

I don't have a house of mine neither any source of income

She suggested I join her in business as well, as her business is my business as well while searching for a job

At same time I so much love her

Actually at this point
I don't know where to start

Is okay the age gap doesn't matter as far as you both loves your self....but try not to b lazy because women loves guys who worship them especially if they are the breadwinner ....just try

Think girl and use your sense , how will he be ready for marriage when he is just doing his nysc , doesn’t have a job , business or a house of his own?

Dis is 2022 if you don’t have any sensible thing to contribute just keep quiet .

Beebah2000:
I think you are not ready for marriage.

brosom:
I think she love u from what u said and chances are u re both for each other irrespective of the age difference,

But the part that got me angry was her telling u she's a virgin, how did u know? Did u confirmed it ur self or u just believed her because u re blindly in love?

Make u no come marry tomorrow she go come dey tell u one excesise Rome her hymen or she was raped by some group of guys.

Me I hate nonsense.

Calm down boss
I didn't just believe her
Found out myself as well
I guess you know how one would find out as guy man you be
That's just it

fikayormi:
Think girl and use your sense , how will he be ready for marriage when he is just doing his nysc , doesn’t have a job , business or a house of his own?

Dis is 2022 if you don’t have any sensible thing to contribute just keep quiet .

Thanks

ufotty2001:
I can bet with my two balls that girl is not a virgin.

Can we leave the virginity part of it now ?

Isokoson1:
Mehn this is beyond local man logistics

Op.. Age is just a number, go for her if you think you guys are good... A friend of mine got married to a lady way senior her with like 6years and they are living cool no issues. ...

Baba as long as she go give u the respect as man of the house no issues...

Thanks man

Gosh234:
Keeping this simple
Am very confused right now

I am 25 years while she is 30years
Currently doing my NYSC, while she deals on laptops and other accessories,which is going fine

We have stayed for a year and few months now
We are very compatible and of like minds
We love each other so much
Very decent
Responsible
And very humble all these while we have known

Whatever desired in a woman she has them all

On November,this started
She came to my house and after eating
She asked me out for a marriage and she doesn't mind footing all the bills and everything as regards to that

I never expected this because our agreement is to marry when any serious suitor comes

Again
What will my family say due to the age gap ?

My elder brother is 28years and not dreaming of marriage yet
I come from average family same as her

I don't have a house of mine neither any source of income

She suggested I join her in business as well, as her business is my business as well while searching for a job

At same time I so much love her

Actually at this point
I don't know where to start

Marry her if you’re convinced she’s the one.
That said, make sure u’re employed and have a stable source of income before getting married. Let her give you the time needed to sort yourself first. Thank me later

Marriage don sure for u this year... Go ahead bro u fit marry before your elder bro

Gosh234:
Keeping this simple
Am very confused right now

I am 25 years while she is 30years
Currently doing my NYSC, while she deals on laptops and other accessories,which is going fine

We have stayed for a year and few months now
We are very compatible and of like minds
We love each other so much
Very decent
Responsible
And very humble all these while we have known

Whatever desired in a woman she has them all

On November,this started
She came to my house and after eating
She asked me out for a marriage and she doesn't mind footing all the bills and everything as regards to that

I never expected this because our agreement is to marry when any serious suitor comes

Again
What will my family say due to the age gap ?

My elder brother is 28years and not dreaming of marriage yet
I come from average family same as her

I don't have a house of mine neither any source of income

She suggested I join her in business as well, as her business is my business as well while searching for a job

At same time I so much love her

Actually at this point
I don't know where to start

I'm interested in her, pls share her contact with me....

Gosh234:


Calm down boss
I didn't just believe her
Found out myself as well
I guess you know how one would find out as guy man you be
That's just it

no wahala,

But u gas use ur head

Gosh234:
Keeping this simple
Am very confused right now

I am 25 years while she is 30years
Currently doing my NYSC, while she deals on laptops and other accessories,which is going fine

We have stayed for a year and few months now
We are very compatible and of like minds
We love each other so much
Very decent
Responsible
And very humble all these while we have known

Whatever desired in a woman she has them all

On November,this started
She came to my house and after eating
She asked me out for a marriage and she doesn't mind footing all the bills and everything as regards to that

I never expected this because our agreement is to marry when any serious suitor comes

Again
What will my family say due to the age gap ?

My elder brother is 28years and not dreaming of marriage yet
I come from average family same as her

I don't have a house of mine neither any source of income

She suggested I join her in business as well, as her business is my business as well while searching for a job

At same time I so much love her

Actually at this point
I don't know where to start

When you meet a good ,supporting and encouraging woman ....keep her

instinct57vm:



Marry her if you’re convinced she’s the one.
That said, make sure u’re employed and have a stable source of income before getting married. Let her give you the time needed to sort yourself first. Thank me later

Thanks so much
I ask her to give me time to sort out things
She agreed already

Despite many suitors coming

bukky1994:
Marriage don sure for u this year... Go ahead bro u fit marry before your elder bro

Thanks man
Definitely coming here with good news

redstaarx:


When you meet a good ,supporting and encouraging woman ....keep her

Exactly
Am really scared of loosing her

Reason why she stayed this long is that those that have been coming are just interested in her money

Truvelisback:
Join her in the business, don't be Alfred but i don't think she is a virgin. But nevermind, date her and co-operate with her.

You want him to be leech btw after using her to up his game he will then leave her ?.
Age is not on her side , bro if you are not ready or will not marry her, then leave her now. At least to avoid the stories that touches in the future.

Bro the food you can't eat please don't taste it even thou it's seems you have tasted this one but kindly let her go now..

Gosh234:
Keeping this simple
Am very confused right now

I am 25 years while she is 30years
Currently doing my NYSC, while she deals on laptops and other accessories,which is going fine

We have stayed for a year and few months now
We are very compatible and of like minds
We love each other so much
Very decent
Responsible
And very humble all these while we have known

Whatever desired in a woman she has them all

On November,this started
She came to my house and after eating
She asked me out for a marriage and she doesn't mind footing all the bills and everything as regards to that

I never expected this because our agreement is to marry when any serious suitor comes

Again
What will my family say due to the age gap ?

My elder brother is 28years and not dreaming of marriage yet
I come from average family same as her

I don't have a house of mine neither any source of income

She suggested I join her in business as well, as her business is my business as well while searching for a job

At same time I so much love her

Actually at this point
I don't know where to start

Complex issues like this, requires divine direction

Go to God in prayer for direction