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Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by Kobojunkie: 12:38am On Oct 10, 2022
Sukkyy2010:

The spirit of God in your life will never be terminated. Please how can someone balance scripture study with social media as a Christian.

I can see you're social media user and you also sound like a scripture reader, how do you balance the two.
Stop dragging God's name into the muck that is you! undecided
Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by DonroxyII: 1:39am On Oct 10, 2022
okoroemeka:
why fight nature and hormones in a battle you cannot win,get a good size rubber dick or a vibrating rabbit and watch yourselves cum out of your frustrations and relieve the built up pressure in your system,if you like pray and go to deliverence you may just end up fucking your pastor.
Aswear,she can even get fvckmate in Church. People need to understand sex is essential part of Body Stabilisations System.

The Body-Systems will respond psychologically to lack of Sex with the emotional clouds Abounded and clumsy brain.

A man no suppose Abandon his woman without plans for more than 3months.

In the olden days, Human marries in teens(Boys and girls) and society takes care of the marriage but nowadays who leaves a full Fledged adult woman.

Op tell Your husband to travel down for sex grin
Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by DonroxyII: 1:50am On Oct 10, 2022
faithfull18:
Your mind, control it there and you would be fine.
Can you Control your mind against hunger ...

Earth Rains and erupt molten magma.

Human must erupt the clouds of Odds Emotions in them in order to be refreshed and reset if not psychological issues such as Frustrations, Anger, Snappish build up that can even further effects on Ordinary Relationships.

A Sane Man must hold Sexual Fulfillments of his Woman Important, it's a service to Societies not just una Families!

A Sexually Fulfilled Woman is a Blessing to Humanities and Motherhood while a Sexually unfulfilled woman is a Potential Mad Scorned Woman dreaded by Most.

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Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by DonroxyII: 1:59am On Oct 10, 2022
Annahh:
You need to deal with the spirit of lust, the spirit of lust can manifest in your life even in marriage, it's not bad to feel sexual urge, it shows that you are normal and your body system is functioning but when the urge is too strong that you can't handle it, a spirit is behind it. I have been practicing abstinence for years now and I don't even feel half of this urge like you feel, you need to discipline your mind and put your flesh under subjection.
It is not necessary for both of Una to be the same. Una Genetic build up no be same. She ain't your Family.

God is in our heads and as far as we are Reasonable, that's God right there!

Ordinary without God man no get Sense pass Animals.

A konjified Woman can easily disconnect from Reasonableness thus Disconnect from God then Animal Instincts kicks immediately!

God no dey cure konji na sex dey cure am ...

if You ask God to cure am, God can help you remove your Sexual urge entirely if your brain constantly and consistently tell herself she doesn't need Sex... the urge dies and you evolve frigid. Welcome to new life and no be Everybody wants that life.
Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by Jacketaltrade: 6:27am On Oct 10, 2022
I repeat, that attention you need is not available
Kobojunkie:
Stop using God's name to perpetrate what are lies! undecided
Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by Kobojunkie: 6:28am On Oct 10, 2022
Jacketaltrade:
I repeat, that attention you need is not available
Stop using God's name to perpetrate what are lies! undecided
Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by faithfull18(f): 8:56am On Oct 10, 2022
DonroxyII:
Can you Control your mind against hunger ...

Earth Rains and erupt molten magma.

Human must erupt the clouds of Odds Emotions in them in order to be refreshed and reset if not psychological issues such as Frustrations, Anger, Snappish build up that can even further effects on Ordinary Relationships.

A Sane Man must hold Sexual Fulfillments of his Woman Important, it's a service to Societies not just una Families!

A Sexually Fulfilled Woman is a Blessing to Humanities and Motherhood while a Sexually unfulfilled woman is a Potential Mad Scorned Woman dreaded by Most.
Yes, you can conquer anything if you have conquered your flesh, she should shift her focus to other things. Self-control is a fruit of the spirit and it is bliss.
Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by DonroxyII: 11:37am On Oct 10, 2022
faithfull18:

Yes, you can conquer anything if you have conquered your flesh, she should shift her focus to other things. Self-control is a fruit of the spirit and it is bliss.
That's the Myopia you are Suffering, Not everyone is on Your Spirit and you shouldn't expect everyone to be On Your Spirit because you are not on the Spirit of Everyone.

