Datikwerreboi:
I can't answer an insensitive and stupid gal's questions sorry

Brian47:
That gospel singer died because of religion.
Sometimes religion causes these cause "God hates divorce"

Jeon:
Hmmm..

anything relationship will be the last thing on earth in my presence.
because I don't have time to shout out.. I DO ACTION.

SilentQueen:
Dear women pls for the sake of your children or family members who loves you...pls stay away from an abusive relationship so you don't end up dead

Dead tell no tales

Gainman:
Ladies wey no get good character sef don turn motivational speaker. This incident has turn has turn ladies wey dey suffer for husband to be talking against marriage. Nah waoo

Gainman:
stupid post. Many people wey kidnappers and bandit killed within a month in Nigeria u can't count it. Are those not human too. No be religion kill anyone. Bible define marriage and if all principles are followed, something like this will not happen. Man love your wife. Wife submit to your husband. If these principles exist between a man and his wife. Violence will not happen. Let me tell u this.even if they are not Christians or not Muslim, are u telling me there will not be domestic violence or husband killing d wife or wife killing d husband.
For your information,it is even religion that even reduces domestic violence. Don't expect this kind thing not to happen at all

Magnoliaa:


So it means when push comes to shove and it gets close to home, you won't know how you'll react. All you've just been doing is making cases for hypothetical situations you have zero knowledge about.

I'm glad you admitted to having no sensible responses. Because if it were about you being objective, you would have left the messenger alone and addressed the questions in a verbally non-violent way.

Paulianfa:
All these talk cannot solve any problem except one learned to understand what is happening in people's lives and home.
Some of these domestic violence are cause by women themselves cos they seems not to understand the ways of life.
I don't think a man with a right senses can lay a finger on his wife without something behind, u see all these women wen they have more than u, they wants rule over u, they want to control and becomes the head of the house, they will insult and abuse u the way they can.
And wen u stood ur ground, the whole world will be blaming you for defending ursef, they will now turn against u.


One needs to investigate and asked questions about domestic violence.

Kobojunkie:
I am afraid you need to read that Bible with your eyed opened.

Scripture instead tells you that God instituted Marriage in Genesis 2 vs 24, and then God cursed marriage, after man fell, in Genesis 3 vs 16, and submission in marriage, which you claim to be a principle for you to follow is in fact a curse which God placed on marriage to ensure its failure.

God Himself cursed marriage so that so long as you are submitted to that curse of submission in marriage, your marriage will not see God's own peace and joy and happiness.

Now ofcourse God sent Jesus Christ to redeem men from God's curse in Genesis 3 vs 16 - 22, but sadly since most of you outright refuse Jesus Christ's offer at redemption this since you cling so strongly to the curse instead, your marriage continue to mirror the quagmire that is the world under God's curse as a result.

Gainman:
1. hmmm u need help. Is that the only part in d Bible that talks about marriage? U better go and meet a true knowledgeable pastor to lecture u on this scriptures.

2. So because a man killed his wife devil in you and others have started talking against Christian institutions.

3. Let even assume she went to meet her pastor to tell him. Are u expecting the pastor to break d marriage. Even if d pastor told her to move out of her husband house. It is people like u that will later accusing d pastor for breaking their home. I don't know if u are married.

4. If u are married and u don't enjoy your marriage. There are many couples out there who are enjoying there marriage. Stop using this to go against what God Himself defined

Teddy96:



No responsible man will hit his wife. . Those that do hit are nt man . . They are frm marine spirit

Gainman:
This is d truth these people refuse to understand. A man can never beat a good wife. Women are d cause of things like this. Women should understand that some men can manager anger if u did something bad to him. For d husband to have killed this woman, it means she did something wrong but d man did d worst for causing her death.

Prettygirl200:
Abeg shut that ur stupid mouth!!! Nonsense if u dont want ur wife to control u den don't marry an already made woman, go and marry the one u will control. Can u imagine the trash u are spewing with your mouth so u are supporting those voilent beasts that call themselves men?? May your sister's and future daughters marry the likes of osinachies husband in Jesus name. Amen!!!!!

faithfull18:
Some women need to start standing up for themselves.

Never let anyone talk down on you or go physical on you.

God abeg don't let anyone I know fall into the hands of these kind of men.

