Ninisun:




Girls full everywhere you say? 80% destiny no dey or bright again. You guys always sound so bitter when a discussion is about women. Na man born u? Abi u no get sisters?

Who be this one na? Who goes you? Whether you like am or not girls plenty and them full everywhere and if e pain you go drink dolo meta b. My sisters and female relatives are nothing like the lady nor is my mom.

Guys like Me I for done fvckkk you that same day. Fvckk your BS

jackals:


I'm not with any man. Men have an habit of underating you when you show them how much you care. Between, I just wanted to see how consistent he is. I just dropped an SMS for him on his local number hoping he reply.

At 33?

Ladies in their early teens or 20’s do this, men these days don’t have time for theatrics, especially for men who have a lot to offer.

We muveee

jackals:
Why do y'all sounds to make me unhappy. I'm not happy with how things turn out with him not getting back to me as I had hoped. And now you guys are compounding my issue.

Thanks anyways

pick up your gaddamn phone and call him or forgerrit.

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Lool...I called you out your BS and you didn't have any comeback again, so you now resort to insults because you're pained.

Lovely and encouraging response.

Childofthelord:
Ma'am, there is no [color=#000099][/color] sugar coating here! now do you want to fix this? First off, admit that you were wrong. I understand what you mean by not "wanting to be desperate" but the truth is, you took the wide wrong route. Leaving him on read for 2 days? Haba! He prolly though you were no longer interested or never really liked him. Even when my own girl friends leave me on read, I feel unwanted and undervalued.
And for how long will you continue to hide your true feelings?
You need to let go of whatever past trauma or experiences that are dictating your current situation. Sis, everyone makes mistake, if this guy is still within reach, Call him, apologize and let him know your true intentions. Be original, be genuine, be happy and God will bless with a good spouse. Shalom

johnsonmartina6:
even 27 years still dey find husband,you way he 33 see one,you turn mumu

lol. 27? 20 years dey find husband. 25 don dey desperate. These times we live in,only God will help us.

You said you had a mind of settling down, yet you're forming busy for a man you have feelings and vice versa. No be juju be that? Na you chase the man of your dream away ooo

Men need to sit up as women take us for granted...enof of all dis from dem...

jackals:
Why do y'all sounds to make me unhappy. I'm not happy with how things turn out with him not getting back to me as I had hoped. And now you guys are compounding my issue.

Thanks anyways

For you to post this, it means you didn't understand anything those folks above where saying to you. You better go back and read them again.

1Sharon:


Lool...I called you out your BS and you didn't have any comeback again, so you now resort to insults because you're pained.

Why hiding under the moniker of a female to type gibberish? O boy face your front...no time to give u attention. Was the OP your gf that you are so disturbed about my mentioning of two of them being in a relationship?

Wetin be BS? You sound like a teenager tho, gd nyt

jackals:

.I was just being careful of not making it look like I'm desperate to have him. I already showed him I like him. I think if he wanted things to escalate, he wouldn't back out that way

lool. You can’t expect to treat him like shit and think he’ll be groveling at ur feet. Because you’re who exactly? You read his messages for crying out loud and refused to reply him. It would ve been better you didn’t read. You did this one to yourself. Do it to the next person who shows interest in you please. And if he messages you again, do it again. Ignore him. You just might end up single the rest of ur life.

Sister you just got served

Hello dear no time I called u , u didn't pick I chat u , u didn't reply, showing u don't have iinterest.

Silly mind games. You got what you deserve

jackals:
I'm a beautiful woman in my 30s (33 precisely) with a good career and a budding startup in the make-up business. I'm also very humble and I'm one that appreciate the little things a man do. Recently, I got linked to a guy who just came back from the US and have the intention of settling down just like me. He's successful and very respectful the First time we met, and I was already looking forward to something meaningful with him.

Last week Sunday, he took me out. When I got back home, I noticed I've embarrassed myself too much by literally throwing myself at him. I withdrew and form busy by not responding to his texts and calls for two days. WhatsApp message read but not replied.

On Tuesday, I noticed he didn't message me for the whole day. But I became bothered. Up till now, he has not called me nor message me. I didn't want things to be like this, I just didn't want it to be like I'm desperate of his attention.

Is he that he has moved on or not really interested

Fcmb2022:

Maybe dats what she wants

how are u doing?

that's what most women want... misplaced priorities

Nwanyi Oma am good and you?

Wizywiz:
that's what most women want... misplaced priorities

Nwanyi Oma am good and you?

I am fine my dear.

jackals:
Why do y'all sounds to make me unhappy. I'm not happy with how things turn out with him not getting back to me as I had hoped. And now you guys are compounding my issue.

Thanks anyways

What did you expect?

That everyone should clap for you?

By your own action of snubbing him, you have already given him a red flag that you're not into him; and he has decided to respect himself.

Are you telling us you're playing "hard to get" at 33?

Keep it up!

He now sees your previous display of liking him as a pretence all along. So let him be not every man is cut out for chasing after women when there're other important things to be concerned about.

Fcmb2022:

I am fine my dear.

hope you had a great day...

Wizywiz:
hope you had a great day...

