ASUU has been on strike since forever and sincerely, most of us have not seen the girl (in my case) we are dating.

It's hard.

But honestly, we can't do anything about it right now.

Some people's feelings have probably worn off already. Out of sight. Out of mind.

While some people are barely talking with their partner now because they have very little to say to each other.

While some are going stronger.

Where are you now with your school partner?

Personally, I and my girl have been going stronger. In school we barely have time for each other even though we spend a lot of our time together, it doesn't feel enough.

Sex. Sex. Sex. Takes away our time for conversations.

Now we are talking like never before. We talk everyday. Mostly at night because that's when I close from work.

In the beginning it was kind of hard but once we made it a habit of calling and gisting, it became easier.

Long distance relationship na another thing

long relationship is a waste of time unless you’re in it for experience. it’s a long way to marriage and anything can break or mar the relationship. moreover, either parties don’t fully commit to it in the name of “it’s not marriage”, or “it’s just a relationship”.


for me, define your friendship with a girl as purely sexual but not a relationship. Knock yourselves out and when you’re ripe for marriage, meet a woman and propose for marriage if she meets your taste in wife after 8 months dating.

There's no break gee so you better don't let ya enemies deceive you... Girls love attention which you're giving her . But as for the refilling of her tank? Forget it! Someone is always there to help them. I'm kinda talking outta experience.

They'll occupy you just as you do same especially if you're still sending them money or airtime. But just have in mind that they'll cheat. Its hard to see a Nigerian girl that is loyal, very hard. After covid break, babe wey dey shout say "she miss me, that she'll wait" only for me to return and entered borehole . I wasn't bothered sha cos i wasn't dating her before. Although i later blocked her, but i thank God cos for that while, twas a blissful one .




As our Ancestors would say "Having a loyal and trustworthy babe of this generation, its like having a dog who doesn't like bone".