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In Japan, 1 In 4 Singles In Their 30s Doesn't Want To Get Married: See Why by 10mobile: 2:45pm On Oct 16, 2022
In Japan, 1 In 4 Singles In Their 30s Doesn't Want To Get Married: See Why

A few days ago, many of us read about a Nigerian lady who was lamenting that she would soon be 30 and has never been married or had any kid.

May be, the lady and others like her can take some solace from this: 25% of Japanese their age are thinking differently, reports the Insider:

In Japan, one in four singles in their 30s is unwilling to get married, a government survey found.

Japan's Gender Equality Bureau Cabinet Office released the survey findings in a white paper published on June 14. The survey gathered responses from 20,000 people, ranging from those in their 20s to those in their 60s, in December and January.

While the percentage of women and men in their 30s who say they have no intention of getting married is similar at 25.4% and 26.5% respectively, their reasons for not tying the knot are different.

The majority of surveyed women who said they don't want to get married said they feel they have to shoulder the responsibility of housework, childcare, and long-term care of their partners when married, the survey found.

The study found that women are also resistant to marriage due to the trouble of changing their last names. Under Japan's civil code and family register law, families have to have a single surname — and it's usually the wives who have to change their last names.

The surveyed single Japanese men, on the other hand, said they were unwilling to marry because they desired freedom or lacked financial power and job security to support married life.

In addition, 36.2% of men between the ages of 20 and 39 said they simply had not met someone they liked enough to marry. This could be because they've never dated: Researchers conducting the survey found that roughly 35% of unmarried Japanese men in their 30s have never been on a date.

In Asian countries, people rarely have children outside of marriage. And Japan's already low birth rate is expected to fall further as more people are unwilling to marry. Experts are warning that together with the country's declining population, Japan may have to brace itself for labor shortages and long-term economic problems in the future as birth rates continue to fall.


Source: https://www.insider.com/japan-dating-singles-30s-survey-unwilling-to-get-married-freedom-2022-6?dc_data=18237197_xiaomi-lockscreen-nigeria&utm_source=copy-link&utm_medium=referral&cex=true&ui=adf581949d7b240d0c7c0fe57342e9c4215ee3fe33064bdf19e1b320046b2043&utm_content=topbar

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Re: In Japan, 1 In 4 Singles In Their 30s Doesn't Want To Get Married: See Why by Aareakinwunmi(m): 3:02pm On Oct 16, 2022
Not every woman with will be married. Those who won't need to find solace in other things.

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Re: In Japan, 1 In 4 Singles In Their 30s Doesn't Want To Get Married: See Why by kozmicity: 3:03pm On Oct 16, 2022
10mobile:
In Japan, 1 In 4 Singles In Their 30s Doesn't Want To Get Married: See Why

A few days ago, many of us read about a Nigerian lady who was lamenting that she would soon be 30 and has never been married or had any kid.

May be, the lady and others like her can take some solace from this: 25% of Japanese their age are thinking differently, reports the Insider:



Source: https://www.insider.com/japan-dating-singles-30s-survey-unwilling-to-get-married-freedom-2022-6?dc_data=18237197_xiaomi-lockscreen-nigeria&utm_source=copy-link&utm_medium=referral&cex=true&ui=adf581949d7b240d0c7c0fe57342e9c4215ee3fe33064bdf19e1b320046b2043&utm_content=topbar





Time to japa grin grin

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Re: In Japan, 1 In 4 Singles In Their 30s Doesn't Want To Get Married: See Why by Botking: 3:27pm On Oct 16, 2022
Dey don't want to marry, but dey like to fvck, lol, the only thing their government can do to remedy the declining factor is to ban contraceptive

Well at the end of the day Indian and other people will take over their country, and their heritage will goes unto oblivion

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Re: In Japan, 1 In 4 Singles In Their 30s Doesn't Want To Get Married: See Why by 10mobile: 3:38pm On Oct 16, 2022
Aareakinwunmi:
Not every woman with will be married.
Those who won't need to find solace in other things.
This isn't about women. It's about SINGLES (men and women).

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Re: In Japan, 1 In 4 Singles In Their 30s Doesn't Want To Get Married: See Why by jjcena(m): 3:40pm On Oct 16, 2022
They can't force them to marry. They will soon run out of labor force Since they rarely have kids outside marriage. I guess they'll have to turn to foreign recruitment

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Re: In Japan, 1 In 4 Singles In Their 30s Doesn't Want To Get Married: See Why by 10mobile: 3:45pm On Oct 16, 2022
kozmicity:



Time to japa grin grin
Japa to Japan?

this should make fp to balance the effects of the other post where a Nigerian lady was lamenting. You never can tell how many people are committing suicides for not getting married. 30 years of age is not too much to warrant a lady crying on social media. Some other people may not say it out but could DO horrible things. Thanks.

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Re: In Japan, 1 In 4 Singles In Their 30s Doesn't Want To Get Married: See Why by Weirdcamila: 3:51pm On Oct 16, 2022
Africans rush into marriage thinking it’s some sort of achievement.

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Re: In Japan, 1 In 4 Singles In Their 30s Doesn't Want To Get Married: See Why by kozmicity: 4:00pm On Oct 16, 2022
10mobile:

Japa to Japan?

Nlfpmod, Seun, Lalasticlala, Mynd44 this should make fp to balance the effects of the other post where a Nigerian lady was lamenting. You never can tell how many people are committing suicides for not getting married. 30 years of age is not too much to warrant a lady crying on social media. Some other people may not say it out but could DO horrible things. Thanks.
Na better labour market be that oo

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Re: In Japan, 1 In 4 Singles In Their 30s Doesn't Want To Get Married: See Why by Klington: 4:25pm On Oct 16, 2022
shocked
Re: In Japan, 1 In 4 Singles In Their 30s Doesn't Want To Get Married: See Why by TriitNG: 4:25pm On Oct 16, 2022
10mobile:
In Japan, 1 In 4 Singles In Their 30s Doesn't Want To Get Married: See Why

A few days ago, many of us read about a Nigerian lady who was lamenting that she would soon be 30 and has never been married or had any kid.

