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Re: My Husband Has Been Cheating On Me by Nobody: 8:25am On Sep 13, 2012 |
agiboma: @ OP, last year December i could have written this post myself. My relationship was in shambles, came on NL family section posted my problems and well got pretty much the same response you got, from the same people. Listen work on your relationship as you have promised to do, things will change for you like they have for me. Ask g-d to help you and change your husbands attitude. You will see changes in him, he will return to teh man you originally fell in love with. Im also in this relationship for 10 years like you so i know. Today my home is happier place there is more understanding and appreciation. It does get better but it takes hard work. GL and you can do it. Do people really change? Or have you just resigned yourself to fate and turn a blind eye just to have a semblance of peace? Please don't take this question the wrongway, I'm really curious! |
Re: My Husband Has Been Cheating On Me by Nobody: 8:26am On Sep 13, 2012 |
agiboma: Well I worked on it my goal has always been to make the family work so my children dont grow up fatherless like i did. That was my motivation. So i started to see the route cause of the decay in my marriage and their where many, i started on the issues that where dividing us. If I remember clearly, your major complain was about him cheating . . . has that also changed |
Re: My Husband Has Been Cheating On Me by Busybody2(f): 10:46am On Sep 13, 2012 |
agiboma: @ OP, last year December i could have written this post myself. My relationship was in shambles, came on NL family section posted my problems and well got pretty much the same response you got, from the same people. Listen work on your relationship as you have promised to do, things will change for you like they have for me. Ask g-d to help you and change your husbands attitude. You will see changes in him, he will return to teh man you originally fell in love with. Im also in this relationship for 10 years like you so i know. Today my home is happier place there is more understanding and appreciation. It does get better but it takes hard work. GL and you can do it. Just been in the health section. Glad you decided to not only stick it for your son but also found your God-given inner strength to reach out to the "less obvious" victim too. . . Congratulations also to the new bun in the oven. Wish you a safe journey second time round expectant Momma This is just the start, may your household continue to radiate peace that passeth human understanding and unlimited joy that knows no bound in Jesus' Name. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Has Been Cheating On Me by TheMadame(f): 10:59am On Sep 13, 2012 |
@ujujoan, why are women our own worse enemies? She said her husband has changed and she is now happy,why can't you let her be. She is the one wearing the shoes and knows where it pinches her. Why do you cnose to believe the first story but refuse to believe her husband has changed story? What do you mean that people can not change? Please give it a rest. It is starting to sound boring. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Has Been Cheating On Me by Nobody: 11:00am On Sep 13, 2012 |
Ndi ara |
Re: My Husband Has Been Cheating On Me by Nobody: 1:07pm On Sep 13, 2012 |
TheMadame: @ujujoan, STFU! Next please . . . |
Re: My Husband Has Been Cheating On Me by free2ryhme: 1:36pm On Sep 13, 2012 |
Gayi: Pls i need advise from men and women of goodwill! I think your husband just won himself a gf |
Re: My Husband Has Been Cheating On Me by agiboma(f): 3:03pm On Sep 13, 2012 |
Hmmm "mad people" u say, People can change and my house is now a different place, i dont put a blind eye to anything, my house is the home of love, understanding and peace. .It took work to get to the point we are at but its worth i. When i see my son and the baby coming i know i am where i belong. Dont let negativity and hatred alter you thoughts on people change its possible, just have patience. |
Re: My Husband Has Been Cheating On Me by agiboma(f): 3:04pm On Sep 13, 2012 |
Busy_body: Thank you |
Re: My Husband Has Been Cheating On Me by Nobody: 3:18pm On Sep 13, 2012 |
agiboma: Hmmm "mad people" u say, I'm really happy for your . . . truly! I guess there's ALWAYS hope . . . one only needs to be very forgiving and patient. I wish you luck! 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Has Been Cheating On Me by TheMadame(f): 4:51pm On Sep 13, 2012 |
