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Re: Are U Heart Broken? Abused? Lets Hear Your Story, It Could Heal And Help Others by Roland17(m): 3:11am On Jun 19, 2011
@natasha
i would edit my profile page and add my messenger ID to my profile, i would remove it as soon as u acknowledge having it, send me a message as soon as u get it. thanks.
Re: Are U Heart Broken? Abused? Lets Hear Your Story, It Could Heal And Help Others by upendo98(f): 9:07am On Jun 19, 2011
@ Natasha.

you have my best wishes.
Re: Are U Heart Broken? Abused? Lets Hear Your Story, It Could Heal And Help Others by Mynd44: 9:44am On Jun 19, 2011
Natasha,,:

@Roland, post yours

@Mynd who told you? try it, it works for me cheesy


And i wonder why you feel MARSHY
Re: Are U Heart Broken? Abused? Lets Hear Your Story, It Could Heal And Help Others by Natasha2(f): 12:54pm On Jun 19, 2011
upendo 98:

@ Natasha.

you have my best wishes.
thanks a lot darling kiss kiss

@Roland okay

@Mynd huh are you okay? cheesy
Re: Are U Heart Broken? Abused? Lets Hear Your Story, It Could Heal And Help Others by Roland17(m): 3:34pm On Jun 19, 2011
@natasha
Have u gotten it?
Re: Are U Heart Broken? Abused? Lets Hear Your Story, It Could Heal And Help Others by MMM2(m): 5:45pm On Jun 19, 2011
when i waz in primary 2 my GF stolen my heart and gave it 2 anoda boy. angry
Re: Are U Heart Broken? Abused? Lets Hear Your Story, It Could Heal And Help Others by Mynd44: 6:25pm On Jun 19, 2011
^^^Go find her and make her pay for it?
Re: Are U Heart Broken? Abused? Lets Hear Your Story, It Could Heal And Help Others by 190: 6:28pm On Jun 19, 2011
grin grin
Re: Are U Heart Broken? Abused? Lets Hear Your Story, It Could Heal And Help Others by ifffffy(f): 7:43pm On Jun 19, 2011
The only one i've truly loved impregnated his ex after much pressure 4rm d girl 2 sleep wit her, though he's telling me 2 stay bcuz he's not marrying d girl, just accepting his responbilities as d father but i know dere's no hope, "olómo ló loko" so i'm leaving, i dont think i'l love again cuz of dis. I dont knw aw to get out of d pain.

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Re: Are U Heart Broken? Abused? Lets Hear Your Story, It Could Heal And Help Others by ThiefOfHearts(f): 7:46pm On Jun 19, 2011
Lol is your dude slimtoney? https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-691467.0.html

If not my condolences undecided Good job on leaving. There's no such thing as "pressuring anyone to do anything"

wish you well smiley
Re: Are U Heart Broken? Abused? Lets Hear Your Story, It Could Heal And Help Others by Roland17(m): 8:01pm On Jun 19, 2011
@ifffffy
am sorry about ur story, sometimes the things we love most do not make us happy for a life time, trust is really important, all u need now is time and a chance to think over what u would be looking out for in a guy, if u want to get into any other relationship, stay strong, its only an experience that would make u stronger,
Re: Are U Heart Broken? Abused? Lets Hear Your Story, It Could Heal And Help Others by Mynd44: 8:12pm On Jun 19, 2011
Perhaps you denied him access to that place
Re: Are U Heart Broken? Abused? Lets Hear Your Story, It Could Heal And Help Others by ifffffy(f): 9:06pm On Jun 19, 2011
Roland17:

@ifffffy
am sorry about your story, sometimes the things we love most do not make us happy for a life time, trust is really important, all u need now is time and a chance to think over what u would be looking out for in a guy, if u want to get into any other relationship, stay strong, its only an experience that would make u stronger,
thanks, i really appreciate dis, its wot i need now.
Re: Are U Heart Broken? Abused? Lets Hear Your Story, It Could Heal And Help Others by ifffffy(f): 9:08pm On Jun 19, 2011
Roland17:

@ifffffy
am sorry about your story, sometimes the things we love most do not make us happy for a life time, trust is really important, all u need now is time and a chance to think over what u would be looking out for in a guy, if u want to get into any other relationship, stay strong, its only an experience that would make u stronger,
thanks, i really appreciate dis, its wot i need now.
Re: Are U Heart Broken? Abused? Lets Hear Your Story, It Could Heal And Help Others by ifffffy(f): 9:10pm On Jun 19, 2011
Roland17:

@ifffffy
am sorry about your story, sometimes the things we love most do not make us happy for a life time, trust is really important, all u need now is time and a chance to think over what u would be looking out for in a guy, if u want to get into any other relationship, stay strong, its only an experience that would make u stronger,
thanks, i really appreciate dis, its wot i need now.
Re: Are U Heart Broken? Abused? Lets Hear Your Story, It Could Heal And Help Others by Roland17(m): 12:12am On Jun 20, 2011
@ifffffy
its ok, its the little i can do. u are welcome at any time.
Re: Are U Heart Broken? Abused? Lets Hear Your Story, It Could Heal And Help Others by MMM2(m): 2:43am On Jun 20, 2011
mynd_44
i dont even know anything abt d girl again,

all i know is d incidence. angry
Re: Are U Heart Broken? Abused? Lets Hear Your Story, It Could Heal And Help Others by ifffffy(f): 7:38am On Jun 20, 2011
ThiefOfHearts:

