I really can't give the best advice to my 24-year-old sister struggling with the frustrations of a married professor in his late 40s who wants to have a sexual affair with her.

The lecturer handles two different courses, each having a three-credit load and she is afraid of being failed for not complying with his sexual advances.

Having given many excuses for not meeting up for a date and refusing his gifts, tonight I found her crying after talking to him over the phone and it seems he is upset about the whole situation.

Such lecturers are most times above the laws of the school and the laws of the land. She should tell the lecturer that she is engage and everything will end

manee2:
I really can't give the best advice to my 24-year-old sister struggling with the frustrations of a married professor in his late 40s who wants to have a sexual affair with her.

The lecturer handles two different courses, each having a three-credit load and she is afraid of being failed for not complying with his sexual advances.

Having given many excuses for not meeting up for a date and refusing his gifts, tonight I found her crying after talking to him over the phone and it seems he is upset about the whole situation.

There is no polite way my dear but let me ask is she a virgin? if no then make she use fvck kill the lecturer if not she go the that school for 16years and 2months for a 4years course

She should record their conversations first.

Redoil:
Such lecturers are most times above the laws of the school and the laws of the land. She should tell the lecturer that she is engage and everything will end

She never spoke about being engaged initially. I think it's too late now. I also don't think that's enough of a reason to turn away a desperate man.

SmileDance:
She should record their conversations first.

and do what with the rcording
See migeria is a jungle where Such lecturers are most times above the laws of the school and the laws of the land. She should tell the lecturer that she tell the lecturer no and no should be no then dam the consequece by not graduating for ever

Nigerian lecturers and sexual advances towards female students be like two inseparable entities...... But karma is real,via say wetin the idiot dey do to other people daughters today,his own daughters go reap am tomorrow too

Op, I'd have love to advise you to tell your sister to report the situation to her school authority,but then again,I just had a second thought which is--"What if the said prof is a part and parcel of the same authority"? Meaning say wahala dey

The worst part is that this particular lecturer may even go to the extent of purposely failing her in all his courses if she doesn't agree to his wants . May God never forget to punish such lecturers

manee2:
I really can't give the best advice to my 24-year-old sister struggling with the frustrations of a married professor in his late 40s who wants to have a sexual affair with her.

The lecturer handles two different courses, each having a three-credit load and she is afraid of being failed for not complying with his sexual advances.

Having given many excuses for not meeting up for a date and refusing his gifts, tonight I found her crying after talking to him over the phone and it seems he is upset about the whole situation.

Let he record all the chats and phone call with the man. Let her play along. Then when she has enough evidence. Tell me the man no and act cool. If he goes ahead and fails her. She should not worry. Let her mssg the man on chat or sms. Leaving digital copy. Asking the man why he failed her... He definitely play smart then she tells him Ok . I am ready. Send an address. Then go straight to the school authorities with all you have. If the school slides it. Get a lawyer. Mind you it will be a tough battle but you will win. She just need to tag the school and the lecturer on Twitter.

Gbam!

Redoil:
and do what with the rcording
See migeria is a jungle where Such lecturers are most times above the laws of the school and the laws of the land. She should tell the lecturer that she tell the lecturer no and no should be no then dam the consequece by not graduating for ever

which school, what is the name of the lecturer, he will be sorry soon

The two of you should set him up. Simple

manee2:


She never spoke about being engaged initially. I think it's too late now. I also don't think that's enough of a reason to turn away a desperate man.

She should tell him that her boyfriend is against it. And insist that she can't cheat on him. At least that will give her some leverage, rather than just flatly rejecting his advances.

manee2:
I really can't give the best advice to my 24-year-old sister struggling with the frustrations of a married professor in his late 40s who wants to have a sexual affair with her.

The lecturer handles two different courses, each having a three-credit load and she is afraid of being failed for not complying with his sexual advances.

Having given many excuses for not meeting up for a date and refusing his gifts, tonight I found her crying after talking to him over the phone and it seems he is upset about the whole situation.

She shud record their conversation, etc..

Any day he ask them to meet, she shud expose them..

D

Do randy lecturers pester girls that know their onions academically?

manee2:
■ I really can't give the best advice to my 24-year-old sister struggling with the frustrations of a married professor in his late 40s who wants to have a sexual affair with her. The lecturer handles two different courses, each having a three-credit load and she is afraid of being failed for not complying with his sexual advances. Having given many excuses for not meeting up for a date and refusing his gifts, tonight I found her crying after talking to him over the phone and it seems he is upset about the whole situation.

You mean there are still no apps that can help students report these sorts of imbeciles to this day?

