Okay, I have this neighbor who has four cars in his garage but has this particular sibling who comes to take his kids to and from school whenever he’s not in town.

This brother takes public transport to work and hs brother who has spare cars don’t seem to care.

Methinks it’d be nice if he’s offered one of the cars even if he has to pay for it (by installment).

What do you think?

Here’s the other prt.

I once spoke with the guy and he said he’d asked his brother for a car one time but his brother said he’d need to discuss it with his wife first. But after waiting for months without reply, he gave up and moved on.

I will not judge anyone decision but I cannot have 4 cars and my brother will be trekking

Meanwhile, as for the guy you are talking about, do you know the trekking brother can maintain a car? To maintain a car no be small, ordinary servicing now na money. What about the fueling?

It depends on understanding and character

If I have anyone either siblings or friends that always say let me " discuss with my wife first " I will never relate with him again for life.

9jabox:
Here’s the other prt.

I once spoke with the guy and he said he’d asked his brother for a car one time but his brother said he’d need to discuss it with his wife first. But after waiting for months without reply, he gave up and moved on.

A lot of factors should be considered. You're not a family member so u may not really understand. Try to mind your business please

No.

madridguy:
If I have anyone either siblings or friends that always say let me " discuss with my wife first " I will never relate with him again for life.

It's good to discuss with u wife. Women have a way of spotting bad things that might happen in future unlike men

I will not argue with you but any man taking permission to help his siblings/relative/friends from his wife will not be considered a man.
This is my opinion and i will stand by it till my last breath.

nedu666:


It's good to discuss with u wife. Women have a way of spotting bad things that might happen in future unlike men

It is very common. Go check the poor life the immediate family of the so called rich men live. You need to have your own money and stop seeing your rich brothers as stingy even if they are truly stingy

9jabox:
Okay, I have this neighbor who has four cars in his garage but has this particular sibling who comes to take his kids to and from school whenever he’s not in town.

This brother takes public transport to work and hs brother who has spare cars don’t seem to care.

Methinks it’d be nice if he’s offered one of the cars even if he has to pay for it (by installment).

What do you think?

Naso life be.

Allan for him self
..

9jabox:
Okay, I have this neighbor who has four cars in his garage but has this particular sibling who comes to take his kids to and from school whenever he’s not in town.
This brother takes public transport to work and hs brother who has spare cars don’t seem to care.
Methinks it’d be nice if he’s offered one of the cars even if he has to pay for it (by installment).
What do you think?

just because a person has 4 cars and his sibling is catching the bus, does NOT mean anything. how do you know that brotha hasnt bought a car for his sibling? how do you know if that brotha hasnt given his siblings way more than a car? looking at it from the outside is wrong, and if you think that a man's success means he must hand over whatever he has built, simply because someone aint got it, then you are wrong.
some people have cars yet are renting their homes while some are taking public transport but are homeowners. stop assuming anything.

the 1st queston you need to ask the brotha IS: WHY CANT YOU GET YOURSELF YOUR OWN CAR?!

BTW giving a car to someone who cant even take care of themselves, let alone a bicycle, is unwise.

Neighbor or yourself..

That's self entitlement, hustle smartly and buy your own car

If he or she can't drive, he or she will trek or use public transportation

9jabox:
Okay, I have this neighbor who has four cars in his garage but has this particular sibling who comes to take his kids to and from school whenever he’s not in town.

This brother takes public transport to work and hs brother who has spare cars don’t seem to care.

Methinks it’d be nice if he’s offered one of the cars even if he has to pay for it (by installment).

What do you think?

And drive the car with water?

Do you know the price of a liter of petrol?

Not normal giving a car as gift support him to grow & buy one for himself when is capable

Parachoko:
If he or she can't drive, he or she will trek or use public transportation

Go up and read again. Where did you see that he can’t drive?

jmoore:

And drive the car with water?

Do you know the price of a liter of petrol?

When did they increase the price of PMS?

I’m talking about something that has been going on for over 2yrs.

helinues:
Neighbor or yourself..

That's self entitlement, hustle smartly and buy your own car

Shey na everybody go make money for this life abi?

Shey no be people God dey use raise other people?

African witchcraft don start 😅..go and work for your own car

If my brother has four cars and I don't, well it's his property if he decides to give me, I will be grateful, but if I have 4 cars and my brother doesn't have any.....I will gift him one, if it's a car he cannot maintain.....I will buy another one for him.

madridguy:
If I have anyone either siblings or friends that always say let me " discuss with my wife first " I will never relate with him again for life.

You are exploitative be that , why don't you want people to discuss with their wives ?

I am not exploitative its just me. I see men doing so as lesser men i swear.

SalamRushdie:


You are exploitative be that , why don't you want people to discuss with their wives ?

madridguy:
I am not exploitative its just me. I see men doing so as lesser men i swear.

Na this kind person dey answer yes ma yes ma to his wife but form superman outside.

9jabox:
Okay, I have this neighbor who has four cars in his garage but has this particular sibling who comes to take his kids to and from school whenever he’s not in town.

This brother takes public transport to work and hs brother who has spare cars don’t seem to care.

Methinks it’d be nice if he’s offered one of the cars even if he has to pay for it (by installment).

What do you think?

If you can't buy a car by yourself, you don't deserve too be given one. It will be a burden to you. Cars are not cheap to maintain. What the brother need is to learn a trade so that the rich brother will support him to grow. Car is a big liability to some.

madridguy:
I am not exploitative its just me. I see men doing so as lesser men i swear.

Then Stop seeking help from people. How can you ask me for help and i discuss it with my beloved wife your business?

Who is seeking help from you?

VTJN:
Then Stop seeking help from people. How can you ask me for help and i discuss it with my beloved wife your business?

nedu666:


It's good to discuss with u wife. Women have a way of spotting bad things that might happen in future unlike men

which bad thing?

Same woman that will happily give his own brother from those cars if need be

madridguy:
Who is seeking help from you?

Stop seeking help from anyone. Especially married couple.

He doesn't owe his brother a car, but he could help him finance his business or whatever he is into to make his life a lot more easy.