There is this girl that I met, and I was attracted to her due to the fact that she is pretty, and have a good job. But what really pissed me off is the fact that she is a feminist.

She a kind of exhibit a domineering attitude.

This has delayed my planned proposal to her.

As a matter of fact, she doesn't agree that man is the head of the family.
Rather she argue that women are equal to man.
Should I go ahead to marry such kind of lady??

WETIN FEMINISTS DEY FIND WHERE MAN DEY?

This is stupid , and I wonder why you went to complicate your life with a feminist who's probabaly looking for someone to handle her and her trauma .


Baba, life for a man is already hard, and you wouldn't want to complicate it by marrying someone who's into gender problems. Or would you want your life to be run by a delusional woman who believes in subjecting men to female perspectives ...?

Secondly, you're a man for God sake ...and you have the options of choosing from a vast array of submissive women. Just thank God that we are in Africa which still has a lot of traditional women who believe in maintaining their place as women.


So my oga, forget her and do yourself a favor and find her substitute quick, quick . If possible, find a traditional woman who will love and respect you and see you as a provider for the home. I say this because, it is better you find someone you can love and control, than someone who will always be loose , bitter and narcissistic (aka feminist)

"Planned proposal"?
When did you meet her that you're already planning a proposal?
Since both of you do not share the same ideology, what is keeping in the relationship?
Are you hoping to change her (views about life)?

Makavelli001:
As a matter of fact, she doesn't agree that man is the head of the family.
Rather she argue that women are equal to man.
Should I go ahead to marry such kind of lady??

I doubt she would marry you since you don't seem equal to her. Perhaps aim lower and go for an uneducated village girl who would likely let you head her.

Reinamaria:
"Planned proposal"?
When did you meet her that you're already planning a proposal?
Since both of you do not share the same ideology, what is keeping in the relationship?
Are you hoping to change her (views about life)?

More than six months now