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Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by SouthSouth1914: 4:31pm On Sep 15, 2022
DarlingtonC:
So you won't mind if your daughter does family planning at 16?

And you won’t mind if your daughter get pregnant at 16?
Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by sgtponzihater1(m): 4:31pm On Sep 15, 2022
If I were the doctor I will offer family planning, as long as she understands the risk, and is mature to make her decision. If her boyfriend is above 18 then he needs to be reported for potential abuse.

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Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by EM123: 4:33pm On Sep 15, 2022
Wittyglam:
no she is not. She endangering herself and her future and I know a lot of people suffering from this.
BRo please what are the danger involved in family planning? uo
Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by VERDA: 4:33pm On Sep 15, 2022
DarlingtonC:
STOP HAVING SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE THEN YOU WOULDN'T NEED TO START WORRYING WHETHER FAMILY PLANNING IS GOOD FOR A 16 YEAR OLD OR NOT

Because you did not have sex before Marraige abi, some of you will come here condemning people about sex and all yet most of you are having sex left right center...hypocrites.

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Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by Angelfrost(m): 4:33pm On Sep 15, 2022
Kingsmm55:
Sixteen years is an over ripe woman....what was the age of your mother when your father started hammering her kpekus inform of marriage,,,? Abeg the girl did the right thing... She even deserve Oscar or any award if it were in a sane clime...

Okay... So, your daughter at 16 is free to have sex as much as she wants, with as many men as she desires!

Okay sir... You have spoken well!
Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by temitope27(m): 4:34pm On Sep 15, 2022
MufasaLion:


A 16-year-old woman is "over ripe" for sex?

Y'all perverts can never hide your shame.
what's shame here? 90% of NIGERIA girls age 14 above are no more a virgin, dey even look more mature this days,so y we come dey deceive ourselves
Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by asanausana91: 4:35pm On Sep 15, 2022
gshsj:

Can u tell us the danger?
Some family planning is reversible so what are u talking abt.
In developed country, most pornn stars do temporary family planning...pls the gal did the right thing to not fall pregnant if its a temporary one she did.... that's smart of her in my opinion
by God grace your daughter will do family planning at the age of 16. Say amen

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Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by Angelfrost(m): 4:35pm On Sep 15, 2022
sgtponzihater1:
If I were the doctor I will offer family planning, as long as she understands the risk, and is mature to make her decision. If her boyfriend is above 18 then he needs to be reported for potential abuse.

Who has reported our men in the North?!!

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Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by Winters23: 4:35pm On Sep 15, 2022
Baronthecelebri:
Wahala, who did that for, that guy will leave her tomorrow


Yea the guy is free to leave, but atleast his seed will not be left behind
Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by temitope27(m): 4:35pm On Sep 15, 2022
Wittyglam:
thank you for seeing the wrong in it cause a lot of plate praising the act. Someone that was sent to school to study.
16 years old is not too small to av sex, but the family planning is no good, I would prefer pills instead
Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by Angelfrost(m): 4:36pm On Sep 15, 2022
temitope27:
what's shame here? 90% of NIGERIA girls age 14 above are no more a virgin, dey even look more mature this days,so y we come dey deceive ourselves

So, that makes it normal and alright?!!

Meaning your daughters are free and qualified to have sex anyhow from that age?!!
Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by asanausana91: 4:36pm On Sep 15, 2022
laluski:
Isn't it better she does that than to have an unplanned and unwanted pregnancy?
your daughter will do family planning at age of 16. I want to hear you saying amen
Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by Cmanforall: 4:38pm On Sep 15, 2022
Wittyglam:
Parents it’s time you start monitoring your wards, I know it’s not easy but you have to try. Make your kids your best friend, visit them on campus.

Be friends with their friends.
A 16years old girl went to do family planning just to please her boyfriend, so they can have sex the way they want. She doesn’t understand the danger she is putting herself in.

Stop trying to do the wrong things all in the name of love, stop trying to please people.
Family planning, I guess you mean contraception?
It is alright for her to seek contraception as far she's up to age to understand the implications. However, if the partner is far older than her, say 40 years, then law enforcement authorities should be notified as a case of child abuse.

Note that both sexes can be sexually active below the age of 18, and as such contraceptive counselling is necessary.

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Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by Cmanforall: 4:41pm On Sep 15, 2022
temitope27:
16 years old is not too small to av sex, but the family planning is no good, I would prefer pills instead
Pills is part of family planning

Here the confusion is in the words 'Family planning '

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Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by nsesam(m): 4:41pm On Sep 15, 2022
Apart from unwanted pregnancy, she might be expsose to STDS, HIV OR AIDS that are dangerous compare to pregnancy

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Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by Femabol01: 4:44pm On Sep 15, 2022
laluski:
Isn't it better she does that than to have an unplanned and unwanted pregnancy?
. Ahhhhh... Her pussy go don scatter before her innocent future husband will inherit her.

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Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by Nobody: 4:44pm On Sep 15, 2022
She is not endangering herself by going to see a doctor and seeking professional advice. She could have hone ahead to have all the sex and maybe get pregnant or an infection but she went to hospital. The only part that I am worried about is where she went alone. As a parent, you teach your girl child abstinence and all that, but you also make sure they understand very well what could happen if they have unplanned and unprotected sex, and how to prevent that. I know we all like to appear holy in public but some people start having sex even before that age but we all want to condemn a girl that actually took a step to protect herself.

worksmart:
I agree, but in her mind she thinks she is doing the responsible thing.

