Goodmarlian:
When your rich uncle or friend refuse to give you that money you are asking for, don't blame them. Sometimes it is not their fault.

You see this Nigeria, once people notice you have little change they will never let you rest everybody will be asking you for favour both boys and girls. The more people you help the more others get the information and still come to you for financial assistance.

Take me for example, I am not rich I am just hustling inside campus. I run a POS business, a business I started with just 30k.

Because people see that I deal with cash, they believe I have a lot of money. There is no day someone doesn't ask me for one favour or the other. If it is not buy me food, it is I need tfare, can I get 5k ,10k ,15k. Ladies try so hard to manipulate me into doing their bidding. If I don't oblige, they call me stingy, akagum etc,it is just so annoying.

This 2023 I want to have very little but reasonable friends. In fact i don't even want to have a girlfriend so I can grow my business to the next level.

People will nearly beg you back into poverty, be wise, hide yourself.

very well noted

Jennyclay:
You're indeed a stingy man... so you don't want a girlfriend because you don't want to spend on her .


Incase you don't know, no lady would want to stay with a stingy man.... so if you are avoiding ladies because of common billing, you will still spend when you eventually want a girlfriend. You can't escape it. Keep running!

Biko, this is a new year, you men should learn to spend on your girlfriend/wife. Don't tight your hands.

Akagum!

Have you now seen why we date whites?

moneyissweet:
One of the ungrateful beggars spotted.

If I can give 20k to a tout that is not related to me that will tell you that I am Richer than your entire generation

You are such an asshole.

Fck off

With your mouth you tell the world the kind of person you are. I agree you are richer than my generation but if you are not You done take mouth but market for your life. My own matter no dey long at all

Jennyclay:
You're indeed a stingy man... so you don't want a girlfriend because you don't want to spend on her .


Incase you don't know, no lady would want to stay with a stingy man.... so if you are avoiding ladies because of common billing, you will still spend when you eventually want a girlfriend. You can't escape it. Keep running!

Biko, this is a new year, you men should learn to spend on your girlfriend/wife. Don't tight your hands.

Akagum!

Ashawo spotted.

[quote author=Jennyclay post=119658826]You're indeed a stingy man... so you don't want a girlfriend because you don't want to spend on her .


Incase you don't know, no lady would want to stay with a stingy man.... so if you are avoiding ladies because of common billing, you will still spend when you eventually want a girlfriend. You can't escape it. Keep running!

Biko, this is a new year, you men should learn to spend on your girlfriend/wife. Don't tight your hands.

Akagum! [/quotes

Men need partners not the kinda girlfriends/wives you are insinuating

Jennyclay:
You're indeed a stingy man... so you don't want a girlfriend because you don't want to spend on her .


Incase you don't know, no lady would want to stay with a stingy man.... so if you are avoiding ladies because of common billing, you will still spend when you eventually want a girlfriend. You can't escape it. Keep running!

Biko, this is a new year, you men should learn to spend on your girlfriend/wife. Don't tight your hands.

Akagum!

Hanty abegii geraout of this thread abegii

Capitalismisasc:
Hanty abegii geraout of this thread abegii

Come and carry me out of this thread na.

Jennyclay:
You're indeed a stingy man... so you don't want a girlfriend because you don't want to spend on her .


Incase you don't know, no lady would want to stay with a stingy man.... so if you are avoiding ladies because of common billing, you will still spend when you eventually want a girlfriend. You can't escape it. Keep running!

Biko, this is a new year, you men should learn to spend on your girlfriend/wife. Don't tight your hands.

Akagum!

A lady has spoken as a lady. Must you Bill your man? Can't you spend on your man too?

Jennyclay:
Come and carry out of this thread na.

BE LIKE SAY E DEY PAIN YOU SORRY OOO #RETIREDHOOKUPGIRL

Jennyclay:
You're indeed a stingy man... so you don't want a girlfriend because you don't want to spend on her .


Incase you don't know, no lady would want to stay with a stingy man.... so if you are avoiding ladies because of common billing, you will still spend when you eventually want a girlfriend. You can't escape it. Keep running!

