izzy4shizzy:
Simple, if you no ready for marriage no marry

Make you no come turn motivational speaker when you divorce

Romanoff:


So what happened to "for better or worse"?

We4all:
I see. At least they tried to keep it together for some time. But I think the one in control was Kaffy cos that guy seems to me like a figure headed husband.

On a flip side, that Ameh guy has a very fine face. His pointed noise is outta this world. Too bad none of his kids is his replica.

We4all:


Try to read between the lines and understand where she is coming from.

You do not need to marry a million times for your destiny to align with your partner. You also do not need to wait a million years to be both on the same page.

Even from the public point of view, one can easily tell that the one who has been keeping the marriage going is Kaffy.

That guy hasn’t had a professional growth in years and has choose to be a lifetime drummer.

Kaffy obviously is tired of pushing and has now realized that he doesn’t possess her kind of ambition and determination to succeed in life.

Her decision: “Endure or tow a different path”. Of course she choose the latter!

Romanoff:
So people leave their marriages because "their destinies don't align".

How many do you now want to marry before your "destines align"?

Legendoo:
Modern woman do not have the capacity to stay in marriage.

She dropped him because hypergamy.

He wasn't meeting up , so on to the next simp.

Rubbish.

Romanoff:


So what happened to "for better or worse"?

stanliwise:

If for example your partner later on has a weird outlook towards life than you do. Sometimes staying away could be best. E.g A wife later discovers her husband is an occultic person, well maybe not divorce but living with such person without same believe is a recipe for disaster

Brendaniel:
The woke generation and their inability to make sacrifices in marriage is causing a lot of damages to their children, a lot needs to be learned by this generation...

Romanoff:


So what happened to "for better or worse"?

mooremoney:
The rate at which marriages are ending. Don't ever ask anyone when they are getting married? Allow people take their time and plan towards it

michaelwilli:


That line no dey Bible or Quran

Simran94:

And modern men have the capacity? The guy is a drummer, he doesn’t have a profession. It is obvious laggy has been the breadwinner of the family while the guy still remained a drummer. How can you as a man watch your wife take your role as the head of the house and you sit there doing nothing?

Zee0007:
Marriage na your mate.

Nairaland feminists, kaffy will join you ladies soonest while Kaffy's ex-husband will join nairaland redpillers.

Equation balance.

Romanoff:


So what happened to "for better or worse"?

Legendoo:



So we drop partners because they can't meet up?

She's a dancer, he's a drummer, they both need to game up but the economy isn't looking great for anybody, this is where maturity should come in.

They can both japa as both of them ain't doing much in Nigeria anyway. Just one of a few options available to them.

My point, there's always a way out when there's love/maturity but modern peeps just don't have the patience and foresight.

Simran94:

You think kaffy is an ordinary dancer? Kaffy is a professional dancer both home and abroad. Not just a dancer, she does other gigs too that fetch her millions. How do you think she’s being able to afford an expensive lifestyle?

Besides, there are some men that once their wives are rich and famous, they prefer to continue living idle without doing anything else. How long will kaffy continue to provide for the family alone? How long will the husband continue to be a drummer boy without a job? You think it will be easy for her to do till forever?

oz4real83:
Our foreparents without education\civilization had marriages lasting almost for eternity, even when they married wives they had never met before but were chosen by their parents. 'Too much sense or book" is what is killing marriages today, nobody is willing to eat the humble pie to make the marriage work.