pls, i need advice from you guys

My very close friend met this guy and few months after, he proposed.
Thru out the dating period, d guy did not make love to this girl cos he told her that he is a christian and a virgin
he said he only wants to make love to her on their wedding night but that didnt stop him from showering lots and lots of gifts on her.
my friend was so happy and she kept telling me how happy and lucky she was to hv found such a man
and i thot d same way too cos its hard to c a man of today refusing to Be Intimate wit their girls.
they courted for another 4months b4 they got married
2weeks after their wedding i saw my friend again, she didnt look like d happy girl i know
and wen i asked her what the problem was,i was shocked at what she told me
she told me amidst tears that her husband cant perform sexually in bed
she told me d reason he refused Being Intimate with her was because he didnt want her to find out and leave him
and since divorce is out of question,she is worried sick!
she told her mother who told her to pray to God for a miracle
she has been praying but nothing is coming out of it
they hv gone to see different people for help and nothing is happening
its been more than 6months since they got married and nothing!
my friend cries night and day cos she wont bring herself to cheat on him and she cant divorce him either cos her parents refused
im the one to cries to all the time,i dont kw wat else to say to her, pls nairalanders i need your earnest advice

let cork finish his rice and goat meat, then he would come and help service your friend! @ corky, you would need lots of engine oil cos dat place go don rust for lack of usuage for over a year

But seriuosly , She has to either divorce him or live with his and carry her cross. adultery is a sin before God and there is no moral justification for it. i feel for her.

well this is a pathetic situation, but please,

is it he cant perform at all or he cannot satisfy her

clarify

she said he cant perform at all.

that wen its up and he tries inserting it,it goes limp

cynthoney:

pls, i need advice from you guys

they hv gone to see different people for help and nothing is happening
its been more than 6months since they got married and nothing!
my friend cries night and day cos she wont bring herself to cheat on him and she cant divorce him either cos her parents refused
im the one to cries to all the time,i dont kw wat else to say to her, pls nairalanders i need your earnest advice

what different people have they gone to see ? i noticed you didn't mention a doctor. Have they ever heard of viagra?
tell that man to go for a check up as in his blood pressure ask him to find out if he has diabetes change his diet exercise etc get viagra as assistance they shouldn't be ashamed of that and most of all she needs to keep their bedroom biz private

its her fault, she shud have asked to see it rise,

she wanted good man, they have gone extinct

Since the wedding is not yet up to year she can have the marriage cancelled instead of a divorce.
But if all that fails then she should wait for Mr Cork

Mynd_44:

Since the wedding is not yet up to year she can have the marriage cancelled instead of a divorce.
But if all that fails then she should wait for Mr Cork

haba! guys i am serious!!!

my friend is in agony and misery

i really want to help her d best way i can

pls,just tell me what to tell her

Anull the fricking marriage and go her way. The man has had it coming when he lied to her

cynthoney:

she said he cant perform at all.

that wen its up and he tries inserting it,it goes limp

so much for sex only in marriage,

but seriously her faith in God will go a long way here,

if she is the practical type, then she better find her way right now,

op
tell her 2 be a sugar mummy.

Why should d husband lie since he is a christian dats very bad of him?

I know of a similar case.The wife gave up and told the guy tht she had feelings too but he cant satisfy her.
The guy cried like a baby.
But why did this dude lie to the gal? Thats like a trap! It's not really fair.He ought to have sought help but trapping a gal like that cz he fears rejection isnt a good thing. I imagine a gal failing to tell a guy that she cant conceive cz she fears rejection! wht happens if he discovers later after marriage?
I feel soryy for her,angry at the dude but I have no solution.

First and foremost,i wuld say d guys been unfaithful 2 her rite frm d begining.cs obiviously he knws hes impotant and he kept it away 4rm her which is so unfair.
secondly he laid a bad foundation 4 d relatnshp.nw my candid advice 2 d lady is to tel him dt since she wants a child of her own,she can go for a donor sperm or she adopts a child.

cynthoney:

she said he cant perform at all.

that wen its up and he tries inserting it,it goes limp

How common is this? What a nightmare. Maybe it's an undiagnosed medical condition like high blood pressure or something. He is dead wrong for not telling her. There are frigid women out there who lay down like a stiff log under their husbands and would rather have sex once a month or not at all. A woman like that would love to have a man like him.

A woman with a healthy sexual appetite would lose her mind fairly quickly. Imagine laying down next to her own husband's body every night and being frustrated. She needs to seek a divorce.

MzDarkSkin:

^^ finally! a post that is not about punny and other 'unmentionables' from MMM!

Becos punny/pu5-5y is involved already.