“The other woman” is a fascinating and most vilified figure whom many including the cheating man gladly blame for the demise of their relationship. It is amazing how quickly people judge her as the mistress and call her every name under the sun, while giving the man/husband a pass. All sorts of excuses is given for the man from, because he’s successful, poor, brilliant, stupid, stressed out, bored to that he’s just simply being a man.

Even though one can agree that the other woman should be accountable for doing something wrong, should she be primarily responsible for and get all the flack that is usually heaped on her by all including the cheated on wife or girlfriend. Does the erring husband/partner not deserve far more flack than this “other woman”

After all its not in all cases, that this other woman is knowingly and willingly a participant in a relationship scenario that is going to hurt another woman.

And to the "other woman" why do they chose to be that? Because no matter how it is spun, she is still playing second fiddle.

Are they really happy being that?

I do sometimes when i am bored

most people know that men are weak when it comes to sex issues

true talk.

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I do sometimes when i am bored

Yea right, paste the link sharp sharp

We have so much threads speaking about blaming other women. Its easier to blame other women because a woman doesn't want to accept the fact that the other woman has something she doesn't.