belcom10:
Some women are not wise at all. Some of you saying this is innocent help got it all wrong. If she has good intentions, she could have use the husband phone to call, or discuss with the husband to inform the friend.

She's not in obligation to do anything for the friend to show her appreciation other than calling and saying thank you and pray for him.

Absolutely right, i agree with you 200%

Deicide:
So I wanted to help you but instead you bring the Mata come Nairaland? You think I am not on here?

So na you be that woman
You need better koboko. Shey your husband friend tell you he need house help?

Drop key for her and come back late. Thanks

SIMPLE!TELL HER YOU ARE VISITING YOUR WIFE IN BAYELSA!LOBATAN!!

Is her husband aware of this arrangement? For you to be this concerned, you may consciously or unconsciously have some interest... If there's no interest your decision would have been made swiftly.

Reply to her that won't be necessary, however you appreciate her gesture.

DamnnNiggarr:
not that I can't handle being at close proximity with her but...
That too much closeness with opposite sex that's not my wife almost ruin my family, my family is divided as a result of that. See link below.

https://www.nairaland.com/7152523/family-verge-destruction#113306128

Based on the gist in the link above, you're already battling with trust issue with your wife. How dare you contemplate allowing this type of "thank you" visit? I don't know that men equally have fish brain ooo...lol

JovialJune:
Smh!!! Someone decided to appreciate your kind gesture by assisting you with house chores knowing your wife is not around, and all your mind went to is sex? What is wrong with some of you men sef? Must your thoughts always be what is between your legs?

If you know you are sex starved and can't control yourself when she comes, tell her off straight, don't assume and accuse her baselessly, na church mind she wan use help you.

I disagree with you. The helpful man can be easily lured by the woman into sexual relationship when both of them are alone in the helper's house.

Lol people act so foolish and gullible....
A married woman says she wants to come over and do your chores knowing fully well your wife isn’t around and u think it’s an innocent offer....
Mumu man ‘ keep off the daughter of Jezebel who has started disrespecting her husband over his extreme Sapa situation .....
No sane married woman who extend such an offer to a man whose wife no dey around ‘ and besides wasn’t it her husband who told her you borrowed them money ‘ why 2 of them no come clean your house or at least make the man use him hand send him wife to come clean your house .....
She wants to rope u ......

#doct

The useless OP just typed message in his phone to send to that number ugochi, then screen shot it and bring it here to hear wetin people go talk abi? U think I can't differentiate composed message and inbox message? Delude nigga

What is the fuss about?

thorpido:
It could be an innocent offer.It doesn't mean she wanted anything intimate.

Since your mind is already troubled,just reply her that you have your chores covered.Tell her you have people/neighbors who help you out.

There is nothing innocent about the text. I tag it as sexual harassment. What is "CUM OVA"? May Guy Run for your life.

She wrote CUM. That implied she want you to make love to her. Run, �‍♀️ �‍♂️ �‍♂️ �‍♀️

toffyz:
That Text is harmless

She meant her words

She's just trying to show her appreciation of your kind gesture.

If you wouldn't need her , tell her she shouldn't worry about the chores. After all you've been doing it yourself before.

That type was written by OP before screenshoting. Check how inbox message use to be and check how composed message be then u will know. OP is chasing clout,no woman typed anything

akenzua74:
. My friend's wife did same to me severally, we're like brother and sister no corrupt feelings towards her. Pls control your mind abeg. Will think of sex if she was your sister?

you are a fool. Bang her and set the record straight

DamnnNiggarr:
My Bossom childhood friend was financially down and needed financial assistance because his landlord was suffocating him with his constant nagging. So he contacted me as his old guy and and told me the situation on ground and requested for financial assistance from me. I didn't hesitate in sending him the money which he summed up with the one he had and cleared his house rent.

So, this afternoon, his wife texted me, and in her text, she thanked me for the assistance and requested to pay me a visit and and help me with some of my chores since my wife is in Bayelsa. From the very moment I set my eyes on that text, I haven't been myself knowing fully well that one thing may lead to another during her visit/stay.

That my guy is so dear to me and we treat each other with utmost respect so for this reason, I wouldn't like to loose that respect and trust. This woman is anticipating my response, according to her.

