ufotty2001:
Is it right to set up a woman after Marriage. I keep asking myself these questions.
At 28yrs as a woman u don't have a career?
What have you been doing for the past 15yrs
I met a beautiful girl yesterday with good character but she has no career or any business ideas. She told me that she will love to go to school..I love this girl and I wish to marry her but my problem is that I want to enroll her in University. I keep asking her what have you been doing when you were young.? She said that her parents are poor.. that they where unable to enroll her in University

ufotty2001:

What have you been doing for the past 15yrs
I keep asking her what have you been doing when you were young.?

ufotty2001:
Is it right to set up a lady after Marriage. I keep asking myself these questions.
At 28yrs as a lady u don't have a career?
What have you been doing for the past 15yrs
I met a beautiful girl yesterday with good character but she has no career or any business ideas. She told me that she will love to go to school..I love this girl and I wish to marry her but my problem is that I want to enroll her in University. I keep asking her what have you been doing when you were young.? She said that her parents are poor.. that they were unable to enroll her in University

ufotty2001:
Is it right to set up a lady after Marriage. I keep asking myself these questions.
At 28yrs as a lady u don't have a career?
What have you been doing for the past 15yrs
I met a beautiful girl yesterday with good character but she has no career or any business ideas. She told me that she will love to go to school..I love this girl and I wish to marry her but my problem is that I want to enroll her in University. I keep asking her what have you been doing when you were young.? She said that her parents are poor.. that they were unable to enroll her in University

AbdulMagaji:


You think everyone has the opportunity you got?

Brush her up and wife her

Autobot05:


Meaning He should send her to school and wife her ??

AbdulMagaji:


She can study online

ufotty2001:
Is it right to set up a lady after Marriage. I keep asking myself these questions.
At 28yrs as a lady u don't have a career?
What have you been doing for the past 15yrs
I met a beautiful girl yesterday with good character but she has no career or any business ideas. She told me that she will love to go to school..I love this girl and I wish to marry her but my problem is that I want to enroll her in University. I keep asking her what have you been doing when you were young.? She said that her parents are poor.. that they were unable to enroll her in University

Sonnobax15:

Eyahhhhh....See format wey the banny use for the op... Yahoo banny indeed . Just like how every banny who was promiscuous during her youth usually claim she was raped

Well,the truth is that I can't even date such type of a lady let alone settling her up . How she wan take run the business in the first place? . You see,some of us whom you see today who are successful in our different types of hustle didn't just wake up one morning to actualize that...As a matter of fact,we learned via apprenticeship,and equally endured all form of insults just to get to where we are today.......Op,I can't discourage a brother man like you cha...But if you truly love her and wish to marry her,then you should sit her down and discuss things with her,so that make e no come be like say you throway your money into borehole pit

Gerrard59:


It is like you people don't know the effects the Nigerian economy has on its citizens. From your name, you are most likely based in Uyo. Imagine how it is for folks in Taraba, Kogi, Adamawa, Kebbi, Yobe, Ebonyi, Northern Cross River etc. The farming some indulged in, Fulani herdsmen no gree make dem rest.

If she is good enough character-wise, yes, you can set her up and ensure she is educated on basic maths. I was going through a thread for people who have made so much money. The question was, "couples to these rich folks, what do you do?". Many responses came up, from women to these rich men, on how they manage the homefront effectively while the man makes the dough. It made me realise that inasmuch as it is good/OK for both parents to work, the traditional way is also good before competition entered the global economy. One wrote about how she manages his schedule to attend friends' events, children's school events, exercises etc. Another manages the investment aspect together with her husband as she has experience in investment management, but since the man out-earns her, she stays at home. Yet another wrote how she takes care of the four children, which frees up time for the man since he knows the homefront is safe and sound. She ensures he is minimally distracted as much as possible. So, having a SAHM (sit-at-home mom) is not entirely bad as most make it to be. Obviously, the woman should keep improving herself educationally and mentally to keep up with developments.

This is common in East Asian societies even though inflation, low salaries and increasing westernisation are gradually changing the society. For instance, in Japan, men work and hand their salaries to their wives, who manage the expenses. This model can work for your household - you make it and she manages it. So far it works for you, it is very OK. Don't listen to hungry, uneducated, unexposed and mentally malnourished alfa meils. Their greatest achievement is chanting alfa meil, alfa meil, alfa meil while dangling their smelly preek around.

ufotty2001:
Is it right to set up a lady after Marriage. I keep asking myself these questions.
At 28yrs as a lady u don't have a career?
What have you been doing for the past 15yrs
I met a beautiful girl yesterday with good character but she has no career or any business ideas. She told me that she will love to go to school..I love this girl and I wish to marry her but my problem is that I want to enroll her in University. I keep asking her what have you been doing when you were young.? She said that her parents are poor.. that they were unable to enroll her in University

luminouz:

Such a load of premium bullshiiit!!