Lol is your dude slimtoney? https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-691467.0.html

If not my condolences undecided Good job on leaving. There's no such thing as "pressuring anyone to do anything"

wish you well smiley
no he's not slimtomey, i also read d guy's post, very disgusting, i really pity his fiancee, God wil save us from dis kind of guys.
Re: Are U Heart Broken? Abused? Lets Hear Your Story, It Could Heal And Help Others by Roland17(m): 5:47pm On Jun 20, 2011
Nairaland is a very wierd place, many people post crazy things, but that is not their personality,
Re: Are U Heart Broken? Abused? Lets Hear Your Story, It Could Heal And Help Others by ThiefOfHearts(f): 5:55pm On Jun 20, 2011
^You can only speak for yourself.
Re: Are U Heart Broken? Abused? Lets Hear Your Story, It Could Heal And Help Others by Roland17(m): 6:53pm On Jun 20, 2011
@thiefofhearts
am sorry if u did not get the meaning the way i feel. i meant no harm
Re: Are U Heart Broken? Abused? Lets Hear Your Story, It Could Heal And Help Others by Mynd44: 8:40pm On Jun 20, 2011
M M M:

mynd_44
i dont even know anything abt d girl again,

all i know is d incidence. angry

Too bad
Re: Are U Heart Broken? Abused? Lets Hear Your Story, It Could Heal And Help Others by Natasha2(f): 4:05pm On Jun 21, 2011
Roland17:

@natasha
Have u gotten it?
its not there
Re: Are U Heart Broken? Abused? Lets Hear Your Story, It Could Heal And Help Others by Natasha2(f): 4:08pm On Jun 21, 2011
Roland17:

Nairaland is a very wierd place, many people post crazy things, but that is not their personality,
lolz its not weird its just some people who put on their mask when they are on Nl I call it Naira land coat lolz cheesy but nevertheless I have seen all manner of people on this site grin
Re: Are U Heart Broken? Abused? Lets Hear Your Story, It Could Heal And Help Others by madoba: 5:04pm On Jun 21, 2011
Yes am heart broken (not exactly sure if that's what it is) but I've been feeling emotional of late because my very first boyfriend the one who ,  you know what wink, got married recently. Even though we officially broke up a long time ago, we stayed in touch over the years and would sometimes hook up with each other if one party was visiting the state/vicinity of the other.

I think it's true what they say about your first cut being the deepest, because when I heard about his wedding (he told me) I got all emotional with mixed feelings. A part of me felt like "that could have been me getting married to him" AND then the other part  felt like we weren't meant for each other so let it go for real and move on.

Has anyone ever felt this way about an ex? There's this other angle to it, where I feel like calling him to talk (not sure what exactly there is to talk about) but I think I want to hear him say he stills care for me but had to marry his wife for whatever reasons. At the same time I don't want to make a fool of myself but I also feel like a heart to heart conversation with him will help bring  final closure for me.

What do you all make of this and what would you advice? Please keep it real/honest and leave the insults out. Would particularly love to hear from men with matured minds.
Re: Are U Heart Broken? Abused? Lets Hear Your Story, It Could Heal And Help Others by ThiefOfHearts(f): 5:22pm On Jun 21, 2011
There's no such thing as final closure. No matter what he tells you. It wll never be enough so let it go. f you two were meant to be, you two would be the ones getting married. Simple as that.
If you were the wife would you want some girl coming around yarning about "closure"?
As as it obviously is, move on and close that chapter.
Re: Are U Heart Broken? Abused? Lets Hear Your Story, It Could Heal And Help Others by Roland17(m): 8:27pm On Jun 21, 2011
@natasha
send me a message acknowledging u got it. thanks
Re: Are U Heart Broken? Abused? Lets Hear Your Story, It Could Heal And Help Others by Natasha2(f): 8:59pm On Jun 21, 2011
okay you can take it out now
Re: Are U Heart Broken? Abused? Lets Hear Your Story, It Could Heal And Help Others by Mynd44: 5:17am On Jun 22, 2011
Hmmm
Re: Are U Heart Broken? Abused? Lets Hear Your Story, It Could Heal And Help Others by Natasha2(f): 8:02am On Jun 22, 2011
^^what is it?
Re: Are U Heart Broken? Abused? Lets Hear Your Story, It Could Heal And Help Others by Mynd44: 8:10am On Jun 22, 2011
It means exactly what it is HMMM (His Majesty Mr Mynd) just thought of it. But its just me thinking
Re: Are U Heart Broken? Abused? Lets Hear Your Story, It Could Heal And Help Others by Natasha2(f): 8:13am On Jun 22, 2011
^lolz at least you are thinking cheesy gotta guy see ya later cheesy

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