Hi everyone,
I actually want to know if a guy of
29-30years of age can go into a relationship with a lady of 22-23years old.
I am actually the guy, when she asked of my age I told her 27 and that was after I knew that she's 22years. She's kind of mature and intelligent, she is going for NYSC next batch and she'll be 23years next year January.

I completed my service year last year too, she told me that she had already promised herself that anyone she says Yes to after she graduates, the guy will be her last guy(get married to).

Do you think I can go into a relationship with her because of her age? She is still very young and she might not be considering marriage anytime soon.

We have not started dating tho, but from everything she has been saying, it is certain we'd date.
I just need your advice.

Ok

The age difference is ok but make sure that you have the financial muscle because dating a girl that's just graduating in Nigeria is like adopting a child.

Her to know her better first before starting relationship.

When it's come to age cheating, I don't know who dey lie pass between Nigeria ladies and African footballers

but why you lied to her in d first place?

Enter motor first,fasten your seat belt well.... before you begin ask "where love final bus-stop" dey.

Nigerian bannies are usually terrible liars when telling guys their real age .

But baba op,if that's her true age,I don't think that's a problem... Because I remember and knows that's the same age range between my dad and my mom......

OMO ODE

Daddyseun1:
OMO ODE

I can't take you serious because I don't beat ladies like u did.

dboY1123:
Hi everyone,
I actually want to know if a guy of
29-30years of age can go into a relationship with a lady of 22-23years old.
I am actually the guy, when she asked of my age I told her 27 and that was after I knew that she's 22years. She's kind of mature and intelligent, she is going for NYSC next batch and she'll be 23years next year January.

I completed my service year last year too, she told me that she had already promised herself that anyone she says Yes to after she graduates, the guy will be her last guy(get married to).

Do you think I can go into a relationship with her because of her age? She is still very young and she might not be considering marriage anytime soon.

We have not started dating tho, but from everything she has been saying, it is certain we'd date.
I just need your advice.

At your age , education.
You ain't wise.

Spit

Daddyseun1:


At your age , education.
You ain't wise.

Spit

Your opinion is not needed, Mr woman beater.
Leave this page and go and learn how you can manage your anger issue.
Obviously, u need a psychotherapist.

you want to be in a relationship with a university girl? thats you and like 40 other guys, dude you are 29,if you are looking for a serious relationship right now,i would suggest you go for a girl who is done with her nysc or has a business she is running. i dont know your financial status but most girls at age 22 are in the early stages of their hoeing phase,all they crave is money,sex and luxury,at this point their target is to get a dangote or otedola so they can be using you as their safe zone, while they are busy looking for bigger connection, maybe you can handle that but please avoid looking into her whatsapp chat,also chances are she would always delete them. at the age she is now while she is going out with you, if she is a baddie her eyes are scattered over the place,i just help you pray she is a civilian.on the 10% chance she might be an angel of your life.i am giving you an online advice you are 29 you don see things, its not totally safe to be in a relationship with a girl that young,you can just be friends with benefits, serious relationship pick girls around 26 and above, then you would feel the difference in their sensitivity and maturity,na women were don chop life and are now ready to settle down.

madscientist88:
you want to be in a relationship with a university girl? thats you and like 40 other guys, dude you are 29,if you are looking for a serious relationship right now,i would suggest you go for a girl who is done with her nysc or has a business she is running. i dont know your financial status but most girls at age 22 are in the early stages of their hoeing phase,all they crave is money,sex and luxury,at this point their target is to get a dangote or otedola so they can be using you as their safe zone, while they are busy looking for bigger connection, maybe you can handle that but please avoid looking into her whatsapp chat,also chances are she would always delete them. at the age she is now while she is going out with you, if she is a baddie her eyes are scattered over the place,i just help you pray she is a civilian.on the 10% chance she might be an angel of your life.i am giving you an online advice you are 29 you don see things, its not totally safe to be in a relationship with a girl that young,you can just be friends with benefits, serious relationship pick girls around 26 and above, then you would feel the difference in their sensitivity and maturity,na women were don chop life and are now ready to settle down.

God bless you sir.. I have also thought so much on this.
When I asked her, she said she is fine with guys BTW 25-30years.. And that is d last guy she wants to date and get married to.
She also said she'll marry in 2to 3 years..
She's not the hoeing kinda girls, she's a very decent and godly lady.
I know her elder brother very well, he's my former teacher.. So I know her.

What I'm just concerned about is , age wise, is the gap not too much? My dad senior my.mum with almost 20years.. But u know time has changed.
I want a young girl or 23/24, I want a committed relationship and I think that's wat she wants as well..

We have so many things in common,
1. We are both from same State of origin
2. We studied same course(I no no her before o)
3. We both last borns 😂
4. Both Christians
5. Both want a committed relationship
Everything just align.

