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My Close Shave With a difficult lady by CHARLIENESS: 11:34am On May 09, 2023
I met this lady December 2020, I met her when I needed to secure a business space, she was friendly with the man who gave me space. She would go on to tell me all the jist I needed to know about the place and the powers and principalities around there.

By February of 2021, we had begun dating. She would visit me and pass the night, come for weekends... We had nice time together, always.
She's a single parent though, she's a nice lady, caring and loving.

Before long, we began having issues.
She has friends I suspect were doing hook-ups, she once told me she was introduced to a man who wanted to force himself on her when she visited him - my question, if you weren't interested, why visit him?
Again, she told me of how a young yahoo boy was asking her out and I felt so irritated.
Worse, she always wanted me to abide by her counsel. I had wanted to enrol for a Master's program which she vehemently kicked against and somehow, I lost interest. It would appear as though whatever I tell her and she disapprove of, is instantly doomed to fail, I observed this happen a number of times.
To make matters worse, she began reporting me to my neighbors - this is the worst thing any woman can do to me.
My attempts to make her see things from my point of view all failed, so I stopped seeing her. I'll pretend like I travel out of the state and she won't have to visit me, this continued for a while and in the end, she gave up.

We reestablish communication early 2022 and would meet sometimes in April of same year, she came to me for a night and we didn't see again.
By August of 2022, she called me that she was ill, as a friend, I visited her and she was really emaciated, I assisted her with some cash and encouraged her to go to the hospital. Curiously, she was visiting herbs women and doesn't want to go to the hospital.
At the time she visited a health centre close to her, she called me to please check myself. That I should go have a test, that she tested positive for HIV.
I summoned courage same day, went for test and tested negative, I told her and she was confused the more, she was trying to trace the source of the virus. I encouraged her to contact any man she has had sex with before or after my affair with her but she gave up later saying it's needless.

I saw her yesterday and she's a shadow of her old self, though she told me she is taking her medication, I am not convinced, she's lost so much weight.

I don't know if she acquired the virus before or after we met but I thank God I'm in good health and the test results showed I'm okay. I sympathize with her though and refuse to stigmatize her, also I keep extending a hand of friendship anytime I can.

Maybe this will encourage someone.

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Re: My Close Shave With a difficult lady by Nobody: 11:41am On May 09, 2023
Go back and check after three months and again after six months. Learn to keep your prick inside trouser, it's not every erection that you must obey. Practice self control and shun premarital sex

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Re: My Close Shave With a difficult lady by CHARLIENESS: 11:43am On May 09, 2023
I've done those and I'm fine thanks.
You mustn't comment on every post and you may keep your self-righteousness to yourself next time.


IyaebeTheGreat:
Go back and check after three months and again after six months. Learn to keep your prick inside trouser, it's not every erection that you must obey. Practice self control and shun premarital sex

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Re: My Close Shave With a difficult lady by Nobody: 11:45am On May 09, 2023
CHARLIENESS:
I've done those and I'm fine thanks.
You mustn't comment on every post and you may keep your self-righteousness to yourself next time.


Take my advise and stop being unnecessarily toxic with yourself.

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Re: My Close Shave With a difficult lady by jimmyolasun: 11:49am On May 09, 2023
Check your status after 8months.. 😈😈

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Re: My Close Shave With a difficult lady by CHARLIENESS: 11:50am On May 09, 2023
Thank you Satan

IyaebeTheGreat:
Take my advise and stop being unnecessarily toxic with yourself.

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Re: My Close Shave With a difficult lady by blacksam01: 11:52am On May 09, 2023
crowds and crowds o ppl live with HIV near us..u just domt know cuz the hype has died down

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Re: My Close Shave With a difficult lady by Nobody: 11:54am On May 09, 2023
CHARLIENESS:
Thank you Satan

back to sender. I only gave you a good advise but you seem to be an enemy of truth

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Re: My Close Shave With a difficult lady by donbachi(m): 12:02pm On May 09, 2023
IyaebeTheGreat:
Go back and check after three months and again after six months. Learn to keep your prick inside trouser, it's not every erection that you must obey. Practice self control and shun premarital sex
dats my daughter

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Re: My Close Shave With a difficult lady by AsomStructures: 1:38pm On May 09, 2023
Always assist her in any possible way you can, moreso be cautious about whom you have s*x with as you can suggest being tested before engaging in the act or you protect yourself...