Biko, this is a new year, you men should learn to spend on your girlfriend/wife. Don't tight your hands.

Akagum!

Yes, he would do more spending on his girlfriend at the right time of his life. When he has grown his business/earnings to a higher level.

And when he decides to have a gf or spend more, be would do it with sense. Not on random girls that have ENTITLEMENT MENTALITY.

Most Nigerians are lazy and shameless beggars.
You will become poor if you keep giving to everyone.
Only way to riches is to save and invest your money.
You are not responsible for their problems and you definitely can never solve their problems.

Jennyclay:
You're indeed a stingy man... so you don't want a girlfriend because you don't want to spend on her .


Incase you don't know, no lady would want to stay with a stingy man.... so if you are avoiding ladies because of common billing, you will still spend when you eventually want a girlfriend. You can't escape it. Keep running!

Biko, this is a new year, you men should learn to spend on your girlfriend/wife. Don't tight your hands.

Akagum!

You are simply stupid. Why should you expect a guy to pay any of your bills. If your parents did not have enough to take care of you, why did they give birth to you?

.

Goodmarlian:
When your rich uncle or friend refuse to give you that money you are asking for, don't blame them. Sometimes it is not their fault.

You see this Nigeria, once people notice you have little change they will never let you rest everybody will be asking you for favour both boys and girls. The more people you help the more others get the information and still come to you for financial assistance.

Take me for example, I am not rich I am just hustling inside campus. I run a POS business, a business I started with just 30k.

Because people see that I deal with cash, they believe I have a lot of money. There is no day someone doesn't ask me for one favour or the other. If it is not buy me food, it is I need tfare, can I get 5k ,10k ,15k. Ladies try so hard to manipulate me into doing their bidding. If I don't oblige, they call me stingy, akagum etc,it is just so annoying.

This 2023 I want to have very little but reasonable friends. In fact i don't even want to have a girlfriend so I can grow my business to the next level.

People will nearly beg you back into poverty, be wise, hide yourself.

Your title or subject did not correspond with your write up.

Try to edit it.

Who told you people or uncles don't help ?

People that are rich help alot and gives to the needy.

But people that are starting up like you won't give because you are just coming up building business.

onyeego:
Giving actually makes you to never lack.
The way the faces of people who are in need lights up with joy when you render help to them is always delightfully blissful.
I am not being religious but ever since I started giving many years ago I've only increased financially.
Just beware of those who will manipulate and turn you into their cash cow, there are those who will also think that you stupid.

Lastly, give only what you can afford to give without grudge.

there is no joy in giving some girls money. If you give a girl 5k, to you it might be huge but to her its nothing because someone will give her 50k tomorrow but she don't know maybe na 30k dey your hand and you comot 5k from it while 1m dey account for person wey give her 50k.

Jennyclay:
You're indeed a stingy man... so you don't want a girlfriend because you don't want to spend on her .


Incase you don't know, no lady would want to stay with a stingy man.... so if you are avoiding ladies because of common billing, you will still spend when you eventually want a girlfriend. You can't escape it. Keep running!

Biko, this is a new year, you men should learn to spend on your girlfriend/wife. Don't tight your hands.

Akagum!

who the girlfriend help Money wey I never spend on top of parents naim I go dey spend for one yeye kpeku God punish dah girlfriend for where in dey

Jennyclay:
You're indeed a stingy man... so you don't want a girlfriend because you don't want to spend on her .


Incase you don't know, no lady would want to stay with a stingy man.... so if you are avoiding ladies because of common billing, you will still spend when you eventually want a girlfriend. You can't escape it. Keep running!

Biko, this is a new year, you men should learn to spend on your girlfriend/wife. Don't tight your hands.

Akagum!

Why are you talking as if the only reason women goes into relationships is for their bills to be paid by the man? Relationship is not all about one person depending on the other for financial responsibilities, stop basing your relationship only for the financial gain rather than genuine love and affection. People like you are the reason Nairaland guys generalize insults on Nigerian ladies. Pls add more value to urself and the rest of other ladies out there.

pretydiva:

But na wa for you oo. Shey na him born the girl ni? Does she not have parents? Is she handicap? So what does the girl bring in return??

