I am in a long distance relationship but despite that i am having a mad, serious crush/likeness or whatever you want to call it on my co worker. We flirt, talk, gist about other girls, my boyfriend, insult each other, fight all the time and I know the type of person he is, we are too close for a relationship but despite these, I am having a serious crush on him.

I found that out especially when we were all in the office talking and he talked about trying to get with a girl and we were all laughing about it but deep inside me, I felt hurt. Why is that and what can i do about it to stop these mad feelings

Pls help

Its normal
try 2 mk it feel lyk he means nottin 2 u

^^ Obohiagbon?

[size=14pt]^^^Huh? [/size]

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^^^ [size=14pt]Is that you? What's your trouser waistline doing there? [/size]

Sexkillz, u tryin to be incognegro?

SAFO:

Sexkillz, u tryin to be incognegro?

[size=14pt]Why's everyone calling me sexkillz?[/size]

~Mikael~:

^^^ [size=14pt]Is that you? What's your trouser waistline doing there? [/size]

See u. dey there dey show your fashion cluelessness
Belle-waist na the in-thing today

~Mikael~:

[size=14pt]Why's everyone calling me sexkillz?[/size]

cos its so damn obvious

Connoisseur:

cos its so damn obvious

[size=14pt]What do you mean damn obvious? Who is sexkillz? [/size]

2buff:

See u. dey there dey show your fashion cluelessness
Belle-waist na the in-thing today

[size=14pt]Hell no bro! Belle-waist na fashion preposterousness, which should be dealt away with instantaneously! Look at that picture slowly, and tell me if you like what you see! The man looks like someone from the 1800's!

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~Mikael~:

^^^ [size=14pt]Is that you? What's your trouser waistline doing there? [/size]

Dear poster, you can't control feelings but you must wonder if this "crush" is in the other way, and if so is is worthy? because we can have crush but as for me I couldn't jump on a crush like that forgetting my relation even though if it's a long distance one

We always know what we lost but we don't know what we get

its so obvious how some nairalanders cannot hide their identity no mata d username they come up wit because they r obviously known for usin a certain set of repeated vocabs! Smh. After dem don make wahala wit their previous username finish and possibly gets banned! Nonsence! Small boi

Boyloaf:

its so obvious how some nairalanders cannot hide their identity no mata d username they come up wit because they r obviously known for usin a certain set of repeated vocabs! Smh. After dem don make wahala wit their previous username finish and possibly gets banned! Nonsence! Small boi

@ OP
Though your relationship needs nurturing , You may want to ask yourself why you are feeling this way towards this guy, probe deeper within yourself, If its just a crush thats ok , kill it and concentrate on your guy, but be honest with yourself it may also mean you no longer feel strongly about your guy and if this is so , it may be due to distance or due to being infatuated with him and thinking it was true love.

Above all remember you are not married , dating period is to find compatibility and it is better to marry the one you truly love (When all is said and done ,it is your life) .

^^ Are you saying Lacrissa should fornicate?

^^-- Nah. I didn't propose any solution. I just stated the cause of "the problem".

^^ The manner in which you stated it prompts at this "solution".

^ Seen.

~Mikael~:

[size=14pt]What do you mean damn obvious? Who is sexkillz? [/size]

i dont know who sexkillz is obviously but i do know sexkillz is to nairaland what sidney sheldon is to the literary world.

Or better still, sexkillz is to nairaland what obahigbon (whatever his name is) is to the legislature

plz make una no break my rips Ohhhh. . . . english formulation

Lacrissa:

I am in a long distance relationship but despite that i am having a mad, serious crush/likeness or whatever you want to call it on my co worker. We flirt, talk, gist about other girls, my boyfriend, insult each other, fight all the time and I know the type of person he is, we are too close for a relationship but despite these, I am having a serious crush on him.

I found that out especially when we were all in the office talking and he talked about trying to get with a girl and we were all laughing about it but deep inside me, I felt hurt. Why is that and what can i do about it to stop these mad feelings

Pls help

I think such emotions are very normal and are because you miss your boyfriend. This shows you are actually not meant for a long-distance relationship. OP, I'd suggest you tell your boyfriend off and take your time to find someone around your end who'd take care of you as much as your bf has done. Try a close-distance relationship; that might be what you are meant for.

@ Poster:
Its normal, don't worry about it, you are a woman and women are pre-programmed to be jealous
However, it is also obvious that you are getting dangerously hornny, enough to succumb to temptation (or shall I say lust for this person); which isn't more than what your five fingers (or little rabbit ) could keep at bay till you can reunite with your bf.

And after u fall for him, Or he sleeps with u- What then? The covering will leave your eye & you find out you dont love him, it was all LUST? That your unsuspecting boyfriend is the one you wanna be with? Wat u are feeling is not rocket science. Others have gone through that and past it. He is always there, you talk all the time, so the closeness was bound to happen. But the maturity lies in you not allowing it to becloud your sense of reasoning. Time to create a distance between you and any temptation.