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Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by Aidejay(m): 4:46pm On Sep 15, 2022
Everything you people will stigmatize and shame.

Unwanted pregnancy;Stigmatize
STD's; stigmatize
Abortion; stigmatize
Sex Education, stigmatize
Testing & Knowing status; stigmatize
Family planning now; stigmatize

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Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by Rebirth212: 4:48pm On Sep 15, 2022
gshsj:

Can u tell us the danger?
Some family planning is reversible so what are u talking abt.
In developed country, most pornn stars do temporary family planning...pls the gal did the right thing to not fall pregnant if its a temporary one she did.... that's smart of her in my opinion

If the family planning remains for a very long time.... For her to get pregnant it will now bcum a problem and she will b feeling pains during sex

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Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by Freshgrace4life(f): 4:48pm On Sep 15, 2022
Some girls from 12yrs dem don open eyes especially if their seniors na IG slay mamas.

Family planning won't prevent STDs.

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Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by Kobojunkie: 4:50pm On Sep 15, 2022
Wittyglam:
I I works for a lot of people and fail a lot of people, because it works for A doesn’t mean it will work for B.
2. She is way too young to do family planning. Most people have problems have babies later on in life. It mess with most people system, and I know a friend of mine that was bleeding for months.
3. She was sent to school to study not to participate in such act.
1. Stop that nonsense! undecided
2. Again, stop that nonsense! How many of the people who you claim have problems later in life did family planning in their teenage years? Stop spreading what are unverified claims abeg! undecided
3. So? She made a decision to begin having sex and so took it on herself to get herself educated so she doesn't get pregnant or get STIs. Would you rather she have sex without protection then? undecided

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Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by Kobojunkie: 4:50pm On Sep 15, 2022
ghettochild:
It's a normal thing in the western world n here in South Africa.
Nigeria still dey behind
It is commonsense even! undecided
Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by cedricksly: 4:50pm On Sep 15, 2022
Wittyglam:
Parents it’s time you start monitoring your wards, I know it’s not easy but you have to try. Make your kids your best friend, visit them on campus.

Be friends with their friends.
A 16years old girl went to do family planning just to please her boyfriend, so they can have sex the way they want. She doesn’t understand the danger she is putting herself in.

Stop trying to do the wrong things all in the name of love, stop trying to please people.
ignorance us the reason for many unwanted pregnancies and abortions... Even if she is 16years old, the fact that she has acknowledged that she is Sexually active, it is better than than unwanted pregnancy or abortion... Talking about what is wrong, the fact that she is still a minor and she's already Sexually active is what is wrong, not the family planning.... Na this same ignorance dey make majority born above their means... ONCE AGAIN AUNTY, THE DIDN'T DO NOTHING WRONG... But stukl them suppose flog him and the boy wen dey fry take advantage of minor
Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by CaptainAyub: 4:52pm On Sep 15, 2022
laluski:
Isn't it better she does that than to have an unplanned and unwanted pregnancy?
She's planning on having regular unprotected sex.
What of STIs?
Hepatitis B&C ,etc?
Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by Deicide: 4:52pm On Sep 15, 2022
No hospital would approve that for a 16 years old girl best they can do is refer her to pharmacy to get contractive pills.
Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by Fuckyoumod: 4:52pm On Sep 15, 2022
DarlingtonC:
So you won't mind if your daughter does family planning at 16?
don't mind the idiot
Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by Igboslayer: 4:53pm On Sep 15, 2022
laluski:
Isn't it better she does that than to have an unplanned and unwanted pregnancy?
Ọmọ,... if only wisdom comes from an adult?
Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by cedricksly: 4:53pm On Sep 15, 2022
gshsj:

Can u tell us the danger?
Some family planning is reversible so what are u talking abt.
In developed country, most pornn stars do temporary family planning...pls the gal did the right thing to not fall pregnant if its a temporary one she did.... that's smart of her in my opinion
it is called family planning, "planing" take note of the word in quote, it means they are reversible.. The only ones nor reversible is removal of the uterus, and removal of the sperm duct(in male) this is for people who knows they have finished having children and would never think of having again(that is this who has put a PERMANENT STOP to child bearing).
Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by Kobojunkie: 4:54pm On Sep 15, 2022
Wittyglam:
1. is this right for a minor?
2. why are you all neglecting the age.
3. Is she supposed to be exposed to sex at that age?
1. Does teenage pregnancy or even an STI look better on a minor then? undecided
2. Can 16-year-olds not get pregnant or STIs from sexual intercourse? undecided
3. Your story claims she has a boyfriend, and I am guessing within her age. So, are you going to claim the boy is the one exposing her to sex or not? undecided

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Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by Dukebeloved(m): 4:54pm On Sep 15, 2022
gshsj:

Can u tell us the danger?
Some family planning is reversible so what are u talking abt.
In developed country, most pornn stars do temporary family planning...pls the gal did the right thing to not fall pregnant if its a temporary one she did.... that's smart of her in my opinion

She is 16 bro, try get conscience biko, if na ur sis nko...

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