"I'm only interested in serious relationships"

"If we are not dating for marriage, I'm out"

"When are you going to see my people?"

All these statements point to desperation. And this can only yield two result: scare men away from you or attract pretenders who would play along either to keep sleeping with you or to keep getting money or whatever material gain they get from you.

Your best strategy as a lady looking for husband is to remain that baby girl who still gives different styles in bed and shows no worries about the future to your guy.

However, at marriageable age, you should only give your time to a guy whom you have assessed on your own and he seems ready. At this stage, learn to use your head and less of your heart.

Don't ever make the mistake of staying with a guy who has no plan of settling down hoping that you will use love and sex to make him bring his plans forward. Don't try it, it will end in breakfast.

This video below will tell you more.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=URxA2kWYhmM

Ok papi..

it ain't rocket sense....if you see a guy that really wants a future with you...matured sensible lady would know....you must not even ask him when he is coming to see your people.....but if the relationship has last for long ask ooo.....some guys are time wasters.. after five years they go and marry a lady they met five months ago...same applies for both gender

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Ok papi..

Lol

I'm called this somewhere. Hope you don't know me outside Nairaland?

Farano
Rocktation

OfficialAwol:


Lol

I'm called this somewhere. Hope you don't know me outside Nairaland?

Farano
Rocktation

If I don't I wouldn't address you by that..I am surprised you don't recollect me tho..

rickpat:
it ain't rocket sense....if you see a guy that really wants a future with you...matured sensible lady would know....you must not even ask him when he is coming to see your people.....but if the relationship has last for long ask ooo.....some guys are time wasters.. after five years they go and marry a lady they met five months ago...same applies for both gender

I understand your point but some guys, once a lady asks them anything pertaining marriage, they begin to see it as pestering for marriage.

From then on, if they lady is nice, they'd say she's nice because she wants marriage.

If she misbehaves, they'd say see somebody that wants me to marry her.

That's why I'd suggest that the moment a lady notices her guy isn't serious about marriage and marriage has become her priority, she should start giving other men chance in her life and detach herself silently from the time waster.

Op u are not far from the truth... Our ladies don already compose song. Jehovah carry me dey go...

FERNANDEZISBACK:

If I don't I wouldn't address you by that..I am surprised you don't recollect me tho..

Taaaa!

You just wanna play on my intelligence.

I'm smarter than that.

OfficialAwol:


I understand your point but some guys, once a lady asks them anything pertaining marriage, they begin to see it as pestering for marriage.

From then on, if they lady is nice, they'd say she's nice because she wants marriage.

If she misbehaves, they'd say see somebody that wants me to marry her.

That's why I'd suggest that the moment a lady notices her guy isn't serious about marriage and marriage has become her priority, she should start giving other men chance in her life and detach herself silently from the time waster.

exactly ... wisdom is really key

OfficialAwol:


Taaaa!

You just wanna play on my intelligence.

I'm smarter than that.

Haha.. gotcha..

rickpat:
exactly ... wisdom is really key

Yea!

But a lot of ladies don't seem to have it and that's why they keep falling for the wrong guys and getting their hearts shattered.

FERNANDEZISBACK:

Haha.. gotcha..

You didn't

I saw your cards and beat you to it.

OfficialAwol:


You didn't

I saw your cards and beat you to it.

Yeah you beat me..I actually meant I got ya back..not the other way round..

OfficialAwol:


Yea!

But a lot of ladies don't seem to have it and that's why they keep falling for the wrong guys and getting their hearts shattered.

no just Ladies though.... everyone needs to be careful when it comes to love, relationship and getting into marriage

There's no crime in been assertive. If a guy leaves because he is asked such a question, then he was never ready for commitment with the lady.

Yet another article from another wayward who's trying to prove his/her self being sophisticated but with Zero philosophy and the worsted part, promoting fornication.

What good and applicable philosophy can come outta mind of a wayward and unvirtuos person.

OfficialAwol:
"I'm only interested in serious relationships"

Your best strategy as a lady looking for husband is to remain that baby girl who still gives different styles in bed and shows no worries about the future to your guy.

In other words, never cease to be a bitch and hope that a fool comes around one day and scoops you off your feet into a marriage that will likely not last more than two years...any lady with an ounce of commonsense will realize that this idiotic excuse of a man is luring ladies into a life of servitude as a certified hoe.

What is meant to be will be.

The meat that belongs to the Hunter's pot of soup does not climb.
African proverb.

FERNANDEZISBACK:

Yeah you beat me..I actually meant I got ya back..not the other way round..

Lol.

Will u ever be serious?

efficiencie:


In other words, never cease to be a bitch and hope that a fool comes around one day and scoops you off your feet into a marriage that will likely not last more than two years...any lady with an ounce of commonsense will realize that this idiotic excuse of a man is luring ladies into a life of servitude as a certified hoe.

Why are you taking it personal?

OfficialAwol:


Why are you taking it personal?

Taking it personal? You are providing ladies with the advice that will rapidly turn them into hoes and you will be part of the very same persons complaining that there are no decent girls anywhere and that they are all hoes. You are asking ladies to learn new styles outside of marriage while they continuously keep doing abortions and lack any capacity to bond with a single man since they have made a life out of sleeping with multiple men in the name of having fun. Folks like you are a menace to the society and you will be part of those complaining when you are forced to drink from the same water you have polluted.

efficiencie:


Taking it personal? You are providing ladies with the advice that will rapidly turn them into hoes and you will be part of the very same persons complaining that there are no decent girls anywhere and that they are all hoes. You are asking ladies to learn new styles outside of marriage while they continuously keep doing abortions and lack any capacity to bond with a single man since they have made a life out of sleeping with multiple men in the name of having fun. Folks like you are a menace to the society and you will be part of those complaining when you are forced to drink from the same water you have polluted.

Can you tell me where I said they should abortions in the video?

And how does telling ladies not to suggest marriage first a guy equate to asking them to be promiscuous?

No good advise. You said they should be good in bed and show styles but not think of marriage?
What a waste of a man?