Useless To*o

prophetfire:
. Can't the girls spend on their boyfriends too? Is it a sin or a crime? Or are girls dead sea that only receive.

Lol. They are Bermuda triangle

There is a difference between sensible sensible giving and gullible giving;
When people try to use emotional manipulation on u....dats senseless...but If u see that this giving will not hurt ur budget,ur capital or the sustainability of your business....then do it .... This of course is different from the scriptural giving to God in Tithes and offering.
Your obligation to God comes 1st....then to your dependants....Those begging u,why dem no hustle get their own....abi dem get problem with their hands or legs.... A rich man in the midst of 6 poor people is a poor man ooo.

Where is Abiola's wealth today

Jennyclay:
You're indeed a stingy man... so you don't want a girlfriend because you don't want to spend on her .


Incase you don't know, no lady would want to stay with a stingy man.... so if you are avoiding ladies because of common billing, you will still spend when you eventually want a girlfriend. You can't escape it. Keep running!

Biko, this is a new year, you men should learn to spend on your girlfriend/wife. Don't tight your hands.

Akagum!

WILL YOU SHAARAAAAP YOU EXPIRED VILLAGE ASHY

Goodmarlian:
When your rich uncle or friend refuse to give you that money you are asking for, don't blame them. Sometimes it is not their fault.

You see this Nigeria, once people notice you have little change they will never let you rest everybody will be asking you for favour both boys and girls. The more people you help the more others get the information and still come to you for financial assistance.

Take me for example, I am not rich I am just hustling inside campus. I run a POS business, a business I started with just 30k.

Because people see that I deal with cash, they believe I have a lot of money. There is no day someone doesn't ask me for one favour or the other. If it is not buy me food, it is I need tfare, can I get 5k ,10k ,15k. Ladies try so hard to manipulate me into doing their bidding. If I don't oblige, they call me stingy, akagum etc,it is just so annoying.

This 2023 I want to have very little but reasonable friends. In fact i don't even want to have a girlfriend so I can grow my business to the next level.

People will nearly beg you back into poverty, be wise, hide yourself.

I can understand
Keep giving in your capacity, it opens more doors.
A giver is always on top

aktolly54:
there is no joy in giving some girls money. If you give a girl 5k, to you it might be huge but to her its nothing because someone will give her 50k tomorrow but she don't know maybe na 30k dey your hand and you comot 5k from it while 1m dey account for person wey give her 50k.

Whenever you give something to someone and expect something in return it's no longer Giving, it's now a transaction or an exchange.
As for girls, I give them not because I expect anything in return, that doesn't mean I won't accept if they offered but I know most of them genuinely need the help.

onyeego:

Whenever you give something to someone and expect something in return it's no longer Giving, it's now a transaction or an exchange.
As for girls, I give them not because I expect anything in return, that doesn't mean I won't accept if they offered but I know most of them genuinely need the help.

nobody expect anything in return but they don't have a good heart and quick to forget things. If you give your guy 5k and give a female friend 5k and compare how both go respond . you will know girls don't fancy things because someone somewhere will give her 10x of what you give her

Jennyclay:
You're indeed a stingy man... so you don't want a girlfriend because you don't want to spend on her .


Incase you don't know, no lady would want to stay with a stingy man.... so if you are avoiding ladies because of common billing, you will still spend when you eventually want a girlfriend. You can't escape it. Keep running!

Biko, this is a new year, you men should learn to spend on your girlfriend/wife. Don't tight your hands.

Akagum!

the man has to be giving everytime........ weyre just plenty amongst this girls......... money ritual people monitoring you...... contine

pretydiva:

But na wa for you oo. Shey na him born the girl ni? Does she not have parents? Is she handicap? So what does the girl bring in return??

What she brings in return is S°X.

That is y some men do not respect most ladies because they feel some of them do not have anything to offer apart from s°x

Women are the most precious thing God has given to men.
Some have turn themselves to a thing of mockery because materials things.

