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Can Good Intimacy Actually Cures Marital Crises Between Couples? by nickxtra(m): 8:07pm On Jan 07, 2023
See aht this guy wrote on Twitters-
He said each time he gives good doses of intimacy to his wife, she becomes so gentle, calm and adores him and her usual aggressive disposition to him most times gives way to smiling nature in even the face of provocation.

Is intimacy a medicine to troubleshoot a nagging or trouble some woman?

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Re: Can Good Intimacy Actually Cures Marital Crises Between Couples? by Nobody: 8:11pm On Jan 07, 2023
No wife(woman) can be happy without good sex

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Re: Can Good Intimacy Actually Cures Marital Crises Between Couples? by habsydiamond(m): 8:15pm On Jan 07, 2023
Na so.. but some no dey satisfy no matter how hard, longer u try dem still no go belleful.

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Re: Can Good Intimacy Actually Cures Marital Crises Between Couples? by nickxtra(m): 8:23pm On Jan 07, 2023
peepydelano:
No wife(woman) can be happy without good sex
So, sex is a medicine that can tame a misbehaving woman?

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Re: Can Good Intimacy Actually Cures Marital Crises Between Couples? by nickxtra(m): 8:24pm On Jan 07, 2023
habsydiamond:
Na so.. but some no dey satisfy no matter how hard, longer u try dem still no go belleful.
Them wan die on top?

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Re: Can Good Intimacy Actually Cures Marital Crises Between Couples? by Nobody: 8:25pm On Jan 07, 2023
nickxtra:
So, sex is a medicine that can tame a misbehaving woman?
It does not apply in all cases. Some women are beyond redemption.

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Re: Can Good Intimacy Actually Cures Marital Crises Between Couples? by Nobody: 1:22pm On Jan 08, 2023
I m here to learn from married couples only.

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Re: Can Good Intimacy Actually Cures Marital Crises Between Couples? by HomeTutorsPro: 1:22pm On Jan 08, 2023
Yes.
Good lovemaking is like fuel to the love souls of a couple. Take it away and you have two people just cohabiting.
Please note that intimacy is much more than just having sex. It involves saying things, doing things.
Good sex can keep a couple together. But great intimacy will make the togetherness memorable such that each person will always look forward to coming back home to enjoy a moment with their partner.

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Re: Can Good Intimacy Actually Cures Marital Crises Between Couples? by Frosheer(m): 1:23pm On Jan 08, 2023
That's just the truth

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Re: Can Good Intimacy Actually Cures Marital Crises Between Couples? by fitinwell: 1:23pm On Jan 08, 2023
nickxtra:
See aht this guy wrote on Twitters-
He said each time he gives good doses of intimacy to his wife, she becomes so gentle, calm and adores him and her usual aggressive disposition to him most times gives way to smiling nature in even the face of provocation.

Is intimacy a medicine to troubleshoot a nagging or trouble some woman?


Nooo
Re: Can Good Intimacy Actually Cures Marital Crises Between Couples? by Cutezt(m): 1:23pm On Jan 08, 2023
You never jam original follow come werey woman o. grin grin

Go near am when she no happy make she wipe you small stout bottle for head.

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Re: Can Good Intimacy Actually Cures Marital Crises Between Couples? by CLRF: 1:23pm On Jan 08, 2023
Following
After following all I can say is the woman who is the mother of the man's children has never had multiple partners in her life hence her soul reconnect back to the love of her life after copulation.

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Re: Can Good Intimacy Actually Cures Marital Crises Between Couples? by thesicilian: 1:23pm On Jan 08, 2023
Intimacy can only solve problems created by intimacy.

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Re: Can Good Intimacy Actually Cures Marital Crises Between Couples? by SadiqBabaSani: 1:24pm On Jan 08, 2023
lemme hear from Righteousness

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Re: Can Good Intimacy Actually Cures Marital Crises Between Couples? by PandoraObi: 1:24pm On Jan 08, 2023
For "good people" that married without sex, they were virgins, sex might solve and cure some marital issue but for fornicators, it is what they can get anywhere, it as become a norm to them, it is no big deal to them, just the usual perverse life they have been living.

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Re: Can Good Intimacy Actually Cures Marital Crises Between Couples? by Undisputed13: 1:24pm On Jan 08, 2023
Intimacy isssue in marriage is bigger than money issues in marriage.


I will always say you must understand the power behind compatibility. This sex of a thing breaks home. It is something you can't complain to others outside, if the person you are with doesn't change the next option is to cheat.

A lady posted recently how they go back to their ex only when he has money and the dick is very sweet.
Men go outside to satisfy themselves because the wife doesn't understand that sex is no longer a child's play but a very serious issue. This are things that marriage counselor will not tell you. If you are not compatible with your partner sexually abadon that ship quick.

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Re: Can Good Intimacy Actually Cures Marital Crises Between Couples? by wunmi590(m): 1:24pm On Jan 08, 2023
Re: Can Good Intimacy Actually Cures Marital Crises Between Couples? by Cutehector(m): 1:24pm On Jan 08, 2023
So this is why many feminists are so bitter about men because they are sex starved.

