Thanks so much, cos i knw ppl dont xpect 2 get all answers on nairaland.

Reaping what you sowed , Your type dont date for love, only for money, Dating my boss, cos he has money

Nifemijoo:

I want u all nairalanders 2 pls advice me on dis issue cos am really confused says my frend, i met a young man tru newspaper in my 3rd yr in d university, we started chattin on phone & he sound very nice, after 1yr plus of our conversation on phone so we decided 2 c each oda physically, i came 2 lagos 2 meet him d very first time & 2 be sincere he was a very nice person, we started callin each oda until all of a sudden i discover he was not been sincere with me den, he lied 2 me dat he was goin 2 maiduguri 4 a biz, not knowin he was going 4 his NYSC, i later discover & he begged me in which i 4giv him, 2 cut short d story, dere was a little distance in our conversation & dis makes d whole tin die down, as at d time of our not callin each oda, i met somone who was my boss in d office he lied 2 me dat he was not married den, so we started relationship & later got 2 knw dat he was married with 3 kids, but he was very nice indeed 2 me & my family & his neva against me marrying anybody wen d time coms, so wen it was Nov 2010, d so called runaway frend called me & asked me if i was married, i told him no< & he made his intension known 2 me, i agreed & we planned 2 c each oda around dec period. he came & we planned evrytin 2geda, wen it was easter period, he took me 2 meet his father & d man really likes me, so we also planned 2 c my mum, but i felt i shd let him know evrytin about me b/4 tins get out of hand, so i told him evrytin abt me & told him dat i dated my boss wen i was all alone & ow he has been dere 4 me & me family, but in d process i realises som change of actions in him, but he pretended 2 be alright, we later got home 2 my family & dat was wen he told my mum evrytin, dat he doesnt feel like comin again but he just came cos of d respect he had 4 my mum, but my mum told him dat she was aware of evrytin & dat i am ready 2 leave d place as soon as possible, i told him dat wt d little change i av @ list dat i can still stand on my own, so he also got angry dat i refused 2 disclose 2 him d amount dat i was avin in my account, so i begged him & told him dat dere's notin btw me & my boss again & in case of any doubt i can take him 2 my boss 2 confirm, but he refused, i av begged him, cry my eyes our but 2 no avail, my problem now is dat d luv is becomin fade in my hrt cos i feel he has no human feelins wt d way i had begged begged & begged, but he was not at all touch, d father kip callin me & i pretended as if all is well, so i nid your candid advise, dat shd i tell d father about d whole issue or i shd just neglect his side & move on wt my life cos rit away i am so confused, cos at list a man shd av human sympathy no matter wot, i dont just know but one mind is tellin me dat i shd be calm dat he will still come back, but anoda mind is tellin me dat he will neva com back again, so i am so confused, i nid your advice pls.

mcnikes:

I got tired b4 the end of the story.
@poster, if you don't know wat to do, ask Mrs. Chima or 190

I'm new and want 2 ask @telwisdo, do u tink she wud hav left her boss wen she found out he was married if she was datin him 4 money? She's asking 4 advice not your judgement, if u dnt hav any, den move on 2 d nxt thread.

Were you talking to me?? MUMU PIKIN ;