I know u are a matured lady with sense from ur response.

I love you dear

blaquebelle:
Stingy person don drop quote

What you don't realise is that the more you help people, the more doors will be open for you. Because an answer to your prayers is an answer to many people's prayers. It's good to cultivate the habit of giving, especially for people who really need it. You will reap the blessings, as long as your hustle is legit oo.
And never forget that even you would need help from someone else eventually.
Stay blessed.

The bold statement is false & bespeaks u are not a giver. If u have given people money consistently for 1 year, u will know giving can make u broke, I mean really broke if u don't apply wisdom!

youngmo001:
You don't need a girlfriend abi..

U will spend heavily on hookup girls.

Better look for one working class girl as ur girlfriend..if not...na hookup girls go chop ur money

He doesn't need girlfriend or hookups, Neat Ashewo of 800 Naira / 1k that would satisfy his Sexual urge for hotels dey
No need to pay for room, no buying of drinks, Pepper soup, Gifts, Birthdays, Brazilian hair, IPhone etc. Fuc.k Na fuc.k same under thing nothing special, some of the Ashewo self neat pass all the hookups.

He only need Girlfriend to Do courtship with and marry when only he is ready for marriage.. He is still hustling now.. Sex solution dey plenty

Jennyclay:
You're indeed a stingy man... so you don't want a girlfriend because you don't want to spend on her .


Incase you don't know, no lady would want to stay with a stingy man.... so if you are avoiding ladies because of common billing, you will still spend when you eventually want a girlfriend. You can't escape it. Keep running!

Biko, this is a new year, you men should learn to spend on your girlfriend/wife. Don't tight your hands.

Akagum!

See 1 of dem.. d guy said he needs to grow his business. He didn't say he can't spend of his girlfriend. There is time for everything. Seed time and time for harvest. He is in his seed time. He don't need distraction from girls like you. Because In. Nigeria wen u date a girl. She transfer all her problem and dat of her family to u. Wen u eat ur seed u will go hungry. I know this will not make sense to u. But read it like 7 times over and over again.you may understand.. happy new year to u.

Goodmarlian:
When your rich uncle or friend refuse to give you that money you are asking for, don't blame them. Sometimes it is not their fault.

You see this Nigeria, once people notice you have little change they will never let you rest everybody will be asking you for favour both boys and girls. The more people you help the more others get the information and still come to you for financial assistance.

Take me for example, I am not rich I am just hustling inside campus. I run a POS business, a business I started with just 30k.

Because people see that I deal with cash, they believe I have a lot of money. There is no day someone doesn't ask me for one favour or the other. If it is not buy me food, it is I need tfare, can I get 5k ,10k ,15k. Ladies try so hard to manipulate me into doing their bidding. If I don't oblige, they call me stingy, akagum etc,it is just so annoying.

This 2023 I want to have very little but reasonable friends. In fact i don't even want to have a girlfriend so I can grow my business to the next level.

People will nearly beg you back into poverty, be wise, hide yourself.

Not unique to Nigeria, which is why in the West lottery winners have the option of anonymity. In the West, if you're publicly wealthy, you'll be inundated for help and money not only by the type of suspects you identified but also by a myriad of charities.

Rubbiish:

The bold statement is false & bespeaks u are not a giver. If u have given people money consistently for 1 year, u will know giving can make u broke, I mean really broke if u don't apply wisdom!

Ofcourse in everything you do, if you don't apply wisdom, wisdom will apply you instead

As for your first statement, I will say I'm not yet at the level of giving that I would like to attain. But i have seen my mom do it all my life. I have learnt alot of things just from watching her. Firstly, people tend to take advantage of you. And if you don't watch yourself you can give to the detriment of your own needs. But guess what, the blessings are definitely still attached. Even when I complain to her that she's doing too much, she will tell me I don't understand yet. And the older I get, the more I understand her. I don't want to go into too much details but I can bet you with my whole life that if you give to people that are genuinely In need, you will constantly be surprised at the way your own needs are met even when you least expect it.