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Re: My Close Shave With a difficult lady by Depriest2020: 3:33pm On May 09, 2023
It's a pitty people don't care about HIV anymore.

I will advise everyone to always visit General Hospital, ask around for Thier HIV counselling center, just go take a peep if you're allowed close, you will see young men & women, the elderly ones, both pregnant women receiving counsell & Drugs for HIV.

I knew someone who died sometime, he was very sick for a long time before he died, he didn't tell people what he was suffering from, he told people he was poisoned, we all believed and was swearing for who ever that poisoned him, it was his younger brother who told me what killed him, his wife later became very sick too, though she has recovered and taking her medication with seriousness. The funny thing is how married men are running after this beautiful widow. She's not saying no to them cause she needs money for her medication and for the school fees & upkeep of her 5 kids.

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Re: My Close Shave With a difficult lady by fyzaila: 4:32pm On May 09, 2023
IyaebeTheGreat:
Go back and check after three months and again after six months. Learn to keep your prick inside trouser, it's not every erection that you must obey. Practice self control and shun premarital sex

Take mic 🎤 🎤🎙🎤 loud it in every possible way so it can enter their thick skull. Smh

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Re: My Close Shave With a difficult lady by Nobody: 4:33pm On May 09, 2023
fyzaila:


Take mic 🎤 🎤🎙🎤 loud it in every possible way so it can enter their thick skull. Smh
He even insulted me for telling him the truth
Re: My Close Shave With a difficult lady by Lvgirl: 4:37pm On May 09, 2023
CHARLIENESS:
I met this lady December 2020, I met her when I needed to secure a business space, she was friendly with the man who gave me space. She would go on to tell me all the jist I needed to know about the place and the powers and principalities around there.

By February of 2021, we had begun dating. She would visit me and pass the night, come for weekends... We had nice time together, always.
She's a single parent though, she's a nice lady, caring and loving.

Before long, we began having issues.
She has friends I suspect were doing hook-ups, she once told me she was introduced to a man who wanted to force himself on her when she visited him - my question, if you weren't interested, why visit him?
Again, she told me of how a young yahoo boy was asking her out and I felt so irritated.
Worse, she always wanted me to abide by her counsel. I had wanted to enrol for a Master's program which she vehemently kicked against and somehow, I lost interest. It would appear as though whatever I tell her and she disapprove of, is instantly doomed to fail, I observed this happen a number of times.
To make matters worse, she began reporting me to my neighbors - this is the worst thing any woman can do to me.
My attempts to make her see things from my point of view all failed, so I stopped seeing her. I'll pretend like I travel out of the state and she won't have to visit me, this continued for a while and in the end, she gave up.

We reestablish communication early 2022 and would meet sometimes in April of same year, she came to me for a night and we didn't see again.
By August of 2022, she called me that she was ill, as a friend, I visited her and she was really emaciated, I assisted her with some cash and encouraged her to go to the hospital. Curiously, she was visiting herbs women and doesn't want to go to the hospital.
At the time she visited a health centre close to her, she called me to please check myself. That I should go have a test, that she tested positive for HIV.
I summoned courage same day, went for test and tested negative, I told her and she was confused the more, she was trying to trace the source of the virus. I encouraged her to contact any man she has had sex with before or after my affair with her but she gave up later saying it's needless.

I saw her yesterday and she's a shadow of her old self, though she told me she is taking her medication, I am not convinced, she's lost so much weight.

I don't know if she acquired the virus before or after we met but I thank God I'm in good health and the test results showed I'm okay. I sympathize with her though and refuse to stigmatize her, also I keep extending a hand of friendship anytime I can.

Maybe this will encourage someone.



