deavicky:
this is bad nah!!! How can she not have a boyfriend here? Remember OPs just met her about 2 months ago u want her to just abandon her boyfriend just like that because of person who might also be playing her.
If the the abroad guy is serious he should do the needful overtaking is allow.

You read the guy tory at all? She get boyfriend naim she go visit the guy mama. Na wa for una oo

deavicky:
just keep growing up will ans those questions urself with time.

Lol...
.na everybody una old pass for cyberspace...
...ancient of days..pele

imadiyi:

You read the guy tory at all? She get boyfriend naim she go visit the guy mama. Na wa for una oo

Leave am...na advice wey dem no fit take dem sabi give...

advanceDNA:


Leave am...na advice wey dem no fit take dem sabi give...

I jus tire for sumpesin, honestly!

U dey reason

falcon01:
As a Man, you are always gonna be used.
That been said, test her that your stay in UK is abruptly coming to an end tell her some of your things are gone you are broke and only have things for minimal sustainance tell her you are coming back to Nigeria and you don't think you are going back to UK but back in Nigeria you can have a house, marry and sustain yourself. And notice if her attitudes towards you changes, watch how she comforts and consoles you, notice if she's genuinely concerned about your situation, go like 5 days without calling her and see if she's calling e.t.c Note tell her all those things on different occasions, gradually gradually and see if she draws back.

God will help you.

There are many responsible girls the only thing you need to do is for your family go do more findings about her and her family. If your satisfied with your findings then good � for both of you, good luck!

Prank her.. [b][/b]

humility101:
I met this lovely lady (30 yo) online 2 months ago. She is in Nigeria and I’m in the Uk. We have been actively chatting, phoning and having lots of facetime. She’s got all they qualities I need in a wife. She has also gone to see my peeps once and they said nice things about her.

I’m planning on wedding her this Christmas and she can join me immediately (UK can be very lonely without a partner) on a dependent visa.

But sometimes I pause and ask myself, I hope I’m not rushing this whole thing? I hope she is not pretending to be nice? I hope she truly loves me? I hope she is not seeing me as a means to japa? A lot of questions going through my mind. This is marriage and I don’t wanna make mistakes.

Advice me please.

Sample thing to do . Just give one of your cousins her contact then that cousin should try his way on her . If she cheap food then spill her out

Boss Please I don't want you to hurry things!! The same issue happens to my brother. Let her take an oath with you that she'll not misbehave once she's in the UK. Make sure you get a lawyer once she's in the UK and agrees with her that she'll not misbehave. Please I don't want you to be homeless.

humility101:
I met this lovely lady (30 yo) online 2 months ago. She is in Nigeria and I’m in the Uk. We have been actively chatting, phoning and having lots of facetime. She’s got all they qualities I need in a wife. She has also gone to see my peeps once and they said nice things about her.

I’m planning on wedding her this Christmas and she can join me immediately (UK can be very lonely without a partner) on a dependent visa.

But sometimes I pause and ask myself, I hope I’m not rushing this whole thing? I hope she is not pretending to be nice? I hope she truly loves me? I hope she is not seeing me as a means to japa? A lot of questions going through my mind. This is marriage and I don’t wanna make mistakes.

Advice me please.

It's so nice to hear this mu brother. I pray she wins the luck and the gooddies you have for her IJN and she ends up giving you joy and loving kids.

If I say bad about her or her life to you or if I blackmail Nigerian girls before you, it's not good enough.

Am a marriage counselor and I treats cases day in and out. What I can te you to do is and if you can allow me do that for you, if you won't mind. Prank her or find someone that will disguise for her and likea new boyfriend if she falls for the person, then she have bleeped up but if she passes, then you are good to go

You need to slow down, you are yet to meet this lady physically. Allow time to be the judge. Goodluck.

humility101:
I met this lovely lady (30 yo) online 2 months ago. She is in Nigeria and I’m in the Uk. We have been actively chatting, phoning and having lots of facetime. She’s got all they qualities I need in a wife. She has also gone to see my peeps once and they said nice things about her.

I’m planning on wedding her this Christmas and she can join me immediately (UK can be very lonely without a partner) on a dependent visa.

But sometimes I pause and ask myself, I hope I’m not rushing this whole thing? I hope she is not pretending to be nice? I hope she truly loves me? I hope she is not seeing me as a means to japa? A lot of questions going through my mind. This is marriage and I don’t wanna make mistakes.

Advice me please.

A rare picture of what Nigerian women will show you immediately you take them to UK


You better marry a Nigerian that is working and already in the UK

humility101:
I met this lovely lady (30 yo) online 2 months ago. She is in Nigeria and I’m in the Uk. We have been actively chatting, phoning and having lots of facetime. She’s got all they qualities I need in a wife. She has also gone to see my peeps once and they said nice things about her.

I’m planning on wedding her this Christmas and she can join me immediately (UK can be very lonely without a partner) on a dependent visa.

But sometimes I pause and ask myself, I hope I’m not rushing this whole thing? I hope she is not pretending to be nice? I hope she truly loves me? I hope she is not seeing me as a means to japa? A lot of questions going through my mind. This is marriage and I don’t wanna make mistakes.

Advice me please.

Create a new thread when she starts dealing with you in the UK.

You will shock like buhari when you marry chameleon

Pay these Facebook pranksters to test her loyalty. She's 30 and needs to get married or Japa. So there's HIGH possibility of not having anything genuine for you.

