How Do I React To My Friend And His Girlfriend?

I don’t feel convenient and comfortable hearing my friend and his gf pray, she kinda hold prayer sessions like she’s in Shiloh or something and I sometimes have this feelings that she thinks I’m behind her boyfriend financial crises even though we all greet and talk like there is nothing but deep down we all feel this kind of tension between us and I’m not happy with this to the point I had to start playing gospel songs whenever she starts her prayers with him and my friend has refused to let her stop coming, she stayed as though they married in the flat…….

I honestly don’t know to go about this anymore and I don’t want my friend to think I’m being wicked if I should leave the flat and go get mine because he’s not financially capable of securing one now and the rent is about to due.

Abeg na who dey pay for rent? You or your friend?

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Are you not the one paying rent??

Sit your guy down and talk to him, since you guys are matured to know right and wrong

Leave her matter and prayers.

If you want to rent another place do it joor.

If the guy follow you fine, if he doesn't follow you then your hunch is right.

His girlfriend should accommodate him. Why will your good be taken for evil?

SilentQueen:
Sit your guy down and talk to him, since you guys are matured to know right and wrong

Babe. What will he tell him or discuss? The dude should hold his peace.

I know you need to be comfortable, but why not talk to your friend.
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DarkCaesar:
I don’t feel convenient and comfortable hearing my friend and his gf pray, she kinda hold prayer sessions like she’s in Shiloh or something and I sometimes have this feelings that she thinks I’m behind her boyfriend financial crises even though we all greet and talk like there is nothing but deep down we all feel this kind of tension between us and I’m not happy with this to the point I had to start playing gospel songs whenever she starts her prayers with him and my friend has refused to let her stop coming, she stayed as though they married in the flat…….I honestly don’t know to go about this anymore and I don’t want my friend to think I’m being wicked if I should leave the flat and go get mine because he’s not financially capable of securing one now and the rent is about to due.

You are in a relationship with your roommate , not his girlfriend, right?

Your roommate allowing his galfriend disturb the peace in what is also your abode is the one you should talk to. And regardless of how you pretend the gal feels about you, you should not confront her since the only reason, according to you, she is in your face face because your roommate allows it. So speak to your roommate about how the noise makes you uncomfortable. And if he continues to disrespect your roommate agreement, consider getting yourself out from under him.

Kobojunkiee:
You are in a relationship with your roommate , not his girlfriend, right?

Your roommate allowing his galfriend disturb the peace in what is also your abode is the one you should talk to. And regardless of how you pretend the gal feels about you, you should not confront her since the only reason, according to you, she is in your face face because your roommate allows it. So speak to your roommate about how the noise makes you uncomfortable. And if he continues to disrespect your roommate agreement, consider getting yourself out from under him.

I have no business with the girl and I already discussed with her bf who is my friend but it seems the girl controls the relationship because she helps him with cash or something

Camelot65:
Are you not the one paying rent??

we both paying

DarkCaesar:
I have no business with the girl and I already discussed with her bf who is my friend but it seems the girl controls the relationship because she helps him with cash or something

Well, you are probably best finding your way since your friend will probably continue to disrespect your agreement with him.

my friend start looking out for yourself,my friend this my friend that, you better lack go find yourself, cause over religious people tend to be ones with hardest mind

The wife dey your eye. Na game u dey play so n you know deep down you are going to win that ass. Create tension, bone face, she go later succumb

You have no problem dude . Stop imagining one , they can pray the Bleep they like , you too pray anyhow

If you can get your own place, go ahead and do that.

Why don't you help him to secure a self contained apartment if your bouyant enough.

so that the demon in his girlfriend's life will stop tormenting the saint in you.

Because nothing last for ever

DarkCaesar:
I don’t feel convenient and comfortable hearing my friend and his gf pray, she kinda hold prayer sessions like she’s in Shiloh or something and I sometimes have this feelings that she thinks I’m behind her boyfriend financial crises even though we all greet and talk like there is nothing but deep down we all feel this kind of tension between us and I’m not happy with this to the point I had to start playing gospel songs whenever she starts her prayers with him and my friend has refused to let her stop coming, she stayed as though they married in the flat…….I honestly don’t know to go about this anymore and I don’t want my friend to think I’m being wicked if I should leave the flat and go get mine because he’s not financially capable of securing one now and the rent is about to due.

