Maybe you are becoming too much of a liability. Go get a job. Try to be financially independent of him or even be financially committed in the relationship & see if it is still redeemable.
Your idea of 'attention' seems to be the money and gifts you get from him. You sound so much like the typical shallow, selfish, lazy and worthless Nigerian girl. Apologies if I sound harsh, but please change the image you project of yourself if you want a better chance at a good deal with men.
I also hope he is not a Yahoo plus boyfriend who has milked all he wants from your destiny and moved on.

orohbiro:
I met this guy last year at the shopping more we became an item, he even bought me iPhone pro max on my birthday he has be showing me care and all that.

But for the past 3 weeks the attention has reduce I think he is seeing another Lady he normally send me money month Ending to make my hair but he didn't send me money this past February he work at a construction company I don't want to loose him and I don't want to fight with another lady because of a man if I find him with any.

What should I do please and getting tired of the whole thing. It took him 2 months to win my heart.

I bet you have given him your goodies. Don’t worry if your goodies was any good, he’ll be back.

chatinent:

You donnn mean it.


Ok?

You don't want to lose your newly found BankPHB you met in the more and became an item.

No go find work. Dey there dey swallow another person money dey claim female upandan. E go clear.

lmao
ode ni e

Go and buy kayamata and thank me later.

orohbiro:
I met this guy last year at the shopping more we became an item, he even bought me iPhone pro max on my birthday he has be showing me care and all that.

But for the past 3 weeks the attention has reduce I think he is seeing another Lady he normally send me money month Ending to make my hair but he didn't send me money this past February he work at a construction company I don't want to loose him and I don't want to fight with another lady because of a man if I find him with any.

What should I do please and getting tired of the whole thing. It took him 2 months to win my heart.

He don dey play sportybet

First become a proper wife material to him, he gives you money for hair and all that, in the real sense he wants to see your intellectual prowess and what you can do with the monies he's been giving you. If he really wants you to make your hair, he'd take you to the saloon. He was giving you the monies to see the true wife and mother values in you and I'm afraid another gei is leading the race.

orohbiro:
I met this guy last year at the shopping more we became an item, he even bought me iPhone pro max on my birthday he has be showing me care and all that.

But for the past 3 weeks the attention has reduce I think he is seeing another Lady he normally send me money month Ending to make my hair but he didn't send me money this past February he work at a construction company I don't want to loose him and I don't want to fight with another lady because of a man if I find him with any.

What should I do please and getting tired of the whole thing. It took him 2 months to win my heart.

you too, stop giving him attention

orohbiro:
I met this guy last year at the shopping more we became an item, he even bought me iPhone pro max on my birthday he has be showing me care and all that.

But for the past 3 weeks the attention has reduce I think he is seeing another Lady he normally send me money month Ending to make my hair but he didn't send me money this past February he work at a construction company I don't want to loose him and I don't want to fight with another lady because of a man if I find him with any.

What should I do please and getting tired of the whole thing. It took him 2 months to win my heart.

kaymart:

Stupid advice...
A guy got tired of a liability...
U are asking her to add bad character to her already miserable life just to make her even miserable. Ur sanity need to be checked...

Come and check it for me na Oniranu

Ndidi2:
May your days be looooong
Iseeeeee....

Iseeeeee Nwannem

orohbiro:
I met this guy last year at the shopping more we became an item, he even bought me iPhone pro max on my birthday he has be showing me care and all that.

But for the past 3 weeks the attention has reduce I think he is seeing another Lady he normally send me money month Ending to make my hair but he didn't send me money this past February he work at a construction company I don't want to loose him and I don't want to fight with another lady because of a man if I find him with any.

What should I do please and getting tired of the whole thing. It took him 2 months to win my heart.

You must have offended him but you don't want to tell us your faulty part. Women are very good in playing the victim game.

orohbiro:
I met this guy last year at the shopping more we became an item, he even bought me iPhone pro max on my birthday he has be showing me care and all that.

But for the past 3 weeks the attention has reduce I think he is seeing another Lady he normally send me money month Ending to make my hair but he didn't send me money this past February he work at a construction company I don't want to loose him and I don't want to fight with another lady because of a man if I find him with any.

What should I do please and getting tired of the whole thing. It took him 2 months to win my heart.

He must have listened to Shola advice on twitter

NnamdiN:
Wait for another construction worker , that one is gone.
Things are hard now If it's not his money you miss, tell him to stop sending you money and iPhone until he gets back on his feet

Nairalanders you people give me so much joy, can't stop laughing while reading comments on this post. "wait for another construction worker" what if another one no show? Opportunity comes but once, let my babe hold this one tight.

Senomi:
Fear anything that bleeds for 3-5 days and doesn't die

hahahahahahaah.... Comrade calm down nah biko

orohbiro:
I met this guy last year at the shopping more we became an item, he even bought me iPhone pro max on my birthday he has be showing me care and all that.

