I'm in need of ur opinion,can you be generous enough to give some useful ones.
I do have this funny feeling sometimes when some older ladies,as much as 4 years older,keep giving me the eye(wonder what that is, ) .To be candid here,I want to know if I look older than my age or something(so that I can freak out) cos I just don't get it.
I'd have gone out with one of them if not for insecurity(hope you understand, ) and at the same time I don't want to be seen as a jelly.Now what do I do?

o ti gbo

You do look older than your age in the picture, but pictures can lie.

O pa mi oooo.Wetin I fit do now.

@ U1

Don't even worry about it. There's nothing that you can do about it. I'm in the same position to be honest, though mine is that I look younger than my age . I think the best that I could do was have shorter hair. . .but even that does nothing lol.

Don't obsess over looks is all I can say. There is nothing wrong in looking older than your age, it's not as though you look like you are 50, growing gray hairs and things . I know kids that have gray hairs (I guess from school related stress). You can try to dress a little younger. . .

u need to eat more of goat d ick. it works.

To be candid, your look is older than your age. If you were 38yrs , it's fine but at 22yrs

simply_me:

u need to eat more of goat d ick. it works.

Goat dick? Have always known you to be a bad girl on nairaland
I bow 4 u oo

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You turning 40 You look 30. . .

PTBNaija:

You turning 40 You look 30. . .

Aww, thanks!

Just stating the truth, no need for thanks. . .though you're very welcome.

@poster
Are u serious about ur age or just winding us up? I'm still shocked cos when I looked at ur picture u look atleast 30 to me. I don't think you should worry too much about it cos u mighty be lucky to still maintain the same look for the next 10yrs. concerning those older ladies, don't spare them.

No wonder.

You look like a grand father. lol just kidding

You look fairly young. But might use some skin care products to make a good finish. Visit your local ULTA costmetics for a wide selection for your skin type. You might just pass for 20 after using the skin care products! Cheers!

BABEELOVE:

You look fairly young. But might use some skin care products to make a good finish. Visit your local ULTA costmetics for a wide selection for your skin type. You might just pass for 20 after using the skin care products! Cheers!

Are you talking to me or the original poster? lol

The poster of course!!!   Can't you see his face Too much puff puff eating going on there!!!

poor you, your face does look old and your style of dressing from what i can see does need some help.
It doesnt matter, u're still good enough for at least one girl out of 6 billion humans on earth, take heart.

PTH:

poor you, your face does look old and your style of dressing from what i can see does need some help.
It doesnt matter, u're still good enough for at least one girl out of 6 billion humans on earth, take heart.

Are any of your sisters available PTH

BABEELOVE:

Are any of your sisters available PTH

for U1? naa, i havent got sisters. my cousins wont like U1 either.

PTH:

poor you, your face does look old and your style of dressing from what i can see does need some help.
It doesnt matter, u're still good enough for at least one girl out of 6 billion humans on earth, take heart.

The guy is trying to get encouragement on his face now you've added dressing to it haba

The next thread he will start is " does my style of dressing make me look too old"

dafman:

The guy is trying to get encouragement on his face now you've added dressing to it haba

The next thread he will start is " does my style of dressing make me look too old"

he asked for help now he is getting it, we might as well ask him to take a lesson in how to pose for a photograph. That style went out of vogue in the 1960s.

Haha. . .

It kind of is the truth though. . .don't know about when it went out of style. But it makes him look older than he is.

In summary dude you have three things to worry about.

1. face looks older than his age

2. style of dressing is oldschool

3. mode of posing is oldschool.

Take care of these and older women will stop hitting at you

in short dafman, he is oldschool. nothing we can do will remedy the situation. there must be an oldschool chic somewhere.

PTH:

in short dafman, he is oldschool. nothing we can do will remedy the situation. there must be an oldschool chic somewhere.

lmao

@poster - you do not look old but your skin does look dehydrated and tired, i hope you do not take offence as I do not mean to insult you, in fact I have had the same problem. Here are some tips

1. Drink plenty of water and avoid alcohol, cigarettes and caffeine (in coffee and many fizzy drinks), like the plague
2. Wear a broad rimmed cap to protect your face from the sun
3. Try gentler facial products that don't contain perfume or any unecessary ingredients (you may have skin sensitivities) if possible make it as natural and organic as possible - tea tree is a good antiseptic and aloe vera and chamomile are good for soothing upset/tired skin.
4. Keep you face clean at all times but don't scrub or use alcohol/dettol/fragranced products, it is unlikely you need moisturiser in nigeria because of the hot weather and you appear to have combination/oily skin.
5. Take multivitamins if possible or at the very least increase your fish intake this contains omega oils, Omega oils are proven to impove skin elasticity - it is also found in flax seed oil and soya.
6. Relax more
7. Stay away from bleaching products melanin is the black man's saviour and no amount of yellow baby is worth looking like a wrinkled prune

Hope this helps, it has helped others and even myself but really I think you just look at most 5 years older so don't let it worry you too much. From what i have heard it is not uncommon for ladies to chase youger guys nowadays anyway, in nigeria. You should start to complain when you approach an older woman and she rejects you because she thinks ur not worthy.

@ dafman - no need to look at my profile, my pic is not there!

lol.

Caught you!

You're a stalker, man

stalk who! I looked at who's online to see what posts are interesting and saw someon viewing my own profile!

you're the stalker!

U no mind them joh, U look your age just that you got this hard facial looks typical of your hood.You do well to stay away from Exhaust from Danfo and of course Indian and all the other hemps, not saying you smoke but they have said that inhaling Tobacco smokes has almost the same effect as the smoker, nothing do you

ell77:

stalk who! I looked at who's online to see what posts are interesting and saw someon viewing my own profile!

you're the stalker!

How are we sure you're telling the guy the truth, you said you faced the same situation until you did this and that, why you no show your picture make we compare and contrast.