May be, the lady and others like her can take some solace from this: 25% of Japanese their age are thinking differently, reports the Insider:



Source: https://www.insider.com/japan-dating-singles-30s-survey-unwilling-to-get-married-freedom-2022-6?dc_data=18237197_xiaomi-lockscreen-nigeria&utm_source=copy-link&utm_medium=referral&cex=true&ui=adf581949d7b240d0c7c0fe57342e9c4215ee3fe33064bdf19e1b320046b2043&utm_content=topbar
Mental illness.

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Re: In Japan, 1 In 4 Singles In Their 30s Doesn't Want To Get Married: See Why by inoki247: 4:25pm On Oct 16, 2022
The same way wey be say no be everybody go get money na so marriage too be no be everybody go marry....


Buh one thing is certain Death so you people shuld rest....

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Re: In Japan, 1 In 4 Singles In Their 30s Doesn't Want To Get Married: See Why by GeneralPula: 4:26pm On Oct 16, 2022
Nature doesn’t understand English..

You’ll always miss the feeling of not having that special one regardless of how strong minded you’re !

It’s natural..

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Re: In Japan, 1 In 4 Singles In Their 30s Doesn't Want To Get Married: See Why by Faber(m): 4:26pm On Oct 16, 2022
grin

E dey this side sef
Re: In Japan, 1 In 4 Singles In Their 30s Doesn't Want To Get Married: See Why by Equity15(m): 4:26pm On Oct 16, 2022
Na wa
Re: In Japan, 1 In 4 Singles In Their 30s Doesn't Want To Get Married: See Why by Danisaint112(m): 4:27pm On Oct 16, 2022
What I have come to understand in this life is, not all women will get married. Some (a good amount) will definitely end up unmarried.

And this is a fact. One of the numerous reason is that the population of women is above that of men.

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Re: In Japan, 1 In 4 Singles In Their 30s Doesn't Want To Get Married: See Why by Moh247: 4:27pm On Oct 16, 2022
cool



People don dey download sense 5.0

If marriage was about money, Jeff Bezos, Dangote , Ellon Musk and Bill Gates won't be divorcee

If marriage was about beauty, Kim Kardashian, Amber Heard, Angelina Jolie won't be single


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Re: In Japan, 1 In 4 Singles In Their 30s Doesn't Want To Get Married: See Why by ecolime(m): 4:27pm On Oct 16, 2022
Japan's population has been shrinking year on year because of this and it's understandable. That of Naija is what I don't understand.

Nigerians are not getting married but our population is increasing exponentially despite the mass migration.

What's going on?

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Re: In Japan, 1 In 4 Singles In Their 30s Doesn't Want To Get Married: See Why by Praktikals(m): 4:27pm On Oct 16, 2022
More and more men are getting to realise that marriage na scam.

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Re: In Japan, 1 In 4 Singles In Their 30s Doesn't Want To Get Married: See Why by Conner44: 4:28pm On Oct 16, 2022
Weirdcamila:
Africans rush into marriage thinking it’s some sort of achievement.

I’m telling you, it’s a very terrible mentality that we have foisted on ourselves here. If you ask them why they got married when they are not financially stable you’d hear useless reasons like

“I don’t want to be old and training my children”

then I’d ask them ‘so you’d rather carry your wife and children along in your suffering and poverty days abi? no wahala’

Later you’d see them begging on social media and contemplating suicide. There’s even one of them here that married early and now opens threads begging for help upandan threatening suicide meanwhile that same person is campaigning for APC undecided

I won’t mention the person’s moniker.

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Re: In Japan, 1 In 4 Singles In Their 30s Doesn't Want To Get Married: See Why by Nobody: 4:29pm On Oct 16, 2022
That is Japan . In Japan incest isn't a crime ...

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Re: In Japan, 1 In 4 Singles In Their 30s Doesn't Want To Get Married: See Why by tolumizzy(m): 4:29pm On Oct 16, 2022
Wahala
Re: In Japan, 1 In 4 Singles In Their 30s Doesn't Want To Get Married: See Why by Risingblue008(m): 4:29pm On Oct 16, 2022
Re: In Japan, 1 In 4 Singles In Their 30s Doesn't Want To Get Married: See Why by dfrost: 4:29pm On Oct 16, 2022
undecided

Not a problem. Let them make their decision as it suits them. All I see is opportunity. Low birth rate in a country equals labour shortage as the article also agrees same.

Brethen, brace yourselves up for opportunities in Japan.

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Re: In Japan, 1 In 4 Singles In Their 30s Doesn't Want To Get Married: See Why by happney65: 4:29pm On Oct 16, 2022
They don realize before us say no be achievement na we still dey carry am for head like Gala

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Re: In Japan, 1 In 4 Singles In Their 30s Doesn't Want To Get Married: See Why by shantti(m): 4:29pm On Oct 16, 2022
Marriage have no relevance again. I won't marry either

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Re: In Japan, 1 In 4 Singles In Their 30s Doesn't Want To Get Married: See Why by tammie24: 4:29pm On Oct 16, 2022
The Japanese are weird

But really in Japan running a family is very expensive not like Nigeria where you breed anyhow

Marriage is very expensive too

Cost of hiring a lLawyer no be beans

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Re: In Japan, 1 In 4 Singles In Their 30s Doesn't Want To Get Married: See Why by IgbuduMonkey: 4:29pm On Oct 16, 2022
Then brace up for a depressing end to your life

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