I broke up with a girl recently because we had irreconcilable differences, I thought it's over, then to my utmost dismay she started coming to visit my older brother everyday, when we were dating I asked her to focus on our relationship and leave my family out of it especially my brother because I know the kind of brother I have, he is envious of me because he believes I'm well to do, her response was we're just friends, now that we have stopped dating she's capitalizing on that to hurt me, she visits my brother everyday until they started dating, I was angry for a while then I got over it, but she's not over it yet, now she's asking me to refund everything she has spent on me , I spent on her too but I'm not requesting she pay me back, everything she ever gave me she said she borrowed me, she didn't call it borrow when we were dating, I tried to be reasonable by telling her I'll pay everything, but that got to her head and she's now demanding that the repayment shouldn't exceed this month, I'm not a troublesome person but the moment you dare or threaten me I'll show you my difficult side, and that's what I intend to do, I sent her a text that the repayment will exceed this month and I might decide to never repay, but she's determined to utilize everything she has to make sure I repay, should I repay her or let her do her worst.

Lol.......some girls and their wahala.....sha it shows she still likes you

That was how one told me to refund her all the money she has been using to buy singlet and boxers for me during my birthday.

All I did was to screenshot all the money I sent to her including all the data and airtime I sent to her..even the ones for hair and her cosmetics. I calculated all and it was way too high..I sent it to her. I told her to deduct the so called money she spent on me and refund me the remaining .

Up till now, she haven't sent me any message regarding that anymore. Am still waiting for her response. This is making 2 weeks I sent her the message.

I don't understand why some of them normally think that spending on a guy, after the relationship crash, she can easily get back all she spent on the guy.

I tire for them

Equation89:
That was how one told me to refund her all the money she has been using to buy singlet and boxers for me during my birthday.

All I did was to screenshot all the money I sent to her including all the data and airtime I sent to her..even the ones for hair and her cosmetics. I calculated all and it was way too high..I sent it to her. I told her to deduct the so called money she spent on me and refund me the remaining .

Up till now, she haven't sent me any message regarding that anymore. Am still waiting for her response. This is making 2 weeks I sent her the message.

I don't understand why some of them normally think that spending on a guy, after the relationship crash, she can easily get back all she spent on the guy.

I tire for them

Franklystein:
I broke up with a girl recently because we had irreconcilable differences, I thought it's over, then to my utmost dismay she started coming to visit my older brother everyday, when we were dating I asked her to focus on our [s]relationship and leave my family out of it[/s] especially my brother because I know the kind of brother I have, he is envious [s]of me because he believes I'm well to do,[/s] her response was we're just friends, now that we have stopped dating she's [s]capitalizing on that to hurt me, she visits[/s] my brother everyday until they started [s]dating, I was angry for a while then I got[/s] over it, but she's not over it yet, now she's asking me to refund everything she has spent on me , I spent on her too but I'm not requesting she pay me back, everything she ever gave me she said she borrowed me, she didn't call it borrow when we were dating, I tried to be reasonable by telling her I'll pay everything, but that got to her head and she's now demanding that the repayment shouldn't exceed this month, I'm not a troublesome person but the moment you dare or threaten me I'll show you my difficult side, and that's [s]what I intend to do, I sent her a text that[/s] the repayment will exceed this month and I might decide to never repay, but she's determined to utilize everything she has to make sure I repay, should I repay her or let her do her worst.

An Example of things that never happened

Sheistoopretty:


Example of things that never happened

Your cup of tea!

Franklystein:
Your cup of tea!

Stop making up stories for cheap attention, likes and shares that wouldn't add a penny to your pocket boy

Emecson:
Lol.......some girls and their wahala.....sha it shows she still likes you

Wtf... did u just say like? Did u read it in English or Latin No wonder guys die like chicken these days

After breaking up in a bar this girl asked me to pull off the palm she bought for me.. I pulled it off and gave her.. Climbed bike bare footed home.. Through out that night I gathered all the receipts, my bank statements every dime in sent to her and her family.. Right now her and her entire family are in police custody pending when I get a full refund.. The money reach 2.5m her mother has been crying and begging me that I should collect 1m now and there will pay the rest by end of the year.

Sheistoopretty:


Stop making up stories for cheap attention, likes and shares that wouldn't add a penny to your pocket boy

Ok, just because your life is full of attention seeking doesn't mean everyone is like you, you're here trying to get noticed, olosho.

Franklystein:
Ok, just because your life is full of attention seeking doesn't mean everyone is like you.

Get a life boy all the time women! Women!! Women!!! Do your life revolve around women?

Sheistoopretty:


Get a life boy all the time women! Women!! Women!!! Do your life revolve around women?

As if you're any better, you hop from prick to prick so why you no go yarn dust.

Franklystein:
As if you're any better, you hop from prick to prick so why you no go yarn dust.

You think ever girl is like your sisters at home? shameless old man

Sheistoopretty:


You think ever girl is like your sisters at home? shameless old man

Ehn die naw, frustrated harlot.

Franklystein:
Ehn die naw, frustrated harlot.

Wow, is that what your sisters specialize in? Wow, I hope you guys are able to eat 3 square meal a day with their professions?

