My boyfriend smokes nd pack ladies 2much which is against my principle. I hav plan 2 leave him bcs is not ready 2 change but his family luv me somuch. Wat do i do bcs i'm scared of nigeria guys .

Hmm I think u shuld leave him _FAST
As for his family loving u,girl I dont see hw dat will make u happier.

If there\s something u cant put up with cos its against ur principles as a person then u should let him go!!!
U are already experiencing heart ache now i cant imagine wot u would experience when u marry him.

First of all let me laugh,,,,  _{*rolls on the floor in fits of laughter*}

Let me write it back to you so u can read what u wrote.
 
                  'your boyfriend smokes and he packs the ladies.'

Now that you've read it how does that sound to you??

my dear leave the guy and go and find out who you are. You are not going out with his family. You can still remain friends with his family if you chose to but the guy is clearly no good for you.

A GUY THAT DOES NOT RESPECT YOU DOES NOT DESERVE YOU!!!

Thank's a whole lot, but nija guys ar unpredictable. Pls pray 4 me i need a God fearin man if possible a pastor.

@Bommy

hmmm- only a pastor? U probably need an herbalist.

Yemmy u must b out of ur mind, abi u ar a pagan ni i c u're d guy i'm talkin abt.

No bommy - an herbalist will be more commited.

ahhhaa,but i thought ''they'' said good girls love bad boys?

if u talk to him to change his ways and he refuses my dear pls just take walk cos its not his familyu are going to marry

You already know he womanizes, so why are you still hanging out with him? You’re lucky he hasn’t started beating you up yet. Flee now there’s still time before you get infected with some STD.

are you dating him or his family what has his family liking you got to do with your peace of mind girl? *^{just asking o}!*

I will advise you make the right decision for yourself, You are capable to do so if only you want to.

Take Care,

Love Ya.

labiyemi, i beg it is too early in da morning to laff my head off, i beg.
@ Poster, you sure know what to do, so do it, and if you want a pastor, i fit give u one, halla me

Do you want to learn how to smoke too, ? Well, you are not marrying  the  family  but  him, Just  run  fast  to me cuz, l do not smoke nor drink and l only pack knowledge  lol

leave him,even if his family likes u they would also like his new gal remember its his family, so forget it,if he doesnt what to change ,move on with ur life

@ post

i will advice u to stay with him, because if u decide to walk away 4rm him simply because he drinks and do other stuff u r not please with, what if the next guy happen to even worse compare to the present 1? any ways its ur choice oh do what eva please u.

Stay with him gal . . . .where is your power of enduorance as a woman??
so what . . . .He smokes . . .eh hen ? ? Barrack Obama smokes too.
so he packs women, . . . .well who doesn't ? ? ?

Stay with your man abeg.

Nautillus:

Stay with him girl . . . .where is your power of enduorance as a woman??
so what . . . .He smokes . . .eh hen ? ? Barrack Obama smokes too.
so he packs women, . . . .well who doesn't ? ? ?

Stay with your man abeg.

so dat she will die of heart attack and AIDS before her time right?


@topic
old story though but i want u to know dat

no woman should be wt a partner that does not give her peace and happiness,does two r d strong pillar of a relationship,likewise them men

My dear,

U should first of all define your purpose of been in the relationship. You know what u want best, so if its d guy that drink, smokes womanizes and maybe manizes u go on girl but if it's not u know what to do. You are in the best position to advice yourself.

Much love

Posta
For your best interest . . . Some of the people telling you to leave him/move on
face probs in their relationship that are worst than yours right now but like we know
It's a faceless forum and people are singing move on. Lol!!! 

Womanizin' and smoking are against your principles and
you want to leave him simply because he does sometin against ur principle?
Phulease!!! Which one of us hasn't gone against our principles in life
for one reason or anutha? Which one of us is in a relationship that is perfect?

What am I trynna say? I'm sayin' . . . . Be in your relationship until you
think and feel you cannot continue anymore.Trust me gurl,when you are fed up
you won't need anyone to tell you whatta do,You will know.