TheManOfTheYear:
You're not a male, so you're in no position to talk on this.

Every man loves to see semen gush out after a successful orgasm. That feeling is something you can't relate to.

Hence my take, it is not so easy.

Wtf?

A. Successful orgasm

THANK GOD AND DANCE SERIOUSLY FOR YOU AND YOUR WIFE ARE HIGHLY FAVORED OF THE LORD.

JonOfAustrlia:
My wife got pregnant again even with an IUD. We werent planning for it. As these babies are so small and require so much care already.

Its not like raising them in the village. We live abroad and we dont get help. It means we always have to be with them if not for daycare but then we are working. We are already so tired.


I dont know if I am venting or asking for advice. We are grateful but we are so tired already... what to do...?

Oga why not use protection since IUD devices are not 100% effective? Or practice other means of contraception. I know abstinence is out of the picture.

Please keep the baby.

Thanks and God bless.

JonOfAustrlia:


Do you know any married people who use condoms abeg �

Just responding to the question you asked. Yes.

TheManOfTheYear:
You're not a male, so you're in no position to talk on this.

Every man loves to see semen gush out after a successful orgasm. That feeling is something you can't relate to.

Hence my take, it is not so easy.

So, it's okay for women to be loading their bodies with IUDs and birth control pills?

Wow.

JonOfAustrlia:
My wife got pregnant again even with an IUD. We werent planning for it. As these babies are so small and require so much care already.

Its not like raising them in the village. We live abroad and we dont get help. It means we always have to be with them if not for daycare but then we are working. We are already so tired.


I dont know if I am venting or asking for advice. We are grateful but we are so tired already... what to do...?

Get a family young member from the village to join u abroad to look after the kids. That may be cheaper long term for u guys.

Arizoner:
your favorite position?

Reverse Cowgirl

JonOfAustrlia:
My wife got pregnant again even with an IUD. We werent planning for it. As these babies are so small and require so much care already.

Its not like raising them in the village. We live abroad and we dont get help. It means we always have to be with them if not for daycare but then we are working. We are already so tired.


I dont know if I am venting or asking for advice. We are grateful but we are so tired already... what to do...?

I think you are lucky to be in the ''Abroad''. your wife don't need to take up any job for solid 10 years because of school runs and nanny fees. she can start online business to help with income and you need to tighten up your belt and get good jobs. The lord is your strenght. Just cut your coat according to your size and what's for you will never pass you by.

Take care and congratulation.

By the power vested in me I hereby pronounce you kpekus daddy

JonOfAustrlia:
My wife got pregnant again even with an IUD. We werent planning for it. As these babies are so small and require so much care already.

Its not like raising them in the village. We live abroad and we dont get help. It means we always have to be with them if not for daycare but then we are working. We are already so tired.

Send the 2 kids to naija.

JonOfAustrlia:


Abroad costs too much childcare is very expensive and also renting. Most oyinbos pay 30% of their income to just rent alone. All that glitters is not gold.

I don't mind coming to help you babysit for as long as you want.

Look for a nanny.
It is also an opportunity to bring to abroad a trusted family member, like a sister to come help as a Nanny.
The cost of paying a nanny abroad will be enough to facilitate the visa of the sister.

Your wife is like me, like hubby will always say 'we're proud pigs .

Abortion should be legal where you're, pls terminate it if you're not really really ready for it or get a nanny or family member that can help you.

JonOfAustrlia:


Do you know any married people who use condoms abeg �

Lots of them, look at where your nigga raw has led you. By the time you are through with this, all your hair will be grey. Next time, use condom, you won't die.

Did she impregnate herself?

Congrats on the addition. It has come to stay....I think implant is much better, only for the side effects on the woman.
Although, that can be managed.

Enjoy life while it last bro

JonOfAustrlia:
My wife got pregnant again even with an IUD. We werent planning for it. As these babies are so small and require so much care already.

Its not like raising them in the village. We live abroad and we dont get help. It means we always have to be with them if not for daycare but then we are working. We are already so tired.