Rubbish, fornicating and doing prayer session. Are they stupid or something. Don't they know who God is? ABI is it not the same God we are serving. Call me self righteous. But when I am in sin I know I have offended God, I don't go praying and asking him for favours.
Please look for an excuse and move. Infact start searching now.

Nothing beats privacy. Yawah must enter. Just get urself ur own place. Funny enough ur mind might just be playing tricks on u

The stupid girlfriend knows how to pray but won't render financial help to the boyfriend for him to rent an apartment.

@OP Do not renew that rent.. instead leave the apartment and go get yours. You cut such people off completely to have your own inner peace. Let that your friend and his girlfriend join money together and stay in the apartment while you go get yours elsewhere.

Invite a Cele girl to the house and mek her come with her white regalia. It's either your friend packs out or his heaven bound girlfriend stops visiting since. Do this and have peace. I have zero tolerance for stupid religious people.

Kiddogarcia:
I know you need to be comfortable, but why not talk to your friend.
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Talk to his friend about what exactly? That his gf prays and he doest like it? Which isn't even the point op is trying to make.
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Op you strike me as someone whom is not religious.
So make plans to move to your own apartment when your rent expires. You don't need anyone validation to do that

Tell him your mind. Make you no comot e go be like dem don pray the devil out.

Fornicating nd still asking for god's favor

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U mean after fucking their selves or do the pray before fucking....foolish everywhere

DarkCaesar:
I don’t feel convenient and comfortable hearing my friend and his gf pray, she kinda hold prayer sessions like she’s in Shiloh or something and I sometimes have this feelings that she thinks I’m behind her boyfriend financial crises even though we all greet and talk like there is nothing but deep down we all feel this kind of tension between us and I’m not happy with this to the point I had to start playing gospel songs whenever she starts her prayers with him and my friend has refused to let her stop coming, she stayed as though they married in the flat…….I honestly don’t know to go about this anymore and I don’t want my friend to think I’m being wicked if I should leave the flat and go get mine because he’s not financially capable of securing one now and the rent is about to due.

What is flat? Is it a room and parlor self con, one room self com, face me I face you?

What do you mean by they stay as though they married? Like she stays days without going?

If it’s a room and parlor thing tell your friend to carry their prayers inside

arthurwillia:


What is flat? Is it a room and parlor self con, one room self com, face me I face you?

What do you mean by they stay as though they married? Like she stays days without going?

If it’s a room and parlor thing tell your friend to carry their prayers inside

2bedroom flat but you can easily hear what is going on in the next room maybe the walls are not thick or something, she staying for almost a month now and this is a girl that has her own hostel

Benwallt:
The wife dey your eye. Na game u dey play so n you know deep down you are going to win that ass. Create tension, bone face, she go later succumb

lol she’s never my type and I have my own gf who comes around once in a while…….just don’t like it how they go about their prayer session, they could pray without raising their voices I think

DarkCaesar:
2bedroom flat but you can easily hear what is going on in the next room maybe the walls are not thick or something, she staying for almost a month now and this is a girl that has her own hostel

Mehn that’s messed up even as she even has her hostel
Now I see why he’s still allowing her visit after you’ve spoken because it’s two bedroom flat..
How long do you wanna keep blocking it out, it will keep playing in your head..
Can’t even say you should pack out to your own place it’s dicey kind of but best is to speak to him again o

arthurwillia:


Mehn that’s messed up even as she even has her hostel
Now I see why he’s still allowing her visit after you’ve spoken because it’s two bedroom flat..
How long do you wanna keep blocking it out, it will keep playing in your head..
Can’t even say you should pack out to your own place it’s dicey kind of but best is to speak to him again o

can’t keep talking about it even my gf thinks I get a place of my own cos the thing is getting embarrassing each passing day…..