Bobs! For me 2 months is far too short foe you to take such life changing decision. Secondly, because u are based in d UK, guy most girls will do everything to japa from this country and since the opportunity has presented itself who would not take his or her time to impress his partner to be able to Japa. Thirdly, u barely know this person, why don't u make out tome to get to know her first before u can conclude. Even an olosho will package so that she can japa from this shithole of a country!

humility101:
I met this lovely lady (30 yo) online 2 months ago. She is in Nigeria and I’m in the Uk. We have been actively chatting, phoning and having lots of facetime. She’s got all they qualities I need in a wife. She has also gone to see my peeps once and they said nice things about her.

I’m planning on wedding her this Christmas and she can join me immediately (UK can be very lonely without a partner) on a dependent visa.

But sometimes I pause and ask myself, I hope I’m not rushing this whole thing? I hope she is not pretending to be nice? I hope she truly loves me? I hope she is not seeing me as a means to japa? A lot of questions going through my mind. This is marriage and I don’t wanna make mistakes.

Advice me please.

Don't rush it.

Think twice and even thrice.

Most people are not as they appear.

If you want to marry her and bring her over to the UK, it is your choice but make sure you protect yourself legally and emotionally because most of these Nigerian women become something else once they cross over to abroad.

Shut the Bleep up nigga.

Rainbow10:
A lot of simps, Definitely they gonna learn in a hard way.

imadiyi:

You read the guy tory at all? She get boyfriend naim she go visit the guy mama. Na wa for una oo

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You are delusional.

If she told the bf that she went to visit her parents/uncle/aunt in the village. Village can be any destination.

Abi hookup girls no get boyfriends yet they sneak out to do their things? Now imagine a fiancé that is thousands of miles away.

/

wow..bless u..

falcon01:
As a Man, you are always gonna be used.
That been said, test her that your stay in UK is abruptly coming to an end tell her some of your things are gone you are broke and only have things for minimal sustainance tell her you are coming back to Nigeria and you don't think you are going back to UK but back in Nigeria you can have a house, marry and sustain yourself. And notice if her attitudes towards you changes, watch how she comforts and consoles you, notice if she's genuinely concerned about your situation, go like 5 days without calling her and see if she's calling e.t.c Note tell her all those things on different occasions, gradually gradually and see if she draws back.

Nazgul:
The mistake you made was telling her that you're in the UK. If you had told her you're in northern Nigeria and she still showed seriousness, you could have concluded that she's into you. Cos no girl who you tell that you're in UK, US or Canada would turn you down. You're like an answered prayer to them.

LMAO!

Lol, OP if you like don't do what is best for you, keep seeking for advice from naysayers here.

BlackyOne:


A rare picture of what Nigerian women will show you immediately you take them to UK


You better marry a Nigerian that is working and already in the UK

LMAO!

Ndubuisipaul1:
Why do men think they are doing women favor in marriage. She is also taking risk in marring someone she has not met before.. How is sure you truly love her? Both of you are taking risk

That's because it's a man that marries a woman not a woman marrying a man. Think about it

YOU HAVE MENTIONED THE ANSWER TO YIUR QUESTIONS....WATCH WELL,Japa. Is the solution to every person then she go show you pepper.

humility101:
I met this lovely lady (30 yo) online 2 months ago. She is in Nigeria and I’m in the Uk. We have been actively chatting, phoning and having lots of facetime. She’s got all they qualities I need in a wife. She has also gone to see my peeps once and they said nice things about her.

I’m planning on wedding her this Christmas and she can join me immediately (UK can be very lonely without a partner) on a dependent visa.

But sometimes I pause and ask myself, I hope I’m not rushing this whole thing? I hope she is not pretending to be nice? I hope she truly loves me? I hope she is not seeing me as a means to japa? A lot of questions going through my mind. This is marriage and I don’t wanna make mistakes.

Advice me please.

Bro just marry am.

humility101:
I met this lovely lady (30 yo) online 2 months ago. She is in Nigeria and I’m in the Uk. We have been actively chatting, phoning and having lots of facetime. She’s got all they qualities I need in a wife. She has also gone to see my peeps once and they said nice things about her.

I’m planning on wedding her this Christmas and she can join me immediately (UK can be very lonely without a partner) on a dependent visa.

But sometimes I pause and ask myself, I hope I’m not rushing this whole thing? I hope she is not pretending to be nice? I hope she truly loves me? I hope she is not seeing me as a means to japa? A lot of questions going through my mind. This is marriage and I don’t wanna make mistakes.

Advice me please.

You won’t get the answer that you need here. Take your time to pray about your relationship with her. Let God direct you.

InvertedHammer:


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You are delusional.

If she told the bf that she went to visit her parents/uncle/aunt in the village. Village can be any destination.

Abi hookup girls no get boyfriends yet they sneak out to do their things? Now imagine a fiancé that is thousands of miles away.

/

You are contradicting yourself. Read what I mentioned on the post you wrote. And then get back to what you have just written, you will understand that you are a confused person.

humility101:
I met this lovely lady (30 yo) online 2 months ago. She is in Nigeria and I’m in the Uk. We have been actively chatting, phoning and having lots of facetime. She’s got all they qualities I need in a wife. She has also gone to see my peeps once and they said nice things about her.

I’m planning on wedding her this Christmas and she can join me immediately (UK can be very lonely without a partner) on a dependent visa.

But sometimes I pause and ask myself, I hope I’m not rushing this whole thing? I hope she is not pretending to be nice? I hope she truly loves me? I hope she is not seeing me as a means to japa? A lot of questions going through my mind. This is marriage and I don’t wanna make mistakes.

Advice me please.

Pls go ahead asap cos there are too many of them on ground here. Thank you in advance.

you barely know someone after only 2 months