Magnoliaa:


You def know I am a feminist and you should know the kind of men I roll with by now if you fastidiously follow me. Emasculated, feminised, and 'controllable' men who can't even hurt a flower or a fly. So I got no problem there; I gat me covered.

AmazonTopaz:


We roll with the so-called SIMPs they are the best men to have.

It is sad that men who are enlightened, exposed, not toxic and are just good men are called SIMPs because they are not toxic or pretend to be Alfa mails

Jim99:




...and that's because you can't handle alpha males (real men). They bring out your insecurities. It's quite understandable.

People fear or avoid what they can't control. So you going after cheap and easy men is nothing to be proud of.

Gainman:
This is d truth these people refuse to understand. A man can never beat a good wife. Women are d cause of things like this. Women should understand that some men can manager anger if u did something bad to him. For d husband to have killed this woman, it means she did something wrong but d man did d worst for causing her death.

walkingshadow911:


A good loving and responsible husband will never beat a bad wife he would either separate himself from her for his peace. u are sick

Iyaebe:
Ladies if any man insults you in a relationship please dump him without looking back, don’t wait till he starts hitting you

Tunagee:


But the woman can insult the man abi?

Iyaebe:
Ladies if any man insults you in a relationship please dump him without looking back, don’t wait till he starts hitting you

Tunagee:
But the women can insult the men abi?

Prettygirl200:
Abeg shut that ur stupid mouth!!! Nonsense if u dont want ur wife to control u den don't marry an already made woman, go and marry the one u will control. Can u imagine the trash u are spewing with your mouth so u are supporting those voilent beasts that call themselves men?? May your sister's and future daughters marry the likes of osinachies husband in Jesus name. Amen!!!!!

Gainman:
This is d truth these people refuse to understand. A man can never beat a good wife. Women are d cause of things like this. Women should understand that some men can manager anger if u did something bad to him. For d husband to have killed this woman, it means she did something wrong but d man did d worst for causing her death.

Jim99:
...and that's because you can't handle alpha males (real men). They bring out your insecurities. It's quite understandable.

People fear or avoid what they can't control. So you going after cheap and easy men is nothing to be proud of.

TONYE001:


So, in your words, men are perfect and the problem is only from the women. All females that are victims of domestic violence must have been abusive, disrespectful, and all. Wonderful.

Of course, there are no cases of sadist men that enjoy causing harm to their wives and children unprovoked. There are no cases of habitual drunkards that would turn their wives and kids into punching bags. There are no cases of men with undiagnosed psychiatric conditions that hit their wives as they please. There are no cases of hardworking women being exploited by their husbands. There are no cases of cheating husbands whose wives are entirely submissive. There are no cases of products of broken homes that know nothing but maltreat their wives, children, and everyone around them.

God created men perfect and women, imperfect.

Great ideology, well done!

Gainman:
read and understand. No human is perfect but most cases,it is the wife that always trigger trouble at home. Some men too are to be blame but most marital problem facing by women are caused by them. I explained here what happened to me and since then,I can't believe what I hear until the incident happened at my presence. I always hear my husband abandon me and d children. Even a crazy man can abandon a good wife.
Proverb 128:3 It says an excellent wife is the crown of her husband,but she who shames him is like rottenness in his bone.
Also Proverb 18;22 He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord.
A man can never be happy with a toxic wife. And these are the type we have in this generation. Too much pride. If u have pride or ego. Don't even have intention to marry because u will have problem. Is easy for a good woman to change a man but u can never change a toxic woman. I been seeing bad women turning to inspirational speaker because a woman died. Too bad she died. D husband mite be among d toxic men too but I can't condemn anyone now because am not d police or d judge. Lies too much in online news.

TONYE001:


1. It seems you may have had a bad relationship experience; I'm sincerely sorry about that.

2. "Most cases, it is the wife that triggers trouble at home..." ; "...It's easy for a good woman to change a man but u can never change a toxic woman..."... all these are assertions that lack facts. Do you have a statistic that supports that most cases of marital problems are caused by the wife? Any published work to cite that says a toxic woman can never be changed? Any human can be changed, whether man or woman.

3. I agree with your last line. We all should wait for the authorities to make their findings (hopefully, they'd do this honestly).