I dont know if I am venting or asking for advice. We are grateful but we are so tired already... what to do...?

Just do let me come I will babysit for you for free.. when they are grown I can look for something doing .

Ezemarcel:
The reason I prefer implanon....it's more effective

But wait so even with IUD your wife is pregnant

That means you guys are knacking with reckless abandone

werey


Go into the world and knack

You will hurt yourself if that's the only place you find solace in attempt to avoid Buhari and the APC.

MrBrownJay1:


A) get better contraception
B) get an abortion
C) if you are that miserable taking care of two kids, imagine how it will be with 3 kids?!

SMH for you! Very ungodly counsel. This shows you have no regard for God's constitution.

Realmi:
This life no balance

Pikin wey people dey find...e reach ur turn u dey complain

God is merciful God

I tell you, make them send the pikin give me abeg, na beg i dey beg if them no want am.

JonOfAustrlia:
My wife got pregnant again even with an IUD. We werent planning for it. As these babies are so small and require so much care already.

Its not like raising them in the village. We live abroad and we dont get help. It means we always have to be with them if not for daycare but then we are working. We are already so tired.


I dont know if I am venting or asking for advice. We are grateful but we are so tired already... what to do...?

I can work as your Baby Sitter/Nanny.
I won't charge anything, but once your babies are up to age, then you could settle me with whatever you've got

JonOfAustrlia:
My wife got pregnant again even with an IUD. We werent planning for it. As these babies are so small and require so much care already.

Its not like raising them in the village. We live abroad and we dont get help. It means we always have to be with them if not for daycare but then we are working. We are already so tired.


I dont know if I am venting or asking for advice. We are grateful but we are so tired already... what to do...?

Is it your wife that is impregnating herself? Send me a picture of that child so that I will explain to him/her you really did not want him/her

JonOfAustrlia:


Do you know any married people who use condoms abeg �

Yes many. My uncles use. You wan born full everywhere?

Better still use the "A" in "ABC" - "Abstain"

JonOfAustrlia:
My wife got pregnant again even with an IUD. We werent planning for it. As these babies are so small and require so much care already.

Its not like raising them in the village. We live abroad and we dont get help. It means we always have to be with them if not for daycare but then we are working. We are already so tired.


I dont know if I am venting or asking for advice. We are grateful but we are so tired already... what to do...?

Consider a vasectomy at this point. So double protection.
Ask your wife what she wants to do about the pregnancy. She’s the one to decide

Terminate it if you can, don't listen to them saying theyre gift from God.

JonOfAustrlia:
My wife got pregnant again even with an IUD. We werent planning for it. As these babies are so small and require so much care already.

Its not like raising them in the village. We live abroad and we dont get help. It means we always have to be with them if not for daycare but then we are working. We are already so tired.


I dont know if I am venting or asking for advice. We are grateful but we are so tired already... what to do...?

JonOfAustrlia:
My wife got pregnant again even with an IUD. We werent planning for it. As these babies are so small and require so much care already.

Its not like raising them in the village. We live abroad and we dont get help. It means we always have to be with them if not for daycare but then we are working. We are already so tired.


I dont know if I am venting or asking for advice. We are grateful but we are so tired already... what to do...?

You need help bro.
If you're in Canada indicate

Op. The same way I felt on the news of our third son pregnancy. We both visit the doctor for abortion but the doctor advised we should keep it. Today, I am a proud father of three boys. Stay strong. You will be happy later.

quote author=Ezemarcel post=111334108]The reason I prefer implanon....it's more effective

But wait so even with IUD your wife is pregnant

That means you guys are knacking with reckless abandone[/quote]

Some medical scientists are of the opinion that the IUD doesn't prevent fertilisation of the egg, it more or less prevents implantation, while others argue that it really does prevent fertilisation. The debate is still on. And of course the IUD can and does fail, for several reasons!

Then stop puring inside

Arizoner:
I mounted my friend's wife day after she gave birth to a son

That must feel like diving into river Niger...

1,2,3....