OP, do the students have a chat forum where she can record her conversations with the lecturer and have him exposed on there for all to see — without her image of course.

1Sharon:
Do randy lecturers pester girls that know their onions academically?

What does that mean? Whether she does or does not, no lecturer should make such advancements toward a student.

Kobojunkie:
You mean there are still no apps that can help students report these sorts of imbeciles to this day?

OP, do the students have a chat forum where she can record her conversations with the lecturer and have him exposed on there for all to see — without her image of course.

I thought about the negative results of exposing it

1Sharon:
Do randy lecturers pester girls that know their onions academically?

Well, she’s pretty intelligent.

manee2:
■ I thought about the negative results of exposing it

Is there any positive to not exposing the teacher at this point in time? I ask because if she does not give him anyways, her grades are already at risk, right? So, if she at least collects evidence beginning now against him then should he decide to fail her, she can wield it when the time comes.

Kobojunkie:
What does that mean? Whether she does or does not, no lecturer should make such advancements toward a student.

I know but girls that don't perform that well are more vulnerable

1Sharon:
■ I know but girls that don't perform that well are more vulnerable

How is that her fault? Predators are just that predators and the victims shouldn't ever be made to feel guilty in any way.

Blupen969:
There is no polite way my dear but let me ask is she a virgin? if no then make she use fvck kill the lecturer if not she go the that school for 16years and 2months for a 4years course

Another inmate don escape from yaba left again

So if you gave birth to daughters and they are not virgin and facing same situation, they should be fvcking lecturers right? You can as well to kúkú sleep with every dicck and Harry that comes their way ehnnn

Will you accept same advice or give such advice if it was your family or your own daughter?

You are the man one unfortunate lady is waiting to marry you sha....

manee2:
I really can't give the best advice to my 24-year-old sister struggling with the frustrations of a married professor in his late 40s who wants to have a sexual affair with her.

The lecturer handles two different courses, each having a three-credit load and she is afraid of being failed for not complying with his sexual advances.

Having given many excuses for not meeting up for a date and refusing his gifts, tonight I found her crying after talking to him over the phone and it seems he is upset about the whole situation.

Very simple matter... let her agree to his proposal

Set an appointment at a place

Go barracks arrange like 4 soldiers they will be in the venue but on code... wait for the Man to start making his sexual advances to d lady...then d army guys goanna take care of the rest.. but no beating him just serious threat's


Trust me he won't disturb your sister again

She should set him up in a hotel with police waiting outside.simple,she should keep whatsapp chat evidence

Blupen969:
There is no polite way my dear but let me ask is she a virgin? if no then make she use fvck kill the lecturer if not she go the that school for 16years and 2months for a 4years course

Please delete this rub**

Wait until you have a grown up daughter who will be in such position in future
Then you can give her this advice as a father

Kobojunkie:
You mean there are still no apps that can help students report these sorts of imbeciles to this day?

OP, do the students have a chat forum where she can record her conversations with the lecturer and have him exposed on there for all to see — without her image of course.

SmileDance:
which school, what is the name of the lecturer, he will be sorry soon

if she tried that she will never graduate forever.
see some people are above the laws of the school and of Nigeria until you come across such people you will understand how useless our laws are in nigeria

DenreleDave:


So if you gave birth to daughters and they were disvirgined and facing same situation, they should be fvcking lecturers right?

Will you accept same advice or give such advice if it was your family or your own daughter?

Obviously, you are part of the rot that needs to be cut off.........

actually some people don't think when they dish out advices.. they just open their mouth like foolish people .. when I read what he typed, I was just dumbfounded.. most people are actually fools.. they just need someone to tell them...

OP, let your sister tell the lecturer she's engaged as someone as suggested, and if she's the type that wears seductive clothes, she should stop... or let her get enough evidences as someone else suggested and do the needful.. stupid lecturers like that needs to be taught a lesson... but I hope your sister is saying the whole truth to you!

Redoil:
if she tried that she will never graduate forever.
see some people are above the laws of the school and of Nigeria until you come across such people you will understand how useless our laws are in nigeria

why do I think you are the lecturer

Your sister should study harder than she ever did in her life, not just the courses that the lecturer is handling, but also other courses to protect herself from other gang members of the lecturer. If the lecturer fails her for what she knows she was successful at, she can always apply to the school for remark and involve human rights organisations\activists, independent lecturers will be the ones the school will assign to remark her scripts, that is why she must work harder than before because her knowledge base will then determine whether she passes or not.

SmileDance:
why do I think you are the lecturer

Why do i think you are the lady?

Nigeria is full with sexual predators