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| Dedicated To Those With Failed Relationships by zexy2030(m): 10:56am On Nov 20, 2022 |
SinceI have wondered so many times why relationships don't last these days, I have written articles and posted so many topics here on nairaland, on how to secure a good partner but recently I found out a development in the world of dating and here is my brief about it below: In the world of movies there are a lot of behind the scenes. Love relationships involving distances or sometimes at close ranges , your partner only makes you see what you can see and hides the details behind the scenes till the knot is tied then you start witnessing the evil you can't condone. The early marriages survived tough times because there were mild men who investigates or collects a detailed data about the spouse to be to the family. Including health histories, wealth histories, hierarchy, and so many investigations to be sure that he is indeed a good man to be married. Even neighbors will gossip to the delegates if the spouse is a bad person. Though some people despite the information either good or bad will still forge ahead to marry who they admire but the end gets disappointed then the family comes in to remind him of the information they served him from the start. But today, most men become grieved after wooing a lady and she refuses, they feel entitled to her yes. And some ladies wants to pick their guys themselves because of selfish interest. Hmmm, trying to avoid a third party? No union between two people in this life without a third party, even in law court there must be a witness. Back to movies the acts are rehearsed over n over until the camera picks the most perfect of the sceneries for public viewing especially if you have a very detailed and a very hardworking director. Female corner: Most females before marriage are actresses subconsciously. It's Intel. Most of them have details you can't see. Male corner: Men too but not all except players. The best way to pick the best male or female actor, it's not from the movies but from behind the scenes. In a relationship, to know who are dating use their CV for verification, KYS(know your spouse) . It's that simple. If you can't verify them with their CVs, you will be played and that will be all. Get to know details that made him whatever makes him attractive to you. From primary school to tertiary, religion to school of thoughts, business to the experience of failed relationships and lots more. All these you can determine in just 178days. If he is not fit for your standard after reviewing his CV by behind the scene investigation, move on and close that phase, move to the next person on the queue(for ladies). Sex should be the last in your discussion and that's after 178days of background checks. (kys) Accept every request to be dated but watch out if he is the type that can't handle rejection after 178days.. Don't give a consent yet until u r done. After send a message, that u r in a serious relationship and wouldn't like to be distracted. If he insist to keep you as a friend. Tell him No and thank you. Because that's a player in the making. Otherwise you are just seeing an actor who has rehearsed a whole lot before meeting you. Best actors/esses are selected not during the movie show but during the making of the movie, qualities such as How did they handle the scripts? how creative were they? Experience? Talent, speech etc Before you accept that date. Be thorough with your background check. Good looks, good finance, good body physique, even good sex, good job, good family maynot guarantee a good partner. What guarantees a good partner is contentment with who he is after satisfactory investigations. The best of relationships has been relationships that started earlier while as teens or while growing up, they nearly last forever. Avoid people in relationship who chants "no make am see me finish" If you are afraid of him/her seeing you finish, you are acting. If there is love and honesty, see finish is nothing because with love you won't see the flaws called see finish. It means her or his see finish is what you can condone or bear or don't mind it.. That's true love. |
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