Namigotalktru:
Growing? When some Agbaya old men have been building hotels across from universities over a decade

nedekid:
Na wah.
If one can afford it, send your ward to private universities. Especially babcock or covenant. Such activity is reduced there as students are not allowed to leave the campus without consent from the parents.

Gerrard59:


As usual, it is the ones who don't have money that gets angry. You think a well-to-do dude who works remotely and earns at least $2000 in Nigeria would make this statement?

Go and work for money, and these girls will seek your presence. Stop being angry that your smelly deek cannot command a price in the open market. Alternatively, tell the richer males around you to stop patronising these girls.

Treassured:


Na to dey Collect TAX on top Sex.

I will Surely Petition this Development😂

Rubyjade:
I am a lady

QuinModah:


https://www.nairaland.com/1839798/campus-prostitution-growing-concern-nigeria

nedekid:
Na wah.
If one can afford it, send your ward to private universities. Especially babcock or covenant. Such activity is reduced there as students are not allowed to leave the campus without consent from the parents.

QuinModah:


https://www.nairaland.com/1839798/campus-prostitution-growing-concern-nigeria

MrBrownJay1:

fair enough, let us look at a country like Venezuela or Argentina...do you think that corruption cases there get justice? the charade we call "justice" in the west is just the same as the non existant justice in poor countries. on paper, it indeed looks like there is justice, but is there really?! do you know that although Sarkozy was indeed found guilty of a serious corruption crime, he hasnt spent a day in a jail cell. where is the justice there? do you really think that Nigerian political elite can defraud an election process, without the help of the west? isnt it the same west that defrauded their own people during the election of BUSH vs GORE? where was the justice then? isnt it the same corrupted west that pretended there was WMD in Irak so that they could go in and steal the country's natural ressources (and now they look down on Russia for doing exactly the same thing in Ukraine....bloody hypocrites)? and then again do the same in Afghanistan? why do you think there is suddenly an opioid crisis in the US today (after the US army invaded the biggest opioid-producing country in the world)?! isnt it the same tricks that were used in the 80s with crack cocaine that "they" were importing themselves, that was killing their own people? do you really think nobody in the US gov knew/knows about this? the US invades the #1 heroin producer in the world (Afghamistan) and suddenly all your people become heroin addicts, and you dont see anything wrong in this picture? go check Kensington av in Philly or skid row in LA to understand that these corrupt people do not give a damn about LIFE. just like your corrupted African leaders.

Sleekfingers:




An idiotic statement. Do you know me or how much I earn or how many people I am feeding or employed? Some you will just come on faceless platform and be claiming shit. Bunch of bloody empty barrels.

God1000:
Nigeria is a morally bankrupt society. It all starts from our homes, proper upbringing of children is very important

So many parents these days don't teach their kids good morals, poor parenting is largely responsible.

zanshi:



I went ot one of em and it isn't any different trust me.

lavylilly:
Nigeria campuses ars a fertile ground for exploitation.

zanshi:
■ Here is my 2 cents: We have to teach our women contentment: Ask yourself what do these babes use the money they make off this trade to do? Buy vain things like overpriced hair,phones knowing fully well that their income bracket can't carry that. Even if you are in a relationship with these women they can even belittle you and your career like your 170k salary and for the fact that you help her with some responsibilities like it you aint sh1t
■ Do these babes every stop: Even if as a hkp babe you are lucky to come across a high value man, and he knows you are an hookup babe, he won't want to ever settle for you long term cos he met you in the streets and once a street girl always a street girl. Begs to ask if you as a babe have slept with mulptile are you finally ready to let the past behind?
■ Hookup is ruining the dating market: Gone are the days where men would sharpen their pickup lines and go to meet the girl they find pretty and woo her aggressively now men barely put in effort nowadys, they would rather pay a hookup girl to give them girlfriend experience whilst keeping her around as a bestie. Such men often times won't oftentimes put effort in their relationship to make it work because they feel there is a plan B they can pay for to get them that. And long term too as a woman, to comit to one guy would be hard, because you indirectly keep comparing the new guy to the old gys....

Kobojunkie:
This problem goes beyond upbringing as it instead is indicative of the high levels of poverty in the nation — over 90%.

God1000:
■ I agree with you, but you can't completely dismiss the fact that poor upbringing also contributes to it.

QuinModah:


https://www.nairaland.com/1839798/campus-prostitution-growing-concern-nigeria

Kobojunkie:
1. Those with poor upbringing as their reason are in the minority. The majority as into it because they are simply from poor backgrounds and cannot afford what they desire and long to have as a result. And please, do not come back here to tell me that a kid living in Africa should not long for and desire the same opportunities that kids elsewhere have access to and freedom to elsewhere in world.

We live in a very materialistic age and so anyone birthing kids into poverty is to blame for dooming such a child to such an existence.

God1000:
■ You are trying to justify why people go into prostitution
■Poverty isn't the main reason, it's laziness . Also, kids from broken and dysfunctional homes indulge in prostitution most.

Ogamysamo:
it boils down to mindset.
poverty or no poverty prostitution is not the solution.
lack of contentment also contributed largely to campus prostitution as some students prefer living fake lives.
although patronisers has a role to play, the actual people in the act have more...
FACE YOUR STUDIES, ZERO YOUR MIND AND ALL THIS WILL NOT BE ATTRIBUTED UNTO YOU

Kobojunkie:
1. Ignoring what is the reality of these things will change nothing or make them go away.

2. Poverty is the number one factor for driving these kids into such lives. And you claim kids from broken and dysfunctional homes indulge in prostitution the most and it never occurred to you that poverty is itself a broken and dysfunctional situation, to begin with?

God1000:
■ It seems we have different understanding of broken and dysfunctional families.

Kobojunkie:
1. Ignoring what is the reality of these things will change nothing or make them go away.

2. Poverty is the number one factor for driving these kids into such lives. And you claim kids from broken and dysfunctional homes indulge in prostitution the most and it never occurred to you that poverty is itself a broken and dysfunctional situation, to begin with?

Kobojunkie:
1. Reality speaks volumes for itself. That notion that somehow humility is found in poverty is a wicked one created by the wicked to keep the poor foolish and depraved longer. Poverty is a broken and dysfunctional situation and every family that exists in poverty of the same nature, no matter how glossy you try to make the many tales about them seem.

God1000:
■ Families caught in the cycle of dysfunction often face serious abusive issues like alcohol abuse, drug abuse, domestic violence, physical abuse, sexual abuse, and emotional abuse. Children of dysfunctional families tend to carry on the cycle of dysfunction into their own lives and into their own families. [b]A dysfunctional family is one that is mired in conflict, chaos, a lack of structure, or indifference so that the child’s physical and emotional needs cannot be met. Factors that can impair a family’s functioning include poor parenting, distressed or abusive environments, substance abuse, mental illness, chronic physical illness, and poor communication[/b]A healthy family system, on the other hand, is one where family members nurture and support each other. Family relationships are close and individual members within a family have a sense of emotional well-being

I hope this helps you.

Kobojunkie:
1. So, it never occurred to you that a family that exists in poverty exits with indifference to the child's emotional, physical, and social well-being? Dey there dey look for ways to get around the real definition of a dysfunctional family.

God1000:
■like I said earlier, laziness is also part of it, I will never agree with you on this
■ I've seen young women riding tricycles and doing other tedious jobs.
■ It's all poor parenting and laziness