JeffreyJunior:
Married men especially the ones with kids should spend less time at the gym and help out more at home.

The man deserves to go hungry or better still upgrade his gym membership to cover his dinner since the gym is his first home.

There can't be two adults at home and only one will be sweating on home chores.

This is my two cents and anyone who doesn't feel alright about it should not attack me but please remain single.

Maynman:


I’ll need stats then.

zedegit:


Bleep your opinion. You can travel out where that nonsense happens.

Wake up one morning homeless because your wife called cops on your miserable self.

For me, it's the woman's duty to handle domestic chores because I am African!

Bluffly:

Is the Kitchen the only chore at home? You must be washing the cars, fixing things around the house, changing bulb as well, a lot of things to regularly fix at home as well. Will you be doing all these for him as well. Una too dey complain. Family money is not just about the man, every party is a provider in any capacity. Can you be an help mate without been resourceful, if you think Kitchen is what defines you as an helpmate then you are done for

JeffreyJunior:
Married men especially the ones with kids should spend less time at the gym and help out more at home.

The man deserves to go hungry or better still upgrade his gym membership to cover his dinner since the gym is his first home.

There can't be two adults at home and only one will be sweating on home chores.

This is my two cents and anyone who doesn't feel alright about it should not attack me but please remain single.

1Sharon:


https://www.macrotrends.net/countries/NGA/nigeria/poverty-rate

1Sharon:


I'll pick being in charge of domestic chores.

But realistically I know I'll be in charge of a bit of both.


As I said before if a woman's husband isn't middle class or rich. She ends up running the house and providing aswell.

So pls answer me, who is doing more work?

sadiyamuhammad:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X4zJAJY7oAU

A hilarious video has shown the moment a Nigerian woman served her husband an empty plate for refusing to help her in the kitchen.

Before carrying out her action, the woman gave a background explanation that informed what she was going to do.

In a TikTok video, she said that she wanted him to help her with the food but he replied that he was tired as a result of working out at the gym and also had a football match to see.

The woman who wasn't having his excuses revealed that she had gone to the market to buy the ingredients, did the laundry and took care of the house.

She said he was only to assist her in cooking and yet he was giving excuses.

https://www.legit.ng/people/family-relationship/1511322-marry-friend-wife-serves-hubby-empty-plate-funny-video-refused-kitchen/

1Sharon:


And it's a man duty to handle the finances solely.

I'm an african woman!

jaxxy:




Women should learn not to disrespect the husbands for any reason.

U can disrespect men if u like bt not ur husband or else I think its better to reman single. respectfully.

doggedfighter:



I hope you know you deserve a hug. A big hug.


You are a good person.

May good things happen to you and for you !

Silentgroper:
if a man works multiple jobs and still helps d woman in whatever domestic activities. Tell me, who is doing more?

Richy4:
No be say I wan praise all womenOoo ... Honestly some of them dey try...

Imagine returning from a function with the whole family like Church or any outing for that matter, Some of us usually get tired and exhausted...

But Na she go still enter kitchen go fix some thing wey the family go eat... No question asked about it... Where she got those little extra energy to go inside the kitchen and cook since we attended the same function , I can't tell... Some times we men takes some of those little things for granted...

Anyways, I will use this golden opportunity that festive period has offered to salute the women in the house who are doing all things possible to keep their homes... Well-done..

ibkayee:

Or what will happen? He'll come and report her on Nairaland? Lol

1Sharon:


A Nigerian husband is God you know?

He can smite you for disrespectful him. Don't even look at him when he's talking to you, you look down.

1Sharon:


A Nigerian husband is God you know?

He can smite you for disrespectful him. Don't even look at him when he's talking to you, you look down.

ibkayee:

Or what will happen? He'll come and report her on Nairaland? Lol

Bahamas95:
Helping your wife with house chores won't cut off your pen!s, some men are just so annoying. These women are really trying, it's not easy.

jaxxy:


I just think It doesn't make sense to get married just to start disrespecting urselves and getting on each others nerves. It doesn't make sense to me. Why not just remain single so u can live by ur rules or do what u like?

I would rather be single than in a problematic relationship or marriage. I mean peace of mind is important in good or rough times.

She should save the drama for her mama. abeg.

Silentgroper:
if a man works multiple jobs and still helps d woman in whatever domestic activities. Tell me, who is doing more?

1Sharon:


Where is your stats from?

And yes, they earn a wage but is it enough to support a family and children?

How many of them are breadwinners in reality?