She Needs Damn Sex, Call Her Husband cheesy
Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by Sukkyy2010: 1:51pm On Oct 10, 2022
Blessedmercy8:


https://youtube.com/shorts/-ScRI47IjPs?feature=share.

This woman too preaches very powerfully. You can follow her to inspirational and life changing messages.
Thanks I'm grateful.
Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by Schprobs: 3:28pm On Oct 10, 2022
[quote author=Blessedmercy8 post=117373307]Do you go to weekly church programs?
I doubt because if you do, your flesh will be kept under as your spirit is being lifted with the word of God but it's obvious the only things you feed your soul with are thoughts of sex and wild imaginations of sex.
Watching sexual videos and all sorts.

If you want to get your mind off it, think and dwell more on spiritual things like the word of God. Gospel songs and if possible, fasting and prayers asking the holy spirit to help ( He can/will help you). That is if you're even a christian.

[/quotee]


If these things works I wonder why pastors fornicate most??
Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by Schprobs: 3:45pm On Oct 10, 2022
Issybilla:
Hi
To those that have probably been there or have an idea about it.
How do you handle sexual urges especially if your partner is not available.

It happens that hubby has been away for quite some time, eight month precisely and he isn’t coming back any moment.

These days has just been messy for me as I am always Hot and wet as fhhuckk, whenever I get up from bed, my pant is always soaked. I have tried to suppress the pressure to touch myself or use objects but it seems the pressure is overcoming me, damn I hardly even concentrate on any other thing, my mind is just fhhhuccked up right now, all my thoughts are bordered on dirty wild sex almost all day.

Are there therapists or some kinda experts one can talk to, I really fear for myself.


I understand what ure going through in fact someone like me can't go a week without sex.
From the beginning I taught its was village people so I started reading my Bible and praying with exercise but to glory be to God I keep getting hornier.

Then I started with masturbation��‍♀️��‍♀️
At first I started enjoying it but the more I masturbate the more I feel likes doing it again again and again until I started hating on myself and angry with myself
It's gets to a stage I can't have normal sex with a girl I won't get get erection due to too much masturbation.

Until I come across a book about high libido and low libido, the books says it's normal its the numbers of hormones our body produce that determine our sexual life.

If your hormones are high not even Jesus can safe u, if u indulge into masturbation u will regret it later.
*Have a partner like u or
*Have a side boyfriend
Sex is part of our lives it's should be enjoy not deny.
Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by Kobojunkie: 3:08am On Oct 21, 2022
Lifted07:
Go on YouTube download Apostle Joshua Selman's message, "What seekest thou", and you can add more of his messages to start with. Listen to them while you work. To God will be the Glory!
Have all the 10's of 1000s who currently worship at the feet of this same man, some for several years now, been delivered from the exact same predicament at this time? undecided

The man is clearly not been able to handle or heal the load he has been taking on for many years now. Why do you seek to add more to the number of those who will never be healed/helped by him? undecided
Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by Lifted07: 6:35am On Oct 22, 2022
Kobojunkie:
Have all the 10's of 1000s who currently worship at the feet of this same man, some for several years now, been delivered from the exact same predicament at this time? undecided

The man is clearly not been able to handle or heal the load he has been taking on for many years now. Why do you seek to add more to the number of those who will never be healed/helped by him? undecided


I understand your frustrations. But note that I didn't say "Go to Apostle Joshua Selman", or "Go to Apostle Joshua Selman's Church". Rather, I recommended the Word of God preached through him. He himself is not the Power of God, neither is he the Word of God; he is just a vessel.
You're probably angry because you or some people close to you have been following him and you didn't get what you desire, sorry about that. But I'll counsel you to turn your focus on God rather than a man of God.