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Re: Can Good Intimacy Actually Cures Marital Crises Between Couples? by Opportuneke(m): 1:24pm On Jan 08, 2023
It does but not in all cases because the compatibility of the couple is a factor. Understanding is very paramount. Marriage comes with a lot of pressure. Take for instance a relationship, I mean just dating a lady, you will definitely feel the burden of responsibility let alone marriage.

A man and a woman must have a very strong determination to walk the high way called marriage in the world of today even in this bastardised economy.

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Re: Can Good Intimacy Actually Cures Marital Crises Between Couples? by Snakedoctor1: 1:25pm On Jan 08, 2023
nickxtra:
See aht this guy wrote on Twitters-
He said each time he gives good doses of intimacy to his wife, she becomes so gentle, calm and adores him and her usual aggressive disposition to him most times gives way to smiling nature in even the face of provocation.

Is intimacy a medicine to troubleshoot a nagging or trouble some woman?

I remember a divorce case I handled some years ago.

The Respondent, the wife, blatantly refused to show up in court or engage a lawyer; and the judge wasn’t ready to proceed without her.

One day in court, the judge, again, refused to proceed with the matter without the woman. That we must meet with her and hold the statutory conference before she will hear the matter. I told the judge we have served her the petition and the hearing notice for today’s sitting and clearly she is not interested in defending the petition, so, we should proceed in the interest of justice.

The judge come vex for me o. That I should do more than that. I should get her number, call her and try to see her and hold a meeting with both of them and try to settle them. E come be like say na me wan scatter their marriage.

The judge asked the petitioner, my client, if he doesn’t want settlement, he said no. He was visibly angry, talking about how he just wants a divorce immediately and nothing else. That they are still living together and that he is just waiting for the divorce to leave the house or kick the woman out.

Judge says I should still meet with both of them. Everybody knows that this is the point you must shout “As the Court pleases” to avoid wahala.

After court I collected the Respondent’s phone number from my client and called her immediately. I requested to meet with her and invited her to come to my office. Madam said she is not coming anywhere, that if I want to meet with her, my client should bring me to their house.

I went back to the office after agreeing with my client that I will come over to his house after the close of work that same day.

I went to their house by 5pm. We sat down and starting talking about the issue. Then I got a bombshell.

She: Did your client tell you that he is serious about that divorce?

Me: Yes. We are in court already. He even told the judge so this morning in court. He is here now, he can tell you himself.

She: Serious about which divorce? Is it not that court he came back from this afternoon and came and collect one d@ggy?

I was totally flabbergasted. I didn’t expect that kind of raw bluntness from her. I turned to my client, he was silent and avoiding my eyes.

D@ggy? I carried my file quietly, entered my car and left.

Like d@ggy? After all that heat I faced in court, you even stood there, forming anger, then you came back and collect hot d@ggy in the afternoon?

What do you take lawyers for in this country? D@ggy? You couldn’t even do missionary in appreciation of the lashing that judge gave me because of your divorce case, you went and did d@ggy. D@ggy that use to sweet like wetin. �

Mr *Evaritus Gregory. Sir, though it is 4 years now, but I still remember. I know you will read this. I know you will laugh... from the bottom of my heart, sir, thunder fire you. �

*Not real name

- By First Baba Isa (FBI)

Culled from the wall of Afolayan Oluyemi

Copied �️

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Re: Can Good Intimacy Actually Cures Marital Crises Between Couples? by wunmi590(m): 1:25pm On Jan 08, 2023
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Re: Can Good Intimacy Actually Cures Marital Crises Between Couples? by djblue007(m): 1:25pm On Jan 08, 2023
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Re: Can Good Intimacy Actually Cures Marital Crises Between Couples? by braunny(m): 1:25pm On Jan 08, 2023
nickxtra:
So, sex is a medicine that can tame a misbehaving woman?
yes not just sex ohhh good sex......... Not selfish knacking most Nigerian husbands do ohh

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Re: Can Good Intimacy Actually Cures Marital Crises Between Couples? by Joshintua(m): 1:25pm On Jan 08, 2023
Not in all cases, understanding matters alot in marriage and solves different form of problems.
Re: Can Good Intimacy Actually Cures Marital Crises Between Couples? by noble71(m): 1:26pm On Jan 08, 2023
Chinua Achebe already said it.



Vote Peter Obi for President

.meanwhile at a good rate sell your Pi to us.

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Re: Can Good Intimacy Actually Cures Marital Crises Between Couples? by brain54(m): 1:26pm On Jan 08, 2023
Maybe temporarily…



From the context of that twit I think it’s safe to add that the problem in the marriage is intimacy!

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Re: Can Good Intimacy Actually Cures Marital Crises Between Couples? by Undisputed13: 1:28pm On Jan 08, 2023
Cutehector:
So this is why many feminists are so bitter about men because they are sex starved.


E reach to dey bitter, e just be like person give you food and you know bellefull na vex you go dey vex up and down.

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Re: Can Good Intimacy Actually Cures Marital Crises Between Couples? by hedonido: 1:28pm On Jan 08, 2023
When bills are piling up and frustration is mounting, you would tell me how papa bomboy would achieve erection. You think say marriage and dating na the same thing?

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Re: Can Good Intimacy Actually Cures Marital Crises Between Couples? by wizdooarchy3(m): 1:30pm On Jan 08, 2023
Abeg how much does Intimacy Worth 4 9ja?

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