Bluezy13:
I have never falling in love before.
But I can go out of my way to please any woman who is caring and free with me such that it will seem I am emotionally attached but in reality, I am just having fun.

Any woman who can argue with me morning, afternoon and evening... intellectual argument...has a special place in my heart. But sadly, out of sight is out of mind. I am a quiet person and an introvert. But any lady that breaks her way into my life never regrets it. I think more than I talk and I easily perceive ingenuity in women. But I will not let you know that I know you more than you think I do. I will play along.

I always advise any woman that comes my way never to take me seriously... because I will not feel your pain when you think your heart is broken.
Never think I am into you...I am only having fun and your free mind with me is enough for me. And please, try and be stubborn in your own way with principles...you must not always agree with me. Argue your way out for crying out!!!
It is not about winning the argument but simply showing you have a mind of your own can argue constructively, is enough.

No matter how close we are, you get to know you never really mattered to me when you are out of my sight for a short period of time because I may never call you... I hardly call nor text. That doesn't mean that I avoid you..., Nay, I simply don't feel the importance of calling you.
My advise is that you grab what you can grab while you are still with me. And some women have been lucky and reasonable enough to do just that.

Woww. Lovely.

Magnoliaa:


Woww. Lovely.

Bluezy13:
I have never falling in love before...

Bluezy13:
Wait for me...

Bluezy13:
I have never falling in love before.
But I can go out of my way to please any woman who is caring and free with me such that it will seem I am emotionally attached but in reality, I am just having fun.

Any woman who can argue with me morning, afternoon and evening... intellectual argument...has a special place in my heart. But sadly, out of sight is out of mind. I am a quiet person and an introvert. But any lady that breaks her way into my life never regrets it. I think more than I talk and I easily perceive ingenuity in women. But I will not let you know that I know you more than you think I do. I will play along.

I always advise any woman that comes my way never to take me seriously... because I will not feel your pain when you think your heart is broken.
Never think I am into you...I am only having fun and your free mind with me is enough for me. And please, try and be stubborn in your own way with principles...you must not always agree with me. Argue your way out for crying out!!!
It is not about winning the argument but simply showing you have a mind of your own can argue constructively, is enough.

No matter how close we are, you get to know you never really mattered to me when you are out of my sight for a short period of time because I may never call you... I hardly call nor text. That doesn't mean that I avoid you..., Nay, I simply don't feel the importance of calling you.
My advise is that you grab what you can grab while you are still with me. And some women have been lucky and reasonable enough to do just that.

Magnoliaa:


But wait, why did you comment on this thread as if you were lending credence to what the OP posted, but on another thread, having gone through your recent posts admittedly, you were thrashing zodiac signs?? (I think you did comment something like that. I'm not sure now).

Bluezy13:
(1) The OP started by saying that an Aquarius can be in a relationship that can lead to something serious.
Which of course it's false from experience.

(2) The four strategies listed in the link do not totally tally with my experience and personality.

The essence of my write-up is to prove that the characteristics assumed to be exhibited by Aquarius with respect to emotional attachment and relationship do not apply in totality, hence Zodiac signs are not dependable either as a guideline or as a criterion for livelihood.
Now, in other not to give room for critics, the believers of Zodiac signs would add that the characteristics are applicable but not in all cases.
When you believe in something and it fails you, then that thing is not worth believing in.

Magnoliaa:


Hmmmm. I see.

@bolded, like God?

Bluezy13:
Well, I never believed in God, so God never failed me.

You were born an atheist, ba? Abi you started questioning the society as you drop from womb? You didn't pass through socialisation?

Magnoliaa:


You were born an atheist, ba? Abi you started questioning the society as you drop from womb? You didn't pass through socialisation?

Bluezy13:
Neither of the first two above, but on the third; well, I passed through socialization but it never did affect my religious view.

Do you think "Zodiac signs" is a determining factor of humanity with respect to socialization, materialization, intellectuality and personality ??

Magnoliaa:


Okay.