Please house, how do I discourage her from visiting me in my wife's absence without it looking as if I'm avoiding her? What does she want? Who has been in this type of situation and how did you resolve the issue without creating enmity?

Ask her if her husband is aware. But I know he is not. Just thank her for her offer and let her know that you can handle them yourself.

There are some free food that kills. This is one of them.

DamnnNiggarr:
My Bossom childhood friend was financially down and needed financial assistance because his landlord was suffocating him with his constant nagging. So he contacted me as his old guy and and told me the situation on ground and requested for financial assistance from me. I didn't hesitate in sending him the money which he summed up with the one he had and cleared his house rent.

So, this afternoon, his wife texted me, and in her text, she thanked me for the assistance and requested to pay me a visit and and help me with some of my chores since my wife is in Bayelsa. From the very moment I set my eyes on that text, I haven't been myself knowing fully well that one thing may lead to another during her visit/stay.

That my guy is so dear to me and we treat each other with utmost respect so for this reason, I wouldn't like to loose that respect and trust. This woman is anticipating my response, according to her.

Please house, how do I discourage her from visiting me in my wife's absence without it looking as if I'm avoiding her? What does she want? Who has been in this type of situation and how did you resolve the issue without creating enmity?

“CUM OVa”. What does she mean by showing appreciation as a WOMAN? Abeg run!!

Leave that man, he has been craving for her kpekus for a long time. This is his chance, man no need opinions

Kobojunkie:
Why make an issue out of a molehill?

Simply text her back thanking her for her kind offer, informing her that the help is not needed since you have your chores all covered. The end!

mirinder:
you are a fool. Bang her and set the record straight

You are a pervert. You will perish in your sin if you don't repent.

shantti:


Gbam!!!!
Or better she and her husband can come with wine on a Saturday and thank him. Chikina.
That woman is up to something

i fùcked my friend's wife yesterday

OP you helped your friend and not his wife and on the other hand stop her from coming since you having the thought of adultery already. Tell her no in a very polite manner.

JovialJune:
Smh!!! Someone decided to appreciate your kind gesture by assisting you with house chores knowing your wife is not around, and all your mind went to is sex? What is wrong with some of you men sef? Must your thoughts always be what is between your legs?

If you know you are sex starved and can't control yourself when she comes, tell her off straight, don't assume and accuse her baselessly, na church mind she wan use help you.

How did you know she's doing it with church mind?

Women are very cunning and unpredictable, she may even have sex in mind, hence the message.

You can't just draw conclusion about her! She mind have good intentions like she rightly said, so please don't read meaning into it. Except you have feeling for her!

thorpido:
It could be an innocent offer.It doesn't mean she wanted anything intimate.

Since your mind is already troubled,just reply her that you have your chores covered.Tell her you have people/neighbors who help you out.

Innocent indeed!Read the text messageNo innocent married woman will use such words to a married man “Cum”.That woman is not innocent and she knows what she want.

If u like the way you still relating with your friend, it better to leave the chat don't reply it.


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JovialJune:
Smh!!! Someone decided to appreciate your kind gesture by assisting you with house chores knowing your wife is not around, and all your mind went to is sex? What is wrong with some of you men sef? Must your thoughts always be what is between your legs?

If you know you are sex starved and can't control yourself when she comes, tell her off straight, don't assume and accuse her baselessly, na church mind she wan use help you.

Stop shouting, you women act as if you know too much. Even from this SMS, it is clear that woman is ready to sleep with this guy. How did I know? The wordings in that SMS, makes it very clear to me. Or this story is just fake.

Tell her to thank her God and her husband. C'èst fini

It could be her arrangement with your friend to make you have sex with his wife and forget about the money.

MarianaTrench:

It's not "high service", it's "eye service"

shot up

Na only me think differently....
Only to say cum to your house...
Nai make me nor believe the text.
Why cum?
Why not come wey primary two know.
If you know you know...

Kobojunkie:
Why make an issue out of a molehill?

Simply text her back thanking her for her kind offer, informing her that the help is not needed since you have your chores all covered. The end!

Op take this advice.