H hydrogen
I iron
V vitamin s


So this is what you are afraid of

If so don't have sex with her again except Mouth Action.
Hiv patients have salivating mouth. Very good for.bj
So.sloopy

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Re: My Close Shave With a difficult lady by truthfulperson: 5:04pm On May 09, 2023
REPENT NOW OF YOUR SINFUL EVIL WAYS TO AVOID SPENDING YOUR ETERNITY IN HELL FIRE....JESUS CHRIST LOVES AND WARN YOU TO REPENT AND CONVERT NOW TO CHRISTIANITY TO RECEIVE THE GRACE AND POWER TO AVOID HELL FIRE WHEN YOU DIE....you are not a mistake creature, God specially made you to be with Him here and in eternity in heaven. Give God a try today and you will know He exists and love you so much.
Bewarned only Jesus Christ can save you , any other way(Islam, Hinduism,paganism, atheism,socialism, etc) or person will not help you to gain salvation and make heaven, rather they will mislead you to hell fire. Don't gamble with your eternity , it is more important than the present temporal short years you spend here on earth. Give Jesus Christ a try today!!!!
Re: My Close Shave With a difficult lady by Streetmovement(m): 5:12pm On May 09, 2023
Wotoporiously cool speaking

Narrow escape bro
Re: My Close Shave With a difficult lady by princefrank76: 5:33pm On May 09, 2023
Pls thank your stars and be more careful next time
Re: My Close Shave With a difficult lady by MechanicMike: 5:35pm On May 09, 2023
CHARLIENESS:
I met this lady December 2020, I met her when I needed to secure a business space, she was friendly with the man who gave me space. She would go on to tell me all the jist I needed to know about the place and the powers and principalities around there.

By February of 2021, we had begun dating. She would visit me and pass the night, come for weekends... We had nice time together, always.
She's a single parent though, she's a nice lady, caring and loving.

Before long, we began having issues.
She has friends I suspect were doing hook-ups, she once told me she was introduced to a man who wanted to force himself on her when she visited him - my question, if you weren't interested, why visit him?
Again, she told me of how a young yahoo boy was asking her out and I felt so irritated.
Worse, she always wanted me to abide by her counsel. I had wanted to enrol for a Master's program which she vehemently kicked against and somehow, I lost interest. It would appear as though whatever I tell her and she disapprove of, is instantly doomed to fail, I observed this happen a number of times.
To make matters worse, she began reporting me to my neighbors - this is the worst thing any woman can do to me.
My attempts to make her see things from my point of view all failed, so I stopped seeing her. I'll pretend like I travel out of the state and she won't have to visit me, this continued for a while and in the end, she gave up.

We reestablish communication early 2022 and would meet sometimes in April of same year, she came to me for a night and we didn't see again.
By August of 2022, she called me that she was ill, as a friend, I visited her and she was really emaciated, I assisted her with some cash and encouraged her to go to the hospital. Curiously, she was visiting herbs women and doesn't want to go to the hospital.
At the time she visited a health centre close to her, she called me to please check myself. That I should go have a test, that she tested positive for HIV.
I summoned courage same day, went for test and tested negative, I told her and she was confused the more, she was trying to trace the source of the virus. I encouraged her to contact any man she has had sex with before or after my affair with her but she gave up later saying it's needless.

I saw her yesterday and she's a shadow of her old self, though she told me she is taking her medication, I am not convinced, she's lost so much weight.

I don't know if she acquired the virus before or after we met but I thank God I'm in good health and the test results showed I'm okay. I sympathize with her though and refuse to stigmatize her, also I keep extending a hand of friendship anytime I can.

Maybe this will encourage someone.


angry
Re: My Close Shave With a difficult lady by MechanicMike: 5:36pm On May 09, 2023
CHARLIENESS:
I met this lady December 2020, I met her when I needed to secure a business space, she was friendly with the man who gave me space. She would go on to tell me all the jist I needed to know about the place and the powers and principalities around there.

By February of 2021, we had begun dating. She would visit me and pass the night, come for weekends... We had nice time together, always.
She's a single parent though, she's a nice lady, caring and loving.