Listening to his messages has helped me personally to understand what power I carry as a child of God; I know who I am; I know the workings of God in me. And I don't need to be frustrated by how much power a man of God has or doesn't have.

My dear, find God, not a man of God. That's all you need. Men of God have limitations. God doesn't.
Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by Kobojunkie: 6:47am On Oct 22, 2022
Lifted07:
1. I understand your frustrations. But note that I didn't say "Go to Apostle Joshua Selman", or "Go to Apostle Joshua Selman's Church". Rather, I recommended the Word of God preached through him. He himself is not the Power of God, neither is he the Word of God; he is just a vessel.

2. You're probably angry because you or some people close to you have been following him and you didn't get what you desire, sorry about that. But I'll counsel you to turn your focus on God rather than a man of God.

3. Listening to his messages has helped me personally to understand what power I carry as a child of God; I know who I am; I know the workings of God in me. And I don't need to be frustrated by how much power a man of God has or doesn't have.

4. My dear, find God, not a man of God. That's all you need. Men of God have limitations. God doesn't.
1. The doctrines and traditions preached by these men is the reason why 10s of thousands who listen to them never see that promised by God in their lives. undecided

2. My anger has instead to do with the fact that these men teach lies using God's name, and so make prisons of the lives of those who submit to their lies. I personally know the Truth of God and know that no one who belongs to God would ever hold the lives of others hostage in that manner. undecided

3. But Jesus Christ instead said that only those who live their lives in continuous submission and obedience of the teachings and commandments of Jesus Christ, the Truth of God, will come to Know the Truth(Jesus Christ) and be set free from slavery to sin by the Truth(Jesus Christ), transformed into holy/perfect vessels worthy of God's very own Holy Spirit aka Sons of God - John 8 vs 31 - 36 & John 14 vs 15 - 20. undecided

So if you claim that by listening to this Selman's teachings instead made you a child of God, are you saying Jesus Christ prevaricated over 2000 years ago? undecided

4. I don't listen to men since my one and only Master is Jesus Christ. He alone is my Teacher, Shepherd Head, Leader, Helper, etc. Just as He decreed it will be the case for all those who belong to Him. undecided
Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by Lifted07: 8:28pm On Oct 22, 2022
Kobojunkie:
1. The doctrines and traditions preached by these men is the reason why 10s of thousands who listen to them never see that promised by God in their lives. undecided

2. My anger has instead to do with the fact that these men teach lies using God's name, and so make prisons of the lives of those who submit to their lies. I personally know the Truth of God and know that no one who belongs to God would ever hold the lives of others hostage in that manner. undecided

3. But Jesus Christ instead said that only those who live their lives in continuous submission and obedience of the teachings and commandments of Jesus Christ, the Truth of God, will come to Know the Truth(Jesus Christ) and be set free from slavery to sin by the Truth(Jesus Christ), transformed into holy/perfect vessels worthy of God's very own Holy Spirit aka Sons of God - John 8 vs 31 - 36 & John 14 vs 15 - 20. undecided

So if you claim that by listening to this Selman's teachings instead made you a child of God, are you saying Jesus Christ prevaricated over 2000 years ago? undecided

4. I don't listen to men since my one and only Master is Jesus Christ. He alone is my Teacher, Shepherd Head, Leader, Helper, etc. Just as He decreed it will be the case for all those who belong to Him. undecided

Where in my reply did I say listening to him made me a child of God? Excuse me!

Well, I am not an ardent follower of any man of God, but one of the ministers I've ever had condemn the kind of 'imprisonment' of believers you referred to is Joshua Selman. That is a man who doesn't really care if God asks him to stop the ministry tomorrow. He focuses on building leaders who can stand on their own, not those who must build his ministry with him like many founders are, and not followers who will idolize a man of God.
Just try and listen to him. I'm not saying he is perfect, though.
Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by Kobojunkie: 8:48pm On Oct 22, 2022
Lifted07:
1. Where in my reply did I say listening to him made me a child of God? Excuse me!

