They are not the first, neither would they be the last.

opera1:
Honestly. No award or grade is being added to the wedding certificate.
#4 million, same certificate.
#1million, same certificate.
#500k same certificate.
#200k, same certificate
50k
25k still the same type of wedding certificate.

BINGO!

What is the sense in paying more for something you don't need to pay more for?

placeofallure:
1. Exactly! My mum told me that traditional marriage is the real deal. The rest are formalities. After my traditional marriage, in the evening I waved at my husband that we'll see later, my mum shouted for where? You're going with him! You don't have a place here anymore. That was how I left house with little or nothing cause I wasn't prepared. I later came for my things.

2. Even as I type now, the memory is bringing tears to my eyes. I wanted to get married, I was excited about marriage but I wasn't prepared to leave my mom and everyone else. So I thought I'll just throw the party, everyone would eat then I'll return to being my normal self. I was shocked! We were already living together before we did the church and court wedding courtesy my mum. Cheers to her, sweet mum!

1. Your mother lied to you much like most women out there were also lied to in that there same Nigeria..

If she had told you, for example that by opting for traditional law, your husband is allowed by law to marry other wives and divorce you without a dime when he So chooses, something that can't happen had you opted for the registry affair, would you have seen your traditional the same way?

2. Remembering a ceremony does that but it does not make it any more than just that, a ceremony..

No. She just clung to low-hanging fruits

I can see the child she's holding who is at least 3 years old. You impregnated her
, she bore you a child and you both have been cohabiting with everyone calling her your wife.

So when you suggested making it legal after her hinting it, she just went for the quickest option which legalises the role she's already settled into and allows her wear a ring without seeming too desperate.

Happy married life. When financial success comes your way, have a proper marriage anniversary even once with friends and family.

Women cherish these things. It's not the money- it's the feeling of being wedded.

What will you use to hold body and soul in your marriage.You are having the mentality that God will provide for you needs.Then nine months later you give birth to triplets or quadraplets and you start begging for alms

Kobojunkie:
Which bride price again? This here is meant as an alternative to your traditional marriages.

You can choose to either marry through the

1. traditional route
2. Church marriage
3. Registry or court marriage.

You only need do just one to be married.

For ur marriage to be legal, u must have done marriage as to custom and done the traditional rites .ask a lawyer, before u sound uninformed

losak9111:
Don't kill yourself because of high standard of life without high level of cash.
This my wedding cost me less than twenty-five thousand naira (#25,000).
Simple dress, the one I have on my hanger,
The best thing is that am happy with my wife.
In fact, no food, no even pure water and no cameraman I used my phone.
Na only thank you for coming

I'm all for low-key, but this is not it abeg.

Congratulations

MY guy wan marry fine gal for church. Fine gal come turn Instagram slay queen. Wedding costs don reach 11 Million. Bros must pay oo
I just hope say the poonani ready anytime him wan chop sha.

Zetty177x:
For ur marriage to be legal, u must have done marriage as to custom and done the traditional r.ask a lawyer, before u sound uninformed

Wrong! For your marriage to be legal in Nigeria, what you need is to simply apply for a license which is the same document those who go straight to the marriage registry sign.

A registry marriage involves the signing of a marriage license by a couple. That is the most basic of marriages.

Your traditional marriages involves your traditional ceremonies(with applications of laws) carried out in addition to signing the same marriage license those who held to the registry also sign.

Congratulation...this is the kind of wedding that I will do ooo

Kobojunkie:
1. My dad wore regular suit and tire, and my mum wore her regular outfits - they became husband and wife in the 1970s Nigeria.

2. You are not making any sense here.

3. You actually think any of what you have claimed so far makes any sense?

you're dumb and foolish at the same time, you just address my point in your number 1 point. what I'm telling the Op is that even if he's not doing party, he can still dress either in his traditional attire or white dress and take nice pics just for future sighting, don't you see the picture of your parents that you're now making reference of?



why are many of you always typing when your mental provider is unavailable? should I be stressing myself in verbatim expression because of some group of low IQ on this forum


guy no let me go out of civil for you o, I hate imbecilic and unnecessary mentions from brain dead specimen like you

majamajic:


Not only that . It looked like a fairly used marriage

Do you want to make Heaven like this?

MYHUBBY:
1. you're dumb and foolish at the same time, you just address my point in your number 1 point. what I'm telling the Op is that even if he's not doing party, he can still dress either in his traditional attire or white dress and take nice pics just for future sighting, don't you see the picture of your parents that you're now making reference of?

2. why are many of you always typing when your mental provider is available? should I be stressing myself in verbatim expression because of some group of low IQ on this forum

3. guy no let me go out of civil for you o, I hate imbecilic and unnecessary mentions from brain dead specimen like you

1. My parents did not wear anything special on their day nor did they wear any traditional attire. At least try to comprehend what is posted before rattling off.

2. Look whose talking !

3. Learn to comprehend what is written before responding.

losak9111:
Don't kill yourself because of high standard of life without high level of cash.
This my wedding cost me less than twenty-five thousand naira (#25,000).
Simple dress, the one I have on my hanger,
The best thing is that am happy with my wife.
In fact, no food, no even pure water and no cameraman I used my phone.
Na only thank you for coming

You could have at least tucked in your shirt. You look like you got picked off the road by your wife.

Ishilove:

I'm all for low-key, but this is not it abeg.

Congratulations

That depends on what the couple wants.

merits:

No food no pure water,how come it costs you 25k, just tell us you did the marriage on credit simple.

Registration fees 15K
And others small small expenses.

E be like say na secondhand wife you marry o.

majamajic:


Not only that . It looked like a fairly used marriage

Congrats....abi you cannot kill yourself because you cannot organize an expensive wedding....at least with 5,000 naira one can organize a simple wedding like this

Kingpee2:
This guy ehn,do you mean Tokunbo or Nigeria used?

Nigerian used

Why do you look shakushaku? U and your wife should have worn something better.

Nice..

90 percent of dislike to this wedding comes from kids that their parents are still feeding them.



They don't know how far.. LoL



Even people wey get money no dey loud am any longer unless those social media bragging gals and boiz

Nigerians and holding everyone to their arbitrary standards.
Husband is happy, wife is happy and fellow Nigerians are pissed

Kobojunkie:
BINGO!

What is the sense in paying more for something you don't need to pay more for?

You practically lack sense and your abusive nature tells the family that you came from.

Poverty is bad. But, it is better to also cut your coat according to your size.

Kobojunkie:
You for show am pictures of other couples were do the same for Ikoyi.

dey wait

Kobojunkie:
1. My parents did not wear anything special on their day nor did they wear any traditional attire. At least try to comprehend what is posted before rattling off.

2. Look whose talking !

3. Learn to comprehend what is written before responding.

so this is not moderate and special? they should register you in special school, I don't think you have a working brain

Kate06:


Congrats on your wedding...na the kind wedding I wan do be this...I no get millions to waste for one retired slay queen.

Bros u funny ooh...