I met a girl about 2 months ago who is now my girlfriend. She says that she really likes me and is always telling me how much she does  and so do i. But before the relationship she told me that she has more guy friends than girls. For the last 3 weeks she has been going out places with some of her guy friends. and for the last three days she has been going with one especially. first i knew about him when he went to her house to go for a swim and hang out then she went to the fair with him for an entire day. then she had a photoshoot and he went with her too. and today she is at her house again apparently for dinner and to hangout again. this is bugging the heck out of me and my stomach turns everytime i think about it. Ive told her many times how much it bothers me but all she says is that they are only close friends and she sees him as nothing more. Im afraid that they are hiding something from me or he secretly likes her and shes doesnt notice it. and she gets angry everytime i mention in. What can i do. please help thanks.

First of all, I think it is soo cute that you are concerned. Some guys don't care to mind or pay attention. Ok so as a girl who also has a lot of guy friends, I'll tell you that you shouldn't think about it too much especially if she reinforces her feelings for you as you say she does. Some girls, like myself, just get along better with guys, that does not mean we would ever consider stepping out on our men. I understand your concern, and I wish I could tell you not to worry about it, because some guys can be trifling. How are you supposed to know that he is not trying to get at your girl? If you shan't, can't, won't trust him, then you should trust your girl. Although, i do think its unsightly for a girl in a committed relationship to be going out frequently with a guy that isn't her boyfriend, I don't want you to stress yourself out too much. Tell her what you are feeling, ask her why does she feel the need to do all those things with the other guys, when she can do them with you. Tell her you don't wan't to share her and that's what it feels like.

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    I too have a lot of guy friends. My bestest friend in the whoole entire world is a dude, and we do everything together, we have sleepovers, we cuddle, he massages my back and shoulders, etc  , so you can imagine how that can get under a bf's skin. Sometimes the dudes I'm with trip over our relationship, that is until I tell them he's ghey, lol But yes, you should totally just talk to her about how uncomfortable it makes you.

GEEEZZ with this censoring. So I can't say h.o.m.o.intimacy.u.a.l or g.a.y? what the hell is a man-lover? I'm a man lover and I'm not g.a.y.

@190, I know you are not Shaking your head at me? lol What I do?

Unfortunately i dont think that guy is a gay. all she says is that she cant not go out with her friends and that i have to get over it. but she doesnt know what its like to be in my shoes. ive tried making her jealous but she says that she doesnt want to make me unhappy and ruin my fun so she masks her emotions.

^^ Lol yes he is my best friend. And yes he massages me, and I have undressed in front of him. Did you not read when I said he's ghey? And hell ya, I'll make a good wife!

lol thats cool i guess that would be the only good thing about being g.a.y,

LOL he's like one of the girls. @ your situation, your girlfriend is sounding selfish if she says she doesn't care how you feel and telling you to get over it. That's not fair, I guarantee if you did the same thing she wouldn't be as complacent about the situation as she is.

yeah she just tells me to trust her but in a few days ill do the same to show her how i feel

Well,well,well, hmmmm,are you sure your girlfriend is really into you?though there is nothing wrong spending time with her male friends,what I may frown at is more time than usual,she enjoys his/or their company much more?you may not be the outgoing type but you should put up more efforts to spend more quality time with her,if she now seems to be excusing herself too often to do someother things which other male friends or her bestfriend will be involved in,then she is not totally into you.I may be wrong,this is just one of my few perceptions of the matter.just take wise steps ASAP to know maybe you are the ''main man''or someone else is in active service doing your job very well for while you are playing assistant boy and sidekick.,then she is not totally into you.I may be wrong,this is just one of my few perceptions of the matter.just take wise steps ASAP to know maybe you are the ''main man''or someone else is in active service doing your job very well for while you are playing assistant boy and sidekick
One other thing,make sure you are not a figurehead while she's still waiting for her main crush to ask her out

Thanks everyone for your help. I just found out that her friend is bi. so that gives me a bit more peace in my mind.