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Re: Nigerian Lady Serves Husband An Empty Plate For Refusing To Help In The Kitchen by socialmediaman: 11:46pm On Dec 27, 2022 |
cococandy: I don't remember using the bolded word. I have some friends who do exactly what I described in my original post, and they're housewives by choice, some with advanced degrees. One (a caucasian) cooked a full Nigerian meal with recipe she learned on YouTube when I visited her family for thanksgiving. A man doesn't even need a woman's help to cook and take care of himself, and vice versa. If he gets married and delegates that job to her, she should be able to handle it. This is tradition and not some big deal abeg. It's just petty to be complaining about duties as simple as cooking and cleaning. |
Re: Nigerian Lady Serves Husband An Empty Plate For Refusing To Help In The Kitchen by Kokodeni(m): 11:53pm On Dec 27, 2022 |
sadiyamuhammad: Straight to her father's house for at least one year... I will cook for myself and improvise what ever happens after then it is what it is. If everyone comes to beg for her then I will leave for one year |
Re: Nigerian Lady Serves Husband An Empty Plate For Refusing To Help In The Kitchen by Thermodynamics(m): 12:45am On Dec 28, 2022 |
ibkayee: They are not throwing their money into the ocean but they do not spend it on their matrimonial home either, they spend it on the brothers, sisters, father and mother. They'll never use that money to help their husband. They don't even spend their money on themselves, the rather ask their husband for money for hair and makeup and other personal needs. Liability gender |
Re: Nigerian Lady Serves Husband An Empty Plate For Refusing To Help In The Kitchen by Thermodynamics(m): 12:52am On Dec 28, 2022 |
JeffreyJunior:The man can help her out only if the financial burden is splited equally, you don't expect a man to do a woman's job while the woman isn't helping the man with his own job. Nor be only man de show care by supporting the woman with house chores, the woman should also show care by supporting the man financially. If my wife supports me financially, I'll follow her to cook and clean, but if she is one of those stingy wife who doesn't spend a dime on her matrimonial home, she go do all the house chores herself , rubbish. |
Re: Nigerian Lady Serves Husband An Empty Plate For Refusing To Help In The Kitchen by Thermodynamics(m): 12:53am On Dec 28, 2022 |
Richy4: The man can help her out only if the financial burden is splited equally, you don't expect a man to do a woman's job while the woman isn't helping the man with his own job. Nor be only man de show care by supporting the woman with house chores, the woman should also show care by supporting the man financially. If my wife supports me financially, I'll follow her to cook and clean, but if she is one of those stingy wife who doesn't spend a dime on her matrimonial home, she go do all the house chores herself , rubbish. |
Re: Nigerian Lady Serves Husband An Empty Plate For Refusing To Help In The Kitchen by Thermodynamics(m): 12:53am On Dec 28, 2022 |
Houseofglam7: The man can help her out only if the financial burden is splited equally, you don't expect a man to do a woman's job while the woman isn't helping the man with his own job. Nor be only man de show care by supporting the woman with house chores, the woman should also show care by supporting the man financially. If my wife supports me financially, I'll follow her to cook and clean, but if she is one of those stingy wife who doesn't spend a dime on her matrimonial home, she go do all the house chores herself , rubbish. |
Re: Nigerian Lady Serves Husband An Empty Plate For Refusing To Help In The Kitchen by tunjijones(m): 12:56am On Dec 28, 2022 |
Richy4: Women dey try ooo. Especially my wife. I know I don't tell her as much as she wants me to te her that she is trying. Wifey... Make I talk true and forget all this alpha male shit... You are really trying. Am so surprised how you changed from the hangout and shawarma chic immediately we got married to a mother and a helper. You are the best dear... I see a you do. And I appreciate. I wld try to appreciate you more. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Lady Serves Husband An Empty Plate For Refusing To Help In The Kitchen by Cutehector(m): 1:20am On Dec 28, 2022 |
A woman pulls down her home with her own hands. |
Re: Nigerian Lady Serves Husband An Empty Plate For Refusing To Help In The Kitchen by Richy4(m): 1:42am On Dec 28, 2022 |
tunjijones:The opportunity will present itself on 1st January after breakfast or Lunch... Just tell her how u appreciate her and leave her blushing |
Re: Nigerian Lady Serves Husband An Empty Plate For Refusing To Help In The Kitchen by cococandy(f): 1:53am On Dec 28, 2022 |
If it were that simple, he would do it himself. Meal planning for a whole family 3x a day is not a joke. Stop the malicious downplaying of traditional female roles. We know that if traditionally it were a man’s job, y’all would find a way to rank it above everything else. Someone else being responsible for your daily sustenance is not “SIMPLE” socialmediaman: 3 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Lady Serves Husband An Empty Plate For Refusing To Help In The Kitchen by Richy4(m): 2:13am On Dec 28, 2022 |
NoToPile: Have you heard something like this.. Honey can we go and eat out? I am tired..The last thing on my mind is to enter that kitchen and cook besides, we just came back together... Just go and fix something for yourself.. Those type were not on my felicitation group..I always think ahead before I type.. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Lady Serves Husband An Empty Plate For Refusing To Help In The Kitchen by FBS: 3:50am On Dec 28, 2022 |
CEOKmotors:That your gif/mem/pic or whatever it was got me ROFL! So so true! |
Re: Nigerian Lady Serves Husband An Empty Plate For Refusing To Help In The Kitchen by NoToPile: 4:59am On Dec 28, 2022 |
