1. Do not go into long term projects with a woman you have not married. Projects like starting a business, moving abroad together, etc - If there’s a break up, it would affect the psychology of the project and you would stop
halfway. You’d lose. Avoid doing business with your partners as much as you can unless you are married.
2. She is your girlfriend not your wife. No matter how much you think you love her, there is a 50 percent chance that you will not end up married. Do not undertake financial responsibilities or give gifts that you will regret if she leaves you.
3. Following from the previous, hell hath no fury as a woman scorned. Do not accept gifts and money that you cannot afford from your girlfriend and please do not take loans from them, If the relationship goes sour, most women will demand for refunds, and you will be required to refund. Pray for the best but expect the worst.
4. Do not move in with your
woman. No matter how much you think she loves you, it is better for you to live under the bridge than to move into a house where the rent is paid by your woman. You will lose your respect in tiny bits until there’s nothing left. She is your girlfriend not your wife.
5. You are enough. The moment you become uncomfortable with your woman’s friendship with another man, confront it openly. She will most likely blackmail you into guilt by calling you insecure but she’s the one who made you insecure. Confront it, challenge it. You must never compete. If you have to, LEAVE.
6. Do not forgive infidelity from your woman. If you catch her cheating, leave. You will think you have forgiven but you have not forgotten and you will never forget. That relationship will not
lead to marriage anymore. If you go ahead and marry her, you will ruin both your lives because you will keep reminding her that she cheated. There’s no point. Leave. 7. Your girl’s friends and family are not your friends and family. Do not over indulge them. Keep your distance and do not over communicate with them. Overfamiliarity breeds contempt. 8. Learn to apologise immediately. We are not perfect. We can say wrong words and do wrong things to our partners even when we didn’t mean to. Immediately you sense discomfort and disapproval, apologize properly and seek forgiveness. Do not wait to be confronted before you apologize.
9. Set your rules and stand by them. Do not be flexible. What is wrong today will be wrong tomorrow. Women don’t like weak men. No matter how much she blackmails you into changing your mind about something, she
will appreciate you better in the long run if you don’t.
10. Finally, she is not your wife. You are not her father. Don’t expect her to put you first the same way you shouldn’t put her first until you are married.

Nice points. Adjust the punctuations and spacing.

nice write up but scattered without proper spacing and punctuations..... if you are not the patient one,u want read it through.

Nice points.

SeniorMan715:


1. Do not go into long term projects with a woman you have not married.

Projects like starting a business, moving abroad together, etc - If there’s a break up, it would affect the psychology of the project and you would stop halfway.

You’d lose. Avoid doing business with your partners as much as you can unless you are married.

2. She is your girlfriend not your wife. No matter how much you think you love her, there is a 50 percent chance that you will not end up married.

Do not undertake financial responsibilities or give gifts that you will regret if she leaves you.

3. Following from the previous, hell hath no fury as a woman scorned.

Do not accept gifts and money that you cannot afford from your girlfriend and please do not take loans from them, If the relationship goes sour, most women will
demand for refunds, and you will be required to refund.

Pray for the best but expect the worst.

4. Do not move in with your
woman. No matter how much you think she loves you, it is better for you to live under the bridge than to move into a house where the rent is paid by your woman.

You will lose your respect in tiny bits until there’s nothing left. She is your girlfriend not your wife.

5. You are enough. The moment you become uncomfortable with your woman’s friendship with another man, confront it openly.

She will most likely blackmail you into guilt by calling you insecure but she’s the one who made you insecure.

Confront it, challenge it. You must never compete. If you have to,
LEAVE.

6. Do not forgive infidelity from your woman. If you catch her cheating, leave. You will think you have forgiven but you have not forgotten and you will never forget.

That relationship will not lead to marriage anymore. If you go ahead and marry her, you will ruin both your lives because you will keep reminding her that she cheated.

There’s no point. Leave.

7. Your girl’s friends and family are not your friends and family.

Do not over indulge them.

Keep your distance and do not over communicate with them.

Over Familiarity breeds contempt.

8. Learn to apologize immediately. We are not perfect. We can say wrong words and do wrong things to our partners even when we didn’t mean to.

Immediately you sense discomfort and disapproval, apologize properly and seek forgiveness.

Do not wait to be confronted
before you apologize.

9. Set your rules and stand by them. Do not be flexible. What is wrong today will be wrong tomorrow.

Women don’t like weak men. No matter how much she blackmails you into changing your mind about something, she will appreciate you better in the long run if you don’t.

10. Finally, she is not your wife. You are not her father. Don’t expect her to put you first the same way you shouldn’t put her first until you
are married.

You are on point

Number one happened to a very close friend of mine recently...in fact the police was called into the matter.

The guy opened a grocery store business with his girlfriend, they both contributed and opened it...the guy is working so the girl is the one managing it.

They broke up and the girl claimed ownership of the business, whereas the guy spent over 5m partnering with her...the matter no be here. The truth is don't partner with anyone you haven't legally married cos if things go south, it won't be funny, the guy even involved the police to get the girl to give him is stake in the business the girl refused saying she doesn't have that kind of money besides she didn't beg him he was the one who openly suggested that he would invest so he shouldn't nag her, she would give him whenever she has the money.