Vaginal people never seems to amaze me oo
Controversial people

Sheistoopretty:


[s][/s]An Example of things that never happened

[s][/s]

Ask her to refund you the ones you spent

Sheistoopretty:


Wow, is that what your sisters specialize in? Wow, I hope you guys are able to eat 3 square meal a day with their professions?

Ok

Franklystein:
I broke up with a girl recently because we had irreconcilable differences, I thought it's over, then to my utmost dismay she started coming to visit my older brother everyday, when we were dating I asked her to focus on our relationship and leave my family out of it especially my brother because I know the kind of brother I have, he is envious of me because he believes I'm well to do, her response was we're just friends, now that we have stopped dating she's capitalizing on that to hurt me, she visits my brother everyday until they started dating, I was angry for a while then I got over it, but she's not over it yet, now she's asking me to refund everything she has spent on me , I spent on her too but I'm not requesting she pay me back, everything she ever gave me she said she borrowed me, she didn't call it borrow when we were dating, I tried to be reasonable by telling her I'll pay everything, but that got to her head and she's now demanding that the repayment shouldn't exceed this month, I'm not a troublesome person but the moment you dare or threaten me I'll show you my difficult side, and that's what I intend to do, I sent her a text that the repayment will exceed this month and I might decide to never repay, but she's determined to utilize everything she has to make sure I repay, should I repay her or let her do her worst.

Don't try it because anything that comes during the relationship go with relationship. If you're the one demanding for a refund now people will insult you like never before

Equation89:
That was how one told me to refund her all the money she has been using to buy singlet and boxers for me during my birthday.

All I did was to screenshot all the money I sent to her including all the data and airtime I sent to her..even the ones for hair and her cosmetics. I calculated all and it was way too high..I sent it to her. I told her to deduct the so called money she spent on me and refund me the remaining .

Up till now, she haven't sent me any message regarding that anymore. Am still waiting for her response. This is making 2 weeks I sent her the message.

I don't understand why some of them normally think that spending on a guy, after the relationship crash, she can easily get back all she spent on the guy.

I tire for them

Op please do do this

Equation89:
That was how one told me to refund her all the money she has been using to buy singlet and boxers for me during my birthday.

All I did was to screenshot all the money I sent to her including all the data and airtime I sent to her..even the ones for hair and her cosmetics. I calculated all and it was way too high..I sent it to her. I told her to deduct the so called money she spent on me and refund me the remaining .

Up till now, she haven't sent me any message regarding that anymore. Am still waiting for her response. This is making 2 weeks I sent her the message.

I don't understand why some of them normally think that spending on a guy, after the relationship crash, she can easily get back all she spent on the guy.

I tire for them

Op please do this

Bennysam:

Don't try it because anything that comes during the relationship go with relationship. If you're the one demanding for a refund now people will insult you like never before

Let them insult, she won't just go away, and it's really getting on my nerves.

Like seriously, I'm just going to give you my own token of advice,.
If you're well to do and can pay up for the gifts and it won't affect you, just do it and let it go.
But if you can't afford it, just tell her to go to hell, bygones are already bygones, then you should stop paying attention to her.
That your bro dating her sef, does he know what's up with you guys lately and the unreasonable demand?
That should open the nigga's eye and dump the girl ASAP.
Just be the gentleman, no assaults

yommyoke:
Like seriously, I'm just going to give you my own token of advice,.
If you're well to do and can pay up for the gifts and it won't affect you, just do it and let it go.
But if you can't afford it, just tell her to go to hell, bygones are already bygones, then you should stop paying attention to her.
That your bro dating her sef, does he know what's up with you guys lately and the unreasonable demand?
That should open the nigga's eye and dump the girl ASAP.
Just be the gentleman, no assaults

He's dating her to spite me, if my friend date my ex I won't be happy talkmore of my brother, it's an abomination in my own point of view but he did it anyway.

Wait!

We shall come back to whether you should pay her or not, but let's discuss something more shocking.

Are you saying your elder bro is now dating your ex?

Franklystein:
Let them insult, she won't just go away, and it's really getting on my nerves.

Don't you spend on her too? Calculate your expenses and do counter balance with her

Bennysam:

Don't you spend on her too? Calculate your expenses and do counter balance with her

I did, it's even hard to quantify the several favors I have done for her because it's not cash at hand, just spendings, including her birthday.

MrBachelor:
Wait!

We shall come back to whether you should pay her or not, but let's discuss something more shocking.

Are you saying your elder bro is now dating your ex?

Yes, and they don't see anything wrong with it, infact they're rubbing it on my face.

Franklystein:
I did, it's even hard to quantify the several favors I have done for her because it's not cash at hand, just spendings, including her birthday.

All I'm saying is that anything that comes during the relationship go with relationship simple, but if you want to settle her do it in your own terms

Franklystein:
He's dating her to spite me, if my friend date my ex I won't be happy talkmore of my brother, it's an abomination in my own point of view but he did it anyway.

As I can see here, you are not in good terms with your bro, your bro dating your ex is somehow!
But brace up, chill and double up.
Don't let the matter get to you, the lady is still having her fun, your bro's eyes will clear the moment he starts getting boring to her.