When you put it like this, no. Absolutely no. I don't think that. I am fascinated with it, though, and a buddette (a female buddy) on here is totally into it. Amazon Topaz. She's intelligent and everything, so I'm always left in awe seeing how much she believes in it and talk about itsk determining factor. So while for me it has no realistic bearing, I still have like a 2% benefit of doubt slot for it. Just for humor. I do think psychological categorizations are a thing though, and there are some that are standardised and scientific, BUT all of them: psychological typings, humans' classifications, zodiac signs, etc., still cannot fully predict and describe humans.

You'll find a successful figure of every Zodiac sign, yet these writings will tell you that, "oh, a particular sign is more driven and wired for success."

So many people in the world do not give a damn about the signs, don't even know about it and act in ways 100% different to what their birth month reads and they are still running shit fine, making moves, running the world, making money, driving social change, determining the fate of the world in which the Zodiac signs believers live in, etc., etc.

Bluezy13:
Nevertheless, I wish to know if you would mind meeting a partner...a life partner...who shares the astrological views.
Do you think his views would affect you ?

I have met someone like that. Not a life partner, but someone I like and considered dating. He was not into it like the whole "determiner" and control and be all of his life. From relationships to marriage to other spheres of life. NO, I cannot be with a religious believer of Zodiac signs and some esoteric things, chakra, crystal balls, new age energy, card reading, those stuff na. Aside the fact that I'm a Christian, I cannot date someone like that as a cerebral being.

I don't see myself being with someone whovm doesn't take responsibilities but blame stars or attribute events to them... nah.

The person I am talking about holds such astrological views, but I can't tell how much or it he holds because he wasn't some crazed fanatic. It hardly ever came up in our conversations...so it wasn't some pesky trait.

His views didn't affect me. It can't affect me. But I used them as an "hack" or lift or something like that from time to time when I'm relating with him. It doesn't hurt. I read things about my own Zodiac sign too some time, and I find some accurate. Even if the means aren't scientific, it says things are already are and true about myself. I am not the way I am because I read such; I already am.

So for the parts that are accurate about me, I like to know the same about others too.

So it'll not affect me in a drastic or fundamental way to modify or alter me really, but it'll just be a consideration that takes some little space in my mind.

Magnoliaa:


I have met someone like that. Not a life partner, but someone I like and considered dating. He was not into it like the whole "determiner" and control and be all of his life. From relationships to marriage to other spheres of life. NO, I cannot be with a religious believer of Zodiac signs and some esoteric things, chakra, crystal balls, new age energy, card reading, those stuff na. Aside the fact that I'm a Christian, I cannot date someone like that as a cerebral being.

I don't see myself being with someone whovm doesn't take responsibilities but blame stars or attribute events to them... nah.

The person I am talking about holds such astrological views, but I can't tell how much or it he holds because he wasn't some crazed fanatic. It hardly ever came up in our conversations...so it wasn't some pesky trait.

His views didn't affect me. It can't affect me. But I used them as an "hack" or lift or something like that from time to time when I'm relating with him. It doesn't hurt. I read things about my own Zodiac sign too some time, and I find some accurate. Even if the means aren't scientific, it says things are already are and true about myself. I am not the way I am because I read such; I already am.

So for the parts that are accurate about me, I like to know the same about others too.

So it'll not affect me in a drastic or fundamental way to modify or alter me really, but it'll just be a consideration that takes some little space in my mind.

Bluezy13:
Wow...
Interesting.
You are open minded and the same time defensive of the circumference of your... personality ("principles" would be a better word). More like "do your thing but don't let it affect me" notion.

This view has made me want to know if you will be comfortable with a career life partner who understands you or preferably a "house" life partner who understands you.
I suppose you could help me out on that one.

You got it.

All these help I've been helping you, nibo lo ma jasi bayi?

Are you casting me for a role ni? Abi, you get company wey you want me to come and ahead? Abi you get arranged marriage package for me? Shey na rich big man? Abi you're carrying out a social research and I'm a participant? Wey my contract and benefits?

Magnoliaa:


You got it.

All these help I've been helping you, nibo lo ma jasi bayi?

Are you casting me for a role ni? Abi, you get company wey you want me to come and ahead? Abi you get arranged marriage package for me? Shey na rich big man? Abi you're carrying out a social research and I'm a participant? Wey my contract and benefits?