Ujujoan: I see the mentality of a two year old child,locked in the body of an adult. You have been warned-give the issue a rest. Your immature and childish attempt to make fun of agibomas situation collapsed in your face and like the coward you are, hiding behind your cheap laptop you resorted to belated congratulations on the succes of her marriage. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Has Been Cheating On Me by horny4u(f): 5:36pm On Sep 13, 2012 |
obowunmi: Also OP, how do you plan to protect yourself from HIV and STDs, you know a sick woman has no strength? I am in love with Obowunmi.....(what a name @pot calling kettle black) Very wise advise.... |
Re: My Husband Has Been Cheating On Me by IfeLuvely: 6:26pm On Sep 13, 2012 |
If it was me,I will pay isale eko boys to beat the hell out of him, kidnap him and go n tie him up under an iroko tree in the igbo irunmolo(the evil forest) simples. Men that cheat are weak besterds. Or put magun(thunderbolt) on him |
Re: My Husband Has Been Cheating On Me by Genius100: 1:46am On Sep 14, 2012 |
agiboma: Well I worked on it my goal has always been to make the family work so my children dont grow up fatherless like i did. That was my motivation. So i started to see the route cause of the decay in my marriage and their where many, i started on the issues that where dividing us. This is really nice. People having problems in their relationship can learn a lot from these points... |
Re: My Husband Has Been Cheating On Me by Nobody: 8:35am On Sep 14, 2012 |
TheMadame: You must reaaaaaly be hurting . . . . Poor you! Like I said . . . Prayer is the key! |
Re: My Husband Has Been Cheating On Me by Nobody: 11:25am On Sep 14, 2012 |
TheMadame: O . . . k . . Just ask nicely and I'll join you to pray! I'm not much of a prayer but I can try. Anything to get your husband to tuck in his pr1ck . . I'm cool like that! |
Re: My Husband Has Been Cheating On Me by Nobody: 12:25pm On Sep 14, 2012 |
Lmao |
Re: My Husband Has Been Cheating On Me by TheMadame(f): 3:12pm On Sep 14, 2012 |
Hehehe. Running to moderators for protection. Coward! |
Re: My Husband Has Been Cheating On Me by Nobody: 3:52pm On Sep 14, 2012 |
Somebody asked a question, the person they asked answered her without insults, the question asker congratulated the poster, someone else has taken it as her duty to respond with insults, even when the insults have not been reciprocated. na wa oh |
Re: My Husband Has Been Cheating On Me by TheMadame(f): 5:06pm On Sep 14, 2012 |
debrief08: Somebody asked a question, the person they asked answered her without insults, the question asker congratulated the poster, someone else has taken it as her duty to respond with insults, even when the insults have not been reciprocated. na wa oh why are people such hypocrites? Did you not see the b1tcthes comment about my husband? Please if you can not be fair in judgement,mind your own business. |
Re: My Husband Has Been Cheating On Me by Nobody: 5:23pm On Sep 14, 2012 |
TheMadame:I didnt see oh, Se asked Agiboma a question you jumped in and attacked, Agi herself answered, Uju even congratulated her, yoiu still insulted her for doing so. I am not qualified to tell you how to behave but I can beg you to ease up on the insults. It is not worth it, any word we say online or offline will be recorded for and against us, you can disagree without insults |
Re: My Husband Has Been Cheating On Me by TheMadame(f): 5:43pm On Sep 14, 2012 |
debrief08: you will not see because you are biased. Is this how biased you are in real life? After half of the exchanges had been hidden you ar now here giving sanctimonious judgement? Well your lordship your biased judgement is unacceptable to me. Did you not see her remarks that my husband is a cheat? I gave it back to her and the coward scampered to the mods. I hope you realise there is a God and he will judge you for your skewered and biased views. Please in future mind your business. You are not my mother! |
Re: My Husband Has Been Cheating On Me by Nobody: 6:01pm On Sep 14, 2012 |
TheMadame:Okay, sorry madam, didnt mean to further upset you |
Re: My Husband Has Been Cheating On Me by TheMadame(f): 6:23pm On Sep 14, 2012 |
That is your bloody business,suit yourself and stay on your lane. I can joke with anything,but if you mention my husband or kids,you have crossed the line. |
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