Yes and you?

johnsonmartina6:
even 27 years still dey find husband,you way he 33 see one,you turn mumu

Don't mind the confuse beings called women


On march this month I meet one confuse beings on Facebook chat her collect her contact she was not even far away from me when I ask her street

So I ask her out ending of that march, she told me she can't date me I ask why, she said nothing.

Na so I ghost her for like a week I don't chat her don't call her,

She now dey tell me now what happened I did not call her again bla bla and so.

I just ignored her chat and call

Have already moved on and catch another fish, because them plenty for street.

I now understand, many women Doe's that to me severally, some girls I come across then, they are even The one make me collect their phones number, by stirring at me continuesly admiring my heights, seductive move towards me and all sort of signal, after exchange numbers to pick calls became problem, you may think somebody have spoiled you for her side. Sometimes after making calls without picking I gave up. Somebody that gave you her number willingly now to pick have become case. Honestly woman are the architect of what happened to them.

Puskas:
Vagina people and their victim mentality. Imagine how this one is blaming the innocent man for respecting himself. You shunned his WhatsApp messages for two days and you still expect him to be crawling on his knees begging you to reply his chats. Who does that except a man suffering from Simpson disease. If you are beautiful with a good character just like you described yourself you should have married in your twenties and not being desperate to marry in your thirties. Let me ask you one question. If the man is foolish enough to continue chatting with you and later marries you what exactly will you offer him apart from your worn out pussy? Be truthful and answer this question

To think this comment gathered 800+ likes...Made a statement

Some ladies are funny..

Fcmb2022:

Yes and you?

my day was fun filled.... Chelsea's loss to Liverpool made it more fun and wonderful .....hope u ain't a Chelsea fan?

Mademan5:

Hhhmmm what happened to your SirjamesJnr, are you guys not together anymore?

we are still strong!!

I have cousins, younger sisters and friends in need of a boo.

I have received the mantle of matchmaking on their behalf to their annoyance.

Wizywiz:
my day was fun filled.... Chelsea's loss to Liverpool made it more fun and wonderful .....hope u ain't a Chelsea fan?

Abeg no try insult my club. of course i am a blue blood.

jackals:

.I was just being careful of not making it look like I'm desperate to have him. I already showed him I like him. I think if he wanted things to escalate, he wouldn't back out that way

Seems you're yet to know your fault. I think only a low self esteem man will keep messaging when you neglected his calls and chats for 2 days. How busy can one be not to ne able to return chats which you read?

At 33, You're still behaving like a teenager. You don't shun a man to prove you're not cheap.

Replying calls, chats/messages doesn't mean you're cheap as long as the man mutually respects you and replies your chats.

You could have kept the convo going with him without appeating you are throwing yourself at him by just flowing with the chat normally and let him make the move.

If this is how you will treat the man to prove self-worth, I pray he shouldn't reply your latest message to him and abandon you.

jackals:


Thank you so much for this. I never know such action could send him off. He stays in an hotel for now with a friend, before the place he is moving into get done (as he said the last time). I'll call him first. And if he's cool with me being around, I'll know from there.

Thank you ❤️��

Do this and share your update. I can't wait to see you both sharing that pre wedding pictures..

jackals:
I'm a beautiful woman in my 30s (33 precisely) with a good career and a budding startup in the make-up business. I'm also very humble and I'm one that appreciate the little things a man do. Recently, I got linked to a guy who just came back from the US and have the intention of settling down just like me. He's successful and very respectful the First time we met, and I was already looking forward to something meaningful with him.

Last week Sunday, he took me out. When I got back home, I noticed I've embarrassed myself too much by literally throwing myself at him. I withdrew and form busy by not responding to his texts and calls for two days. WhatsApp message read but not replied.

On Tuesday, I noticed he didn't message me for the whole day. But I became bothered. Up till now, he has not called me nor message me. I didn't want things to be like this, I just didn't want it to be like I'm desperate of his attention.

Is he that he has moved on or not really interested

Of course you fvck up..If I am the guy, I won't take you serious...A lot of ladies make this costly mistakes..Playing hard To get is old fashioned..Go for that man you like..

Many men are shy...Few are bold to walk up to you as woman and kick start a conversation, not to talk of him pushing for a relationship..If he does that, respect him and respect yourself..

You made your self look childish before him..Men read a woman's intelligence through conversation and her actions...You ladies communicate more non-verbally..

Someone you want to be your forever, you ignored his chats and calls after meeting him...Lol

The message was clear..And he took it matured way. Two can play better.

Fcmb2022:

Abeg no try insult my club. of course i am a blue blood.

naim be say na steady fight be that ooo....make una take heart ok...some days are like that

Wizywiz:
naim be say na steady fight be that ooo....make una take heart ok...some days are like that

At least we still be pride of London
we still score one

Ninisun:




Why hiding under the moniker of a female to type gibberish? O boy face your front...no time to give u attention. Was the OP your gf that you are so disturbed about my mentioning of two of them being in a relationship?

Wetin be BS? You sound like a teenager tho, gd nyt

No type to give me attention and telling me to face front, yet you quoted me first?

You're stupid aren't you?

If it's one thing you have, it's audacity.

I know life must be hard having 69 IQ.