You are always high on some shiit!

Advice your brother like that too when he beings such home.

Gerrard59:


Actually, that is the same one of my guy plans doing, just as many of our kith do here. Provided it works for the family, it is OK by me. I will not dictate how someone should run his family as long as it works for the parties involved. In OP's case, it must not be a university. A polytechnic is OK. But she must be kept abreast with modern developments and ways on how to make money. Again, a SAHM is not wrong as long as the parties involved are fine with it.

I understand you are a revered alfa meil. That is OK. But I am not responsible for dangling your smelly penis as you have been doing in the sexuality section for nearly a decade.

ufotty2001:
Is it right to set up a lady after Marriage. I keep asking myself these questions.
At 28yrs as a lady u don't have a career?
What have you been doing for the past 15yrs
I met a beautiful girl yesterday with good character but she has no career or any business ideas. She told me that she will love to go to school..I love this girl and I wish to marry her but my problem is that I want to enroll her in University. I keep asking her what have you been doing when you were young.? She said that her parents are poor.. that they were unable to enroll her in University

ufotty2001:
Is it right to set up a lady after Marriage. I keep asking myself these questions.
At 28yrs as a lady u don't have a career?
What have you been doing for the past 15yrs
I met a beautiful girl yesterday with good character but she has no career or any business ideas. She told me that she will love to go to school..I love this girl and I wish to marry her but my problem is that I want to enroll her in University. I keep asking her what have you been doing when you were young.? She said that her parents are poor.. that they were unable to enroll her in University

ufotty2001:
Is it right to set up a lady after Marriage. I keep asking myself these questions.
At 28yrs as a lady u don't have a career?
What have you been doing for the past 15yrs
I met a beautiful girl yesterday with good character but she has no career or any business ideas. She told me that she will love to go to school..I love this girl and I wish to marry her but my problem is that I want to enroll her in University. I keep asking her what have you been doing when you were young.? She said that her parents are poor.. that they were unable to enroll her in University

brosom:
I lost interest when I read u want to send her to school.

Google about kayode the lover boy, you'll have ur answer.

Gerrard59:

Don't listen to hungry, uneducated, unexposed and mentally malnourished alfa meils. Their greatest achievement is chanting alfa meil, alfa meil, alfa meil while dangling their smelly preek around.

Gerrard59:


It is like you people don't know the effects the Nigerian economy has on its citizens. From your name, you are most likely based in Uyo. Imagine how it is for folks in Taraba, Kogi, Adamawa, Kebbi, Yobe, Ebonyi, Northern Cross River etc. The farming some indulged in, Fulani herdsmen no gree make dem rest.

If she is good enough character-wise, yes, you can set her up and ensure she is educated on basic maths. I was going through a thread for people who have made so much money. The question was, "couples to these rich folks, what do you do?". Many responses came up, from women to these rich men, on how they manage the homefront effectively while the man makes the dough. It made me realise that inasmuch as it is good/OK for both parents to work, the traditional way is also good before competition entered the global economy. One wrote about how she manages his schedule to attend friends' events, children's school events, exercises etc. Another manages the investment aspect together with her husband as she has experience in investment management, but since the man out-earns her, she stays at home. Yet another wrote how she takes care of the four children, which frees up time for the man since he knows the homefront is safe and sound. She ensures he is minimally distracted as much as possible. So, having a SAHM (sit-at-home mom) is not entirely bad as most make it to be. Obviously, the woman should keep improving herself educationally and mentally to keep up with developments.

This is common in East Asian societies even though inflation, low salaries and increasing westernisation are gradually changing the society. For instance, in Japan, men work and hand their salaries to their wives, who manage the expenses. This model can work for your household - you make it and she manages it. So far it works for you, it is very OK. Don't listen to hungry, uneducated, unexposed and mentally malnourished alfa meils. Their greatest achievement is chanting alfa meil, alfa meil, alfa meil while dangling their smelly preek around.

Raalsalghul:
Ufotty2001, you can do it but make sure you've married her and she has like two kids before going ahead to set her up.

And how do you know she has a good character if I may ask you?

ufotty2001:
Is it right to set up a lady after Marriage. I keep asking myself these questions.
At 28yrs as a lady u don't have a career?
What have you been doing for the past 15yrs
I met a beautiful girl yesterday with good character but she has no career or any business ideas. She told me that she will love to go to school..I love this girl and I wish to marry her but my problem is that I want to enroll her in University. I keep asking her what have you been doing when you were young.? She said that her parents are poor.. that they were unable to enroll her in University