2. Well, I am not an ardent follower of any man of God, but one of the ministers I've ever had condemn the kind of 'imprisonment' of believers you referred to is Joshua Selman. That is a man who doesn't really care if God asks him to stop the ministry tomorrow. He focuses on building leaders who can stand on their own, not those who must build his ministry with him like many founders are, and not followers who will idolize a man of God.

3. Just try and listen to him. I'm not saying he is perfect, though.
1. There's another problem with this you are insinuating here... that you can store up lies inside of your heart and somehow churn out only that which is of God's Truth and Holy - Jesus Christ stated that it is impossible to do that, as all the bad things you come from that which is stored up in your heart. So there is no way you can store up lies of men such as this one here and produce good fruit - Matthew 15 vs 10 - 20 & Mark 7 vs 13 - 23. undecided

2. Well, condemning them yet engaging in the very same, what does that make this man you claim to believe in? undecided

By the way, Jesus Christ never sent anyone out to build leaders and the lot as your man claims to build. So, who exactly is he supposedly building all these supposed leaders for? undecided

3. I rather listen only to the perfect one, Jesus Christ, as He instructs that all those who belong to Him listen only to Him - Matthew 23 vs 8 - 10. No need to waste my time listening to the very lies Jesus Christ warned me not to pay heed to. undecided
Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by Coinwarrior: 9:12pm On Oct 22, 2022
Starz825:
Anyway..your urge is normal....
there are abnormal urges actually...like the frequent urge for porn and masturbation I wrote about.

Yours is normal...

However, it's so wrong for partners to part way for long ..it's not healthy at all....it leaves both partners vulnerable...even your husband is feeling it hard where he is rn

I tell people..... financial frustration is a bit bearable than sexual frustration...(sincerely both experience ain't cool)

if you are frustrated financially...you can find a way through it... get a loan, meet friends and family, you know what I mean, you could rally round for funds....you sure gonna get some help somehow ...

But, you see
When you are sexually frustrated (esp. in a marriage setting) ...you won't able to think straight or do anything else for long...you will just be nagging for no reason..

To cap it : nobody will be able to help you in this mess; not your family, not your homies...
it will be so tiring and since you are married, this will further leave you vulnerable (one of the reasons why people cheat on their spouse)

Infact it's a crazy experience for women even a crazier one for men....

Ok now my advice:

*you will have to talk to your hubby about it ...tell him how you feel...ask about how he feels (he should be feeling hot too)...share your sexual hassle together (Do this regularly)....it makes you feel strong and that you are not alone.

*If your husband is at a location where you can reach him (if you don't mind the distance and the expenses) , try as much as possible to visit him...

*If you are a Christian, you can pray and fast... listen to gospel music regularly...

* Try as much as possible to stay away from any sex videos...it will only add to your already brimmed urge..and that could knock you off..

* Pls don't cheat.... keep holding up...

Good luck and God help you

ok what about me that I and my wife are living together yet she won’t give me sex and I would be sex starved.I always resort to masturbating
Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by Starz825(m): 9:24pm On Oct 22, 2022
Coinwarrior:
ok what about me that I and my wife are living together yet she won’t give me sex and I would be sex starved.I always resort to masturbating
That's very very bad on her part....but i understand

Let me hint you....

Buy her a gift...make her kind of happy...even though to her she feels like you aren't doing enough maybe financially or sexually..so she is not happy with you...
So just try to make her happy in a language she will understand....
We are all human beings..try to know why she's acting that way...and try to adjust...
Make her happy
Sorry for your present situation...
It can be very very frustrating..I understand..just do as I said
Thanks
Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by Coinwarrior: 11:59pm On Oct 22, 2022
Starz825:

That's very very bad on her part....but i understand

Let me hint you....