Richy4: Yimu so there are women that say the bolded every blessed day? Like everytime? Really? ( Though most women feel that way after a very stressful day-which is practically everyday) Say the truth and let the devil be ashamed Brother Richy. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Lady Serves Husband An Empty Plate For Refusing To Help In The Kitchen by NoToPile: 5:05am On Dec 28, 2022 |
tunjijones: Oya tell her in these exact words |
Re: Nigerian Lady Serves Husband An Empty Plate For Refusing To Help In The Kitchen by UnimkeAk(m): 5:31am On Dec 28, 2022 |
ibkayee: Lol, I'm richer than your whole family !! You can't insult hard working men and you think I'll clap for you guys, what do u guys have to offer except your bacteria infested vaginaaass. After all men have done for you guys in terms of financial aid.. Get the Bleep out of here. |
Re: Nigerian Lady Serves Husband An Empty Plate For Refusing To Help In The Kitchen by Tzar(m): 6:10am On Dec 28, 2022 |
Excellent! This is the best way to treat SIMPS who are not in control of their homes. I will just ask my side chic (who doesn’t need me to cook for/with her) to come deliver my food in my matrimonial home. If I won’t allow her change her flat tire or wash her car, why will any foolish woman do this to her hubby? No single respect from his wife should be expected. Nigeria is raising all shades of weak men. God forbid the day a woman I married will treat me with this kind of disrespect. I will send her back to her father’s house to learn the basics of how a wife MUST treat her husband to remain married! |
Re: Nigerian Lady Serves Husband An Empty Plate For Refusing To Help In The Kitchen by labelle123(f): 6:23am On Dec 28, 2022 |
Richy4:. Thanking you 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Lady Serves Husband An Empty Plate For Refusing To Help In The Kitchen by Ouchbabe(f): 6:50am On Dec 28, 2022 |
Richy4:God bless you for this sincere post. You just described me in your post. I never get tired and I don't know where the energy is coming from. Have a prosperous new year 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Lady Serves Husband An Empty Plate For Refusing To Help In The Kitchen by IamMobisola(f): 7:11am On Dec 28, 2022 |
socialmediaman:Liar!!! Her mates abroad don’t do all of that by themselves, rather their husbands help them too. Intact it’s abroad you will see fathers bathing and feeding their kids, putting them to bed and helping with house chores. Marriage is always always 50:50 over there 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Lady Serves Husband An Empty Plate For Refusing To Help In The Kitchen by zedman1(m): 7:42am On Dec 28, 2022 |
Richy4:Omoh, I don think that thing many times. I can't do half the things my wife does on a daily. Some women strong in a way pass us walahi. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Lady Serves Husband An Empty Plate For Refusing To Help In The Kitchen by Nobody: 7:46am On Dec 28, 2022 |
Time to call in the side chick, that hag needs to be put in her proper place. |
Re: Nigerian Lady Serves Husband An Empty Plate For Refusing To Help In The Kitchen by noCAP(m): 7:46am On Dec 28, 2022 |
simplepee:my type of woman |
Re: Nigerian Lady Serves Husband An Empty Plate For Refusing To Help In The Kitchen by Houseofglam7(f): 8:06am On Dec 28, 2022 |
Thermodynamics: You’re not the poster above me…..so keep it moving |
Re: Nigerian Lady Serves Husband An Empty Plate For Refusing To Help In The Kitchen by Segun2222: 9:10am On Dec 28, 2022 |
JeffreyJunior:the woman should also start helping the man provide for the family, she start doing the heavy liftings, car repairs and services and any other thing men do at home... there are roles in a family if i have to help you in your role you just help me in my role |
Re: Nigerian Lady Serves Husband An Empty Plate For Refusing To Help In The Kitchen by Thermodynamics(m): 9:35am On Dec 28, 2022 |
Houseofglam7:You don't have any right to tell me what to do, I reply who I want to reply, it's a free world. |
Re: Nigerian Lady Serves Husband An Empty Plate For Refusing To Help In The Kitchen by ibkayee(f): 9:42am On Dec 28, 2022 |
UnimkeAk:Yes yes every street rat posting from a hole somewhere is richer than everyone's whole family 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Lady Serves Husband An Empty Plate For Refusing To Help In The Kitchen by Nobody: 11:00am On Dec 28, 2022 |
sharone21: the difference is that the man is putting down his money to take care of the family while she pockets hers |
Re: Nigerian Lady Serves Husband An Empty Plate For Refusing To Help In The Kitchen by socialmediaman: 3:48pm On Dec 28, 2022 |
cococandy: I'm not intending to downplay a traditional female role, but what she did was very wrong, and you're making excuses for her. Women are better than that abeg. Have you even imagined a man giving his wife an empty wallet to take care of herself and the family because she didn't join him at his workplace to earn the money? I'll call that man out as well. So please focus on the issue and stop trying to lump me into some "y'all" category because I assume you've seen me call men out as well over irresponsible behavior. |
Re: Nigerian Lady Serves Husband An Empty Plate For Refusing To Help In The Kitchen by fohlarp: 3:50pm On Dec 28, 2022 |
Sorry woman,u supose split d wrk to dfrnt days,so u dnt get fagd out could be tiring |
Re: Nigerian Lady Serves Husband An Empty Plate For Refusing To Help In The Kitchen by Collins87: 6:34pm On Dec 28, 2022 |
Women and their attitude! All of them are like that.God forbid those ones. Amen |
Re: Nigerian Lady Serves Husband An Empty Plate For Refusing To Help In The Kitchen by 1Sharon(f): 10:20pm On Dec 28, 2022 |
Okonandmary: Is it not Nigerian men in America that have been killing their nurse-wives because she refused to give them her salary?? How breadwinner go dey eye woman salary? Pls stop the cap. The Nigerian women that are hawking pepper, frying Akara with their young children, do they look like they're being provided for by their husbands ? If the men could afford it they wouldn't have their wives and kids in vulnerable situations. |
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