Before long, we began having issues.
She has friends I suspect were doing hook-ups, she once told me she was introduced to a man who wanted to force himself on her when she visited him - my question, if you weren't interested, why visit him?
Again, she told me of how a young yahoo boy was asking her out and I felt so irritated.
Worse, she always wanted me to abide by her counsel. I had wanted to enrol for a Master's program which she vehemently kicked against and somehow, I lost interest. It would appear as though whatever I tell her and she disapprove of, is instantly doomed to fail, I observed this happen a number of times.
To make matters worse, she began reporting me to my neighbors - this is the worst thing any woman can do to me.
My attempts to make her see things from my point of view all failed, so I stopped seeing her. I'll pretend like I travel out of the state and she won't have to visit me, this continued for a while and in the end, she gave up.

We reestablish communication early 2022 and would meet sometimes in April of same year, she came to me for a night and we didn't see again.
By August of 2022, she called me that she was ill, as a friend, I visited her and she was really emaciated, I assisted her with some cash and encouraged her to go to the hospital. Curiously, she was visiting herbs women and doesn't want to go to the hospital.
At the time she visited a health centre close to her, she called me to please check myself. That I should go have a test, that she tested positive for HIV.
I summoned courage same day, went for test and tested negative, I told her and she was confused the more, she was trying to trace the source of the virus. I encouraged her to contact any man she has had sex with before or after my affair with her but she gave up later saying it's needless.

I saw her yesterday and she's a shadow of her old self, though she told me she is taking her medication, I am not convinced, she's lost so much weight.

I don't know if she acquired the virus before or after we met but I thank God I'm in good health and the test results showed I'm okay. I sympathize with her though and refuse to stigmatize her, also I keep extending a hand of friendship anytime I can.

Maybe this will encourage someone.


Brother how can u shave woman public hairs...are u not ashamed?..are u not a man?(no offenscce) angry
Re: My Close Shave With a difficult lady by Dexy4yah(m): 6:03pm On May 09, 2023
With the rate of hookup girls this days.... HIV always comes to mind.

No allow punna ruin your sweet life.

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Re: My Close Shave With a difficult lady by LIVINGICONREBOR: 7:00pm On May 09, 2023
Really a close shave indeed.
HIV and other STDs full for outside. When not sure of the status of a pussy, always strap up.🤔
Re: My Close Shave With a difficult lady by Reggaemich(m): 7:03pm On May 09, 2023
I believe the HIV is still in the window period that is why it is not noticeable by test

Go back in 6months time and above

Concerning your babe, I believe she knew her HIV status all along and I believe she intentionally wanted to infect u with the virus.

Her reason is what I don't know, maybe by infecting u with the virus, u will have no choice than to stick with her, since u both will be in the category
Re: My Close Shave With a difficult lady by FREDCLSSICO7(m): 7:12pm On May 09, 2023
CHARLIENESS:
I've done those and I'm fine thanks.
You mustn't comment on every post and you may keep your self-righteousness to yourself next time.


that woman you just quoted is a j0bless 0ld W!tch

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Re: My Close Shave With a difficult lady by FREDCLSSICO7(m): 7:15pm On May 09, 2023
Lvgirl:



H hydrogen I iron V vitamin s

So this is what you are afraid of
If so don't have sex with her again except Mouth Action. Hiv patients have salivating mouth. Very good for.bj So.sloopy
this one way you know all this thing you dun get Hydrogen Iron Vitamins before ni

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Re: My Close Shave With a difficult lady by fyzaila: 8:53pm On May 09, 2023
IyaebeTheGreat:
He even insulted me for telling him the truth

The truth is bitter u know
Re: My Close Shave With a difficult lady by CHARLIENESS: 10:18am On May 10, 2023
God bless you.

I should have ignored her the first time but now I know she's mad.




FREDCLSSICO7:

that woman you just quoted is a j0bless 0ld W!tch

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Re: My Close Shave With a difficult lady by Nobody: 2:40pm On May 10, 2023
Next time, for your own sake, keep it at the back of your mind that it's not everyone you must lay with.

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Re: My Close Shave With a difficult lady by ghettochild(m): 12:47pm On May 24, 2023
U are lucky or maybe she got infected after u left her

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