I see some fellas here ask questions like, "how can I get this girl to be my girlfriend" or "how can I make a girl fall in love with me" or any other simp-beta questions along those lines.

But what these guys don't understand is that, the moment you start thinking of those sort of questions is the moment you actually lost the girl.


The simple act of "Trying to win over a girl" is basic thing that separate a experience player who actually gets busy with lots of ladies from a simp nice guy who's left alone with just his soap/cream, his hands and his wild imagination.

Why? How?

The simp-nice guy always tries to win over a girl; doing whatever it takes.

The experience player hardly try to win over a girl. Infact, he doesn't even have time for that.

Keep reading...

When you're trying to win over a girl, you are practically puting her above you as a man; and by doing that you are even offending God, because God made you the head, the dominant specie and the one who should call the shot.

Again, by trying to win over a girl, you are chasing her; which means you are going against the cliche advise that's scattered all over the internet that says: "stop chasing girls"

Remember, Losers chase girls. Winners chase other important things life but they still get girls regardless.


Now, you might say,

"Pukkalolo, fine...fine, I get it...The experience players don't try to win over ladies. So how do they actually interact with ladies?"

Chill dude, relax... let's get to it.

Here is how the experience players interact with ladies: The way they stay at the top of their game and get busy with the hottest girls is by actually NOT going for the ladies they love.

What do I mean by that?

I mean, they don't go after girls that they are passionate about, they go after girls that are passionate about them. Basically, they go after girls that want them not the other way round.

These might sound confusing and counterintuitive. Infact right now, I know what you're thinking in your mind.
You are like, "Wait, is that it? Is that the reason why I'm not getting girls? Oh dude, please say something else."


Again, Chill bro, relax... Let me explain things for you better. Hopefully you might learn alot from this post; because I just got started.

Here is a true story:
Years ago, I was at a training center; a light skinned and beautiful girl came close to where I was sitting and started dusting away invisible dirtt on the tight blue jean trouser she was wearing.

I decided to listen to my instinct: I immediately approached her and started talking to her. She told me her name was Rose(not her real name though). After our lengthy conversation, she gave me her phone number. We started chatting and hanging out together. She liked me and I like her. Everything with her was going smooth. When interacting with Rose, it was like I was always saying the right things and making the right moves. She was in love with anything I say or do.

One evening, I asked her to be my girl, she said she'll think about it. That same night, she called me and said "Yes, I'll be your girlfriend."

I felt like a king; I felt like a love-vendor. I felt like a bad sharp guy. I felt like I just invented Facebook, space ship or something great. I felt like an hero.

Stupid me.

In my mind I assumed that the reason why she agreed to date me was because I said all the right things and did all the right things. But one day I asked her a question, and the answer she gave me destroyed my ego and left feeling almost sad.

What was the question I asked her?

I said, "So Rose, why did you choose to date me despise the fact that you have all these other guys who want you badly?"

Before she could even say a word, I continued egotistically, "Is it because I was saying and doing all right things that was why you chose me?"

Her response was, " before you approached me and talk to me, I have always noticed you."

I was like, "really?"

She said, "Remember that day I came close to where you were sitting and I started dusting away invisible dirt on my cloth. I intentionally came close to you hoping and wishing you'd approach me, but thank God you were man enough to approach me."

I was like, "seriously?"

Rose continued, "To be honest, you were saying and doing all the wrong things but I chose to date you because you reminded me of my ex-boyfriend... You got his eyes and you also talk and walk like him."

In my mind, I was like,"so this lady chose to date me simply because I look like her ex-boyfriend? WTF?"

My ego got damage that day but my eyes also got opened that day. In my later years of dating quite a number of ladies I've realized that, it's a woman that actually chooses a man; a man does not choose a woman.

She has to be the one who's passionate about you. She has to be the one who is worried about you while you are worried about other important thing like building a better life for yourself.

A lady who chooses you will make it the process of getting her easy for you. And that's the point, you should go for a girl who make it easy for you to get her.

Only the Real Gs among us understand this and that's why they are at the top of their game. They are happy in their relationship.

But the rest of the nice simp guys don't understand this and that's why they waste their time and money trying to win over ladies who don't want to them

The truth about most experience players and the typical "bad boys" is that, they don't waste their time on ladies who tries to make things difficult for them. They are like smart business men. Smart business people don't waste time on people who are not interested in purchasing their products or services, they only focus actual prospect or potential customer who are curious and interested.

The other day, I watched a guy try to talk to a lady at a saloon. She was responding to the guy unenthusiastically and giving him monotonous response. Few minutes into the forced conversation, he got frustrated and said," Bleep it, you're bitch... I rather go talk to a goat than talk to a girl like you."

Then he stood and walked away from her without looking back.The girl yelled abusive words at him too but he didn't respond. He just walked away.

I'm not in support of the guy insulting the lady by calling her bitch or any abusive words. But i still give the guy kudos for quickly walking when he sees that she was not excited about talking to him.

A smart dude always respect himself by quickly leaving ladies who aren't excited about talking to him and only go for girls that isn't make things unnecessary difficult for him.


"But Pukkalolo, I don't really want the girls that want me?"

Dude, you should face reality. And that's purpose of the redpill: facing reality.

Reality check 1:

Stop wasting your attention on the ladies who don't want you. You should learn love the girl that wants you because that's the girl that will give you peace of mind in the long run.

Reality check 2:

But If you don't want the girls that loves you because they seem unattractive to you, it's fine. Just Focus on improving your life i.e your finance, your IQ, your body, your confidence, your health...and eventually the ones you actually want will start noticing you.

You should never chase any girl, instead chase other worthwhile and important things in life.


It's better you jerk off to porn than to waste your time and Airtime texting or calling a lady that doesn't wants you.

You're actually right and i don't know all these before but i actually go for girls that has interest in me most time.
Most of all my girlfriends ask me out and i ask few out.
But these days girls green light is turn off for me i can't count girls i had get irritated with their Green light.

n't[/b]t's better you jerk off to porn than to
waste your time and Airtime texting
or calling a lady that doesn't wants
you.


Lol this last part made me smile. better to go for a girl who is into you than someone who isn't. true wisdom

How do u know the ladies that loves u if they hidding it..@pukkalolo

youngZee23:
How do u know the ladies that loves u if they hidding it..@pukkalolo

It's very easy. In less than 10 minutes of interacting with a girl I can know if she's into me

I do this by asking her certain questions or saying things that'll will trigger her emotions and inspire her to open up quickly...

I don't want spilled everything here because I've already covered this topic in Shameless Approach.

Here is that part of the book I screenshot.