So what do u think? Afterall marriage is not something of haste and no late comer.

dboY1123:


Your opinion is not needed, Mr woman beater.
Leave this page and go and learn how you can manage your anger issue.
Obviously, u need a psychotherapist.

Woman dey brainwashed you, at your age, and exposure,

Someone like you fit commit suicide because of one low life hookup girl,

That's what I see

dboY1123:


God bless you sir.. I have also thought so much on this.
When I asked her, she said she is fine with guys BTW 25-30years.. And that is d last guy she wants to date and get married to.
She also said she'll marry in 2to 3 years..
She's not the hoeing kinda girls, she's a very decent and godly lady.
I know her elder brother very well, he's my former teacher.. So I know her.

What I'm just concerned about is , age wise, is the gap not too much? My dad senior my.mum with almost 20years.. But u know time has changed.
I want a young girl or 23/24, I want a committed relationship and I think that's wat she wants as well..

We have so many things in common,
1. We are both from same State of origin
2. We studied same course(I no no her before o)
3. We both last borns 😂
4. Both Christians
5. Both want a committed relationship
Everything just align.

So what do u think? Afterall marriage is not something of haste and no late comer.

This your first time inlove
I pity your mama

The younger the better sha.

dboY1123:


God bless you sir.. I have also thought so much on this.
When I asked her, she said she is fine with guys BTW 25-30years.. And that is d last guy she wants to date and get married to.
She also said she'll marry in 2to 3 years..
She's not the hoeing kinda girls, she's a very decent and godly lady.
I know her elder brother very well, he's my former teacher.. So I know her.

What I'm just concerned about is , age wise, is the gap not too much? My dad senior my.mum with almost 20years.. But u know time has changed.
I want a young girl or 23/24, I want a committed relationship and I think that's wat she wants as well..

We have so many things in common,
1. We are both from same State of origin
2. We studied same course(I no no her before o)
3. We both last borns 😂
4. Both Christians
5. Both want a committed relationship
Everything just align.

So what do u think? Afterall marriage is not something of haste and no late comer.

okay why not try a universal means to know if she is your soul mate? below are two screen shot of some biorhythm apps the first is the most accurate biorhythm app available i know so far,u can use it to check your compatibility status,the second screenshot is another biorhythm app, while it is not accurate it contains certain important features such as numerology,you can use that to check your life path numbers and destiny number compatibility,we are all numbers and numbers make the universe good luck

Oga, from your narrative, she said she wants you to be the last guy (she wants to settle down). This insinuates that she has been into different relationships in the past & it implies that her kpekus has been vandalized by different kinds of gbola. She might even be knacking other gbolas while in relationship with her exes. Are you comfortable with that.?
Secondly, you said she's going for NYSC, do you know how many gbola go dey knack her during the NYSC?
Of course you won't be there with her to, so she will most likely be drilled by different preeks while you are naively waiting for her to finish & come back for marriage.
She will meet different kinds of guys who may be better than you during her service & some or most of them fit dey knack am.
If she deems one of her fuuckkers a better option for marriage, she will ruthlessly dump your ass.
Hope you are not foolishly investing heavily in her?
Be smart bro, think like a man

Daddyseun1:


Woman dey brainwashed you, at your age, and exposure,

Someone like you fit commit suicide because of one low life hookup girl,

That's what I see

You're saying at my age, but at your own miserable age, you are not mature enough to criticise someone or even advice someone without being insultive?

If you don't have anything relevant or meaningful to say, you can just pass and u necessarily do not have to showcase your stupidity sorry to say.

I need mature advice from reasonable individuals here... No wonder people use to say that kids are too much on nairaland

dboY1123:
Hi everyone,
I actually want to know if a guy of
29-30years of age can go into a relationship with a lady of 22-23years old.
I am actually the guy, when she asked of my age I told her 27 and that was after I knew that she's 22years. She's kind of mature and intelligent, she is going for NYSC next batch and she'll be 23years next year January.

I completed my service year last year too, she told me that she had already promised herself that anyone she says Yes to after she graduates, the guy will be her last guy(get married to).

Do you think I can go into a relationship with her because of her age? She is still very young and she might not be considering marriage anytime soon.

We have not started dating tho, but from everything she has been saying, it is certain we'd date.
I just need your advice.

This guy is still trying to get married

Uptheante:
Oga, from your narrative, she said she wants you to be the last guy (she wants to settle down). This insinuates that she has been into different relationships in the past & it implies that her kpekus has been vandalized by different kinds of gbola. She might even be knacking other gbolas while in relationship with her exes. Are you comfortable with that.?
Secondly, you said she's going for NYSC, do you know how many gbola go dey knack her during the NYSC?
Of course you won't be there with her to, so she will most likely be drilled by different preeks while you are naively waiting for her to finish & come back for marriage.
She will meet different kinds of guys who may be better than you during her service & some or most of them fit dey knack am.
If she deems one of her fuuckkers a better option for marriage, she will ruthlessly dump your ass.
Hope you are not foolishly investing heavily in her?
Be smart bro, think like a man

I don't put all my eggs in one basket, its just that she's the type of lady I want
The thing is, not all ladies are olosho..some girls are still decent.
And I haven't spent a dime on her and neither has she ever asked for anything from me.
If u don't trust a girl how do you take her serious in a relationship? You have to trust her and be vigilant.