But for the past 3 weeks the attention has reduce I think he is seeing another Lady he normally send me money month Ending to make my hair but he didn't send me money this past February he work at a construction company I don't want to loose him and I don't want to fight with another lady because of a man if I find him with any.

What should I do please and getting tired of the whole thing. It took him 2 months to win my heart.

You be a financial sucking ashawo, Some guys can be dumb

But the guy is stupid, if all he wanted to do was to play with your heart...

Try reaching out to him and if he doesn't respond positively, please move on my dear

Life goes on...

Time is counted forward, not backward..

Or maybe, the guy don realize say u be witch...na why e japa

You ladies think having a boyfriend is a solution to your financial problems.

Nicepoker:
He sends you money every month end to make your HEAD dummy.

You don poke am

You don't want to loose him because you love him abi na because " Him dey supply all your needs according to his riches in glory"😏😏😏😏😏😏😏😏😏😏😏

Iyaebe:
You are the cause because you made him comfortable in the relationship, when a man is too comfortable in a relationship, he begins to misbehave.Dy shake am from time to time,dy dish am trouble at least twice a month,na wetin dem dy like bdat

Some men just want peace of mind, if you give me trouble, I move on with another girl sharp sharp.

Mercychen:
Have you caught him red handed cheating or you're only suspecting him?

Give him time to see if he'll come around. If he doesn't, move on without confronting him.

Men are like that. When they're still trying to test their wooing prowess and you're unfortunate to be caught in it, this is usually the case cos before you know it they are on to the next prey after conquering you.

So, try not to get caught up in their silly games. Be watchful. Men are players.

Of a truth, your advice is truly based on personal experience oh! Some men really played you; all men are not players, please stop generalizing ok, thank you.

Ara21:


Nairalanders you people give me so much joy, can't stop laughing while reading comments on this post. "wait for another construction worker" what if another one no show? Opportunity comes but once, let my babe hold this one tight.

lol isn't it obvious it's the goodies she's missing ? if another one no show make she enter construction industry full time. It's like there's money for iPhone and human hair there

Comrades.. Abeg make una take am easy

Una Wan kill dis gurl

chatinent:

You donnn mean it.


Ok?

You don't want to lose your newly found BankPHB you met in the more and became an item.

No go find work. Dey there dey swallow another person money dey claim female upandan. E go clear.

Bro you have become my number 1 go to guy for analysis like this......

Only a foolish man worship a woman. What do you have to be worshipped? Your hairs, Kpekus, mouth all smell bad. There is nothing to worship in a woman that's why Billionaires are divorcing their wives. Sorry to break the news to you but there is absolutely nothing special in a woman. The only women that deserves little respect are mothers. A man that worships a woman is already dead and walking all

AoifeNightfall:
Ignore him.

That's what I did to my boyfriend, now we are exes. Don't take shit from any motherfucker.

He is supposed to worship you. If he doesn't, dump his sorry ass without remorse. You'll surely find someone better. Trust me.

orohbiro:
I met this guy last year at the shopping more we became an item, he even bought me iPhone pro max on my birthday he has be showing me care and all that.

But for the past 3 weeks the attention has reduce I think he is seeing another Lady he normally send me money month Ending to make my hair but he didn't send me money this past February he work at a construction company I don't want to loose him and I don't want to fight with another lady because of a man if I find him with any.

What should I do please and getting tired of the whole thing. It took him 2 months to win my heart.

Your concerns is your backside...you seem to have no other thing to offer...you may have lost him...live with that!

Lolzzz he tried doing all that you mentioned for you and he is not having your attention anymore..

Have you asked yourself that what have I done for this guy ever since we met

If a girl should stand at every end of receiving without giving out too a guy will see her as a shit girl who thinks it's just sèx to give to a real niggarrr

Go and rest Madam

chiefolododo:
you too, stop giving him attention

How's that even possible? He practically bought her loyalty with iphone pro max and money for her head...now he doesn't need her attention...

Mercychen:
Have you caught him red handed cheating or you're only suspecting him?

Give him time to see if he'll come around. If he doesn't, move on without confronting him.

Men are like that. When they're still trying to test their wooing prowess and you're unfortunate to be caught in it, this is usually the case cos before you know it they are on to the next prey after conquering you.

So, try not to get caught up in their silly games. Be watchful. Men are players.

With the way she has proven herself to be a liability to him, trust me he's not gonna come back. A guy might be giving you cash but their love will gradually fade away with time once they realize you're there to sap on him and you're not contributing anything meaningful to his life. Sex is not a contribution btw. It's a mutual thing which both parties enjoy. Let her tell me at least three valuable things she contributes to this guy's life on a daily basis and I'd tell you 100% why this guy would never leave her.

Iyaebe:
You are the cause because you made him comfortable in the relationship, when a man is too comfortable in a relationship, he begins to misbehave.Dy shake am from time to time,dy dish am trouble at least twice a month,na wetin dem dy like bdat

a fool at 40 is a fool for.........

Candidlady:



Shut your filthy mouth kiddo

Opsss... why this one touch you nah lol