Number 4 isn't for Nigerians...I doubt if any man would comfortably move into a house rented and furnished by his girlfriend. I'd rather squat in an uncomfortable one room face me I slap you with my guys than move into a duplex rented and furnished by my girlfriend. Cos you'd loose every iota of respect she has for you the day you move in. She'll complain that you don't mop the floor, she'll nag you for using her electronics, in fact na you go taya run comot sef.

You see that number 6 eeh...if your woman cheats on you, just let her be. If you forgive a cheating woman, she'll never respect you. She'll see you as a weak man, she'll cheat openly and rub it on your face by blaming you for her actions. Once she cheats, and you confirm it, sever all communications with her and move on.

Number 7. I've seen a guy who threw a lavish birthday party for his girlfriend's mom only for them to breakup months later. There's a reason it's called relationship, don't go and start carrying load way nobody send you, if her husband and kids cannot throw a birthday party for their mom why should you who's only a boyfriend accept to do such?

Love, look what you made them do.
Too bad.

SeniorMan715:
1. Do not go into long term projects with a woman you have not married.

whats wrong with going into a long term project with someone, so long as they bring their fair share?!?!? if you gonna invest in someone, then let them also invest the same as you do, et voila!!!

2. She is your girlfriendnot your wife. No matter how much you think you love her, there is a 50 percent chance that you will not end up married.

problem with people like you is that you cant see the value in people until you marry them. however you treat your long time gf is exactly how she will view you after marriage. a r/ship built on nonsense lack of trust and disrespect, will result in exactly the same! a r/ship is an adventure that you need to enjoy from the get go, without limitations. the minute you think you can treat a person like garbage and then only start being a real man when you marry her, thats when you will have shown the world that you aint a real man. the solution here is COMMUNICATION

3. Following from the previous, hell hath no fury as a woman scorned.

ARRANT NONSENSE!!!!! if it is ok for you to give gifts to your woman then it is equally ok to receive whatever gifts from that same woman. your misplace ego is in the way of your common sense! giving gifts and showing appreciation in a r/ship is a normal way of life...stop trying to make it a weapon against one another. just make sure the gift is not a necessity in that r/ship!

4. Do not move in with your woman.

men like you are so narrow minded, your insecurities are sickening. there is nothing wrong with a man moving in with his woman, especially if she has a better place than you can ever afford. what kind of simp would rather live in a shack than in his gf's mansion?!?!?!?

5. You are enough. The moment you become uncomfortable with your woman’s friendship with another man, confront it openly.

if you believe that your woman cannot have ANY male friend, then i suggest you go live in some cave in the jungle, as you are talking like a caveman! why dont you tie that woman to the bedpost every morning, to make sure she doesnt look at any other man than you, abi?!?!?

6. Do not forgive infidelity from your woman.

thats the only sensible thing you wrote in this pile of garbage

7. Your girl’s friends and family are not your friends and family.

ARRANT NONSENSE!!!! your girl's friends and family are YOUR friends and family. you have to accept them because thats part of HER life. trying to change people is what weak insecure men do. this woman had a life before you and this is part of who she is. not everyone in her life is after her toto, stop thinking like an insecure simp!

8. Learn to apologise immediately.

no man should ever apologize to something he believes is right.

9. Set your rules and stand by them.

are you talking of r/ship or DICTATORSHIP?!?!?! a union is about TWO people and not one narrow minded yeye person who think that everything should be HIS WAY. what kind of ignoramus even think this way?!?!? you cant be in a r/ship thinking in such a selfish foul way, unless you are dating yeye broke hungry begging golddiggers

10. Finally, she is not your wife. You are not her father. Don’t expect her to put you first the same way you shouldn’t put her first until you are married.

marriage is the finalization of a beautiful story...a story that started way before that marriage. no man can treat a woman like garbage throughout their courtship and then expect this woman to even like the foul man you display (that will "supposedly" change after marriage).... what do you think this is? the national lottery?!?!? a man should show his woman what type of man he is and what type of r/ship they have FROM THE GET GO. be honest to your woman, TRUST your woman, TREAT your woman right.... build something valuable and worthy with her, instead of seeing her as the enemy, even before you guys are going anywhere. people who think like you either stay single all their lives and/or marry yeye goldigging broke oloshoes who play your game to perfection.

Nice points

Leave other people wey dey talk rubbish...

[quote author=SeniorMan715 post=117081522]1. Do not go into long term projects with a woman you have not married. Projects like starting a business, moving abroad together, etc - If there’s a break up, it would affect the psychology of the project and you would stop
halfway. You’d lose. Avoid doing business with your partners as
much as you can unless you are married. 2. She is your girlfriend
not your wife. No matter how much you think you love her, there
is a 50 percent chance that you will not end up married. Do not
undertake financial responsibilities or give gifts that you will regret
if she leaves you. 3. Following from the previous, hell hath no fury
as a woman scorned. Do not accept gifts and money that you
cannot afford from your girlfriend and please do not take loans
from them, If the relationship goes sour, most women will
demand for refunds, and you will be required to refund. Pray for
the best but expect the worst.
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