Hi

dboY1123:
Hi everyone,
I actually want to know if a guy of
29-30years of age can go into a relationship with a lady of 22-23years old.
I am actually the guy, when she asked of my age I told her 27 and that was after I knew that she's 22years. She's kind of mature and intelligent, she is going for NYSC next batch and she'll be 23years next year January.

I completed my service year last year too, she told me that she had already promised herself that anyone she says Yes to after she graduates, the guy will be her last guy(get married to).

Do you think I can go into a relationship with her because of her age? She is still very young and she might not be considering marriage anytime soon.

We have not started dating tho, but from everything she has been saying, it is certain we'd date.
I just need your advice.

When do you intend to get married? Is it in the next 2-3 years too?
Do you have a work that you are doing presently? Love is not enough either in relationships or marriage.
The age difference doesn't matter since she is not getting married now....To make things easy for you make sure she get something doing immediately she finished NYSC.
Is she someone you can trust when she go for service?

The age gap is too small sef, heaven knows I can't date someone less than 35 years, I don't have strength for an immature man's drama.

Nwodosis:
The age difference is ok but make sure that you have the financial muscle because dating a girl that's just graduating in Nigeria is like adopting a child.

dboY1123:


God bless you sir.. I have also thought so much on this.
When I asked her, she said she is fine with guys BTW 25-30years.. And that is d last guy she wants to date and get married to.
She also said she'll marry in 2to 3 years..
She's not the hoeing kinda girls, she's a very decent and godly lady.
I know her elder brother very well, he's my former teacher.. So I know her.

What I'm just concerned about is , age wise, is the gap not too much? My dad senior my.mum with almost 20years.. But u know time has changed.
I want a young girl or 23/24, I want a committed relationship and I think that's wat she wants as well..

We have so many things in common,
1. We are both from same State of origin
2. We studied same course(I no no her before o)
3. We both last borns 😂
4. Both Christians
5. Both want a committed relationship
Everything just align.

So what do u think? Afterall marriage is not something of haste and no late comer.

The age gap is not too wide however, if you have not yet stabilized yourself financially it would not be a good idea for you to tie her down!

dboY1123:


I don't put all my eggs in one basket, its just that she's the type of lady I want
The thing is, not all ladies are olosho..some girls are still decent.
And I haven't spent a dime on her and neither has she ever asked for anything from me.
If u don't trust a girl how do you take her serious in a relationship? You have to trust her and be vigilant.

Just know that she won't remain the way you want her to be after service

dboY1123:
Hi everyone,
I actually want to know if a guy of
29-30years of age can go into a relationship with a lady of 22-23years old.
I am actually the guy, when she asked of my age I told her 27 and that was after I knew that she's 22years. She's kind of mature and intelligent, she is going for NYSC next batch and she'll be 23years next year January.

I completed my service year last year too, she told me that she had already promised herself that anyone she says Yes to after she graduates, the guy will be her last guy(get married to).

Do you think I can go into a relationship with her because of her age? She is still very young and she might not be considering marriage anytime soon.

We have not started dating tho, but from everything she has been saying, it is certain we'd date.
I just need your advice.

Me and you know say the relationship nor fit last, you just wan knack the banny kpekus jand abi

Uptheante:

Just know that she won't remain the way you want her to be after service

Bad guys go don palash her scatter😹

Uptheante:

Just know that she won't remain the way you want her to be after service

Hmm

What do u mean sir?

Kobicove:


The age gap is not too wide however, if you have not yet stabilized yourself financially it would not be a good idea for you to tie her down!

No, I'm not tying her down.. Infact I want her to do everything by herself. I just dont want to waste my time with someone and later break up.

dboY1123:


Hmm

What do u mean sir?

Many guys go drill her kpekus for where she dey go service. She may become addicted to those preeks & you will become irritating to her & she will lose regard for you because you can't measure up to Wale's long preek, Emeka's fat cock or Musa's uncircumcised preek. Not to talk of numerous bj & swallowing of nut wey she go dey do over there.
You know, bad men no dey use eye see fresh corper
Na Nigerian girl she be & there's a very high possibility of her succumbing to various guys either because of money, bling bling lifestyle, emotional support etc.
Even some married women get fuccked by bad guys during 2 weeks orientation camp, not to talk of single girl wey go stay away for 1 year.

All these are the reasons why I said, she may not come back the same