If your partner is the love of your life but cannot have children, would you break things off?

this got me emotional..I will pass

op, am so sorry about your predicament

Wouldn't matter to me as I am not much of a family oriented guy.
Still thinking about how I would cope with a wife and kids running around me in circles doing daddy daddy up and down and me not having my space.
Even if I do then I don't think I'd want to live with them in the same house.

ChimasGirl:
If your partner is the love of your life but cannot have children, would you break things off?

Ofcourse not! There is adoption for those cases. Why give up on what could turn out the best kind of relationship ever if you don't have to?

Kobojunkie:
Ofcourse not! There is adoption for those cases. Why give up on what could turn out the best kind of relationship ever if you don't have to?

I know oh! Despite how difficult it is to find the one person who aligns with your views, values, and spec for a relationship.

For people who have a problem with adoption, the test is to ask what if they themselves were unable to have children. Would they still want a partner to stay with them? Many people are unable to have children due to no fault of their own.

ChimasGirl:
If your partner is the love of your life but cannot have children, would you break things off?

Love of your life.... not children maker of your life.
I hope I answered your question.

Techsupport:


Love of your life.... not children maker of your life.
I hope I answered your question.

hello sir, forgive me intrusion. Your moniker caught my attention, please do you work as a tech support? May I send you a pm? Thanks

SeaTrade:
Wouldn't matter to me as I am not much of a family oriented guy.
Still thinking about how I would cope with a wife and kids running around me in circles doing daddy daddy up and down and me not having my space.
Even if I do then I don't think I'd want to live with them in the same house.

Is that why you are almost fifty and single? Yamayama nack your head there

Thrashed question to an average Nigerian.



Why keep her when she can't produce or is she world cup?

Hmmm

If you get money you can have children.
All those stories you see here "woman gives birth to Quadruplets after 16 years of marriage" do you think she got pregnant because last night the husband hung her legs on the wall and the sperm entered well well?
It's money that does it with IVF and surrogacy, if that woman can change your life and make you happy in prosperity why should I let her go because she can't get pregnant when na money I need to get all the kids I need in these modern times

I will have children for us

Must you have children ?

K

ChimasGirl:
If your partner is the love of your life but cannot have children, would you break things off?

Adopt and move on. You guys should stop playing with that word "love" when it means nothing to you all

Nigerians can form!


Everyone is now forming children is not important on the internet. While in real life, they want to have like 10 children.

I will stick to her and go for adoption instead

God will give us children.

What God cannot do does not exist.

Coming to the natural, love can fade o, and if it fades, the both parties face reality, and a family without kids is really boring, kids spice up marriage.

This is for guys who wants to get married.

A woman who can't have children, can't be the love of my life..

Just like asking if we could go a day without the sun...

Perfect!

Before nko...forget hollywood flicks & face reality, how many African women go stay with a man wey no fit impregnate them, adoption or not, most of dem just wan experience that childbearing process, love is a strong force but in issues like this, e go hard gaaan.

illicit:
I will have children for us

Well done Sir.

Why not?

All these slay Mama's dating Yahoo boys and living flashy lifestyle go come make person son dey loyal to am after they don use her destiny?

SeaTrade:
Wouldn't matter to me as I am not much of a family oriented guy.
Still thinking about how I would cope with a wife and kids running around me in circles doing daddy daddy up and down and me not having my space.
Even if I do then I don't think I'd want to live with them in the same house.

Why are you thinking like my landlord

I won't, we will look for solutions.

ChimasGirl:
If your partner is the love of your life but cannot have children, would you break things off?

No!

I will keep LOML and marry 2nd wife. Win-win for everybody. Alhamdulillah ala ni'matil Islam