Buy her a gift...make her kind of happy...even though to her she feels like you aren't doing enough maybe financially or sexually..so she is not happy with you...
So just try to make her happy in a language she will understand....
We are all human beings..try to know why she's acting that way...and try to adjust...
Make her happy
Sorry for your present situation...
It can be very very frustrating..I understand..just do as I said
Thanks
There is nothing I have not done for this my wife i opened two shops for her .I funded two trainings for her to become a registered nurse and patent medicine administrator.I have bought a piece of land for her .I bought everything she can ever dream to have yet she always deny me sex .she would say she is not always wet.I am always frustrated
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Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by Coinwarrior: 5:13pm On Oct 23, 2022
Verovert:
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thanks sir
Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by Lifted07: 6:51am On Oct 25, 2022
Kobojunkie:
1. There's another problem with this you are insinuating here... that you can store up lies inside of your heart and somehow churn out only that which is of God's Truth and Holy - Jesus Christ stated that it is impossible to do that, as all the bad things you come from that which is stored up in your heart. So there is no way you can store up lies of men such as this one here and produce good fruit - Matthew 15 vs 10 - 20 & Mark 7 vs 13 - 23. undecided

2. Well, condemning them yet engaging in the very same, what does that make this man you claim to believe in? undecided

By the way, Jesus Christ never sent anyone out to build leaders and the lot as your man claims to build. So, who exactly is he supposedly building all these supposed leaders for? undecided

3. I rather listen only to the perfect one, Jesus Christ, as He instructs that all those who belong to Him listen only to Him - Matthew 23 vs 8 - 10. No need to waste my time listening to the very lies Jesus Christ warned me not to pay heed to. undecided

Reading through your replies so far, do you know what is obvious? A thread that runs right through your replies and reveals your heart:
Self-righteousness containing pride, arrogance, a limited mindset, calling God's vessels liars because you don't believe or understand what they do, condemnation of others who you don't believe in their approach. Above all, I see an embittered and unhappy soul.

If you are true follower of our Lord Jesus as you claim, your effort to correct ills in the body of Christ would have been out of love, genuine love for the things of God, and it would have reflected in any of your lines. But what do we have here? Self-justifications, Self-righteousness! Unchrist-like attitude to fellow believers in Christ.
Repent, sir!
Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by Kobojunkie: 7:04am On Oct 25, 2022
Lifted07:
1. Reading through your replies so far, do you know what is obvious? A thread that runs right through your replies and reveals your heart: Self-righteousness containing pride, arrogance, a limited mindset, calling God's vessels liars because you don't believe or understand what they do, condemnation of others who you don't believe in their approach. Above all, I see an embittered and unhappy soul.

2. If you are true follower of our Lord Jesus as you claim, your effort to correct ills in the body of Christ would have been out of love, genuine love for the things of God, and it would have reflected in any of your lines. But what do we have here? Self-[b]justifications, Self-righteousness! Unchrist-like attitude to fellow believers in Christ. [/b]
Repent, sir!
1. I am afraid you are the one here missing the point. I properly understand what your "god-vessels" teach, enough to know they are nothing but the very lies that God Himself warned us against. And what is more interesting is that God is the one who called them liars. I am simply repeating that which God said of them. So, if it is your perception that God is self-righteous, so be it. undecided

2. I guess to you then Jesus Christ was wrong for publically scolding the Pharisees, Sadducees, and Teachers of the law of His time for teaching lies, and stealing from the people who they were instead meant to teach God's Law to? By calling them out as false teachers and false prophets, going as far as to warn even His followers to beware of their kind among them, Jesus Christ was not full of this genuine love for things of God you speak of. Seems even Jesus Christ didn't get the memo as far as your idea of what it means to be righteous, justified, and christ-like. undecided

Since Jesus Christ said the goal for His followers is to do as He did and more, it seems I am well on the right track, don't you think? Don't worry, my goal has always been to become like my Master, Jesus Christ, any day anytime. grin
Re: How Do You Handle Frequent Sexual Urge by FelaSkye: 7:42pm On Jan 03, 2023
engray:
If it's so serious as described and distance is really a barrier between you and your hubby, have a Romantic video call with your hubby. The depth of it depends on you both.
This might tentatively help.

I saw you tried to message me, I don’t use that mail anymore

Go through felaskye@gmail.com

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