Mindlog:


The percentage that get back to the education pathway (many of the adolescent brides didn't make it past the primary level of education) is very insignificant in comparison to those that don't.

Realistically, at age 20 with 3 children.....there is little or no motivation to re-engage in formal western education though they may have a chance at that, if they are married to men are financially comfortable and liberal enough to get her back to school while making provisions for those who would help her care for the children,

How many women in the rural areas of the Southern part of Nigeria choose the educational part?

Y’all need to stop this one sided criticism. Rural areas in Nigeria often have unconventional practices, North or South.

revived2:
Bizarre


Things dae sup for this life

I swear

bukatyne:


Not excusing them but the teenage wife can go to school after childbirth. That's what most of the notable Northern women did.

Go to which school?

Mindlog:
They see nothing wrong in their daughters being teenage wives and still expect to have female doctors to attend to their females!

its poverty and illiteracy.
You think el rufai will let his daughter marry at 14??

It’s just crazy the level of reasoning in the north. You fit puke

IconicR:
Honestly I'll prefer a female doctor, I don't think I can ever stand a male doctor touching me all in the name of delivery , I'll arrange everything, I can't ooooooo. The girl is even underage

pray you don't have obstructed labour browse the word tomato vulva..shoulder dystoicia. APH Or even eclampsia.

IconicR:
That's why I said I'll arrange before hand because after every ehn it's going to affect me real bad. There are female doctors everywhere

Don't say everywhere.
Where do you even see male doctor in Nigeria let alone female doctors being in everywhere?

The article even said where the. "child" went to to deliver her child ,there was no single female doctor.Hence,the main reason she was attended to by a male doctor.

bukatyne:


14yrs is too young to have a baby.

I hope she doesn't have VVF and other complications in future. In the interim, the women advocate should care for the mother & child and enable her to continue her schooling or any trade of choice.

Their religion has stipulations on divorce though I doubt a male doctor attending to a wife is part of it.

I think she and her family should see the light in the situation: she is free from the clutches of a mad man who would marry a 12 - 13yr old.

Bingo!

Northern na Dey drag this country BACKWARDS 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

Nice.

talented321:
That toto wey you dey die for'' they buy motor, pay pride price and vice versa
Ur doctor go do that toto anyhow' sometimes go put his full hand inside'' sometimes they finger her'' sometimes put sharp objects inside and sometimes put his head inside all in the name of delivery'' then after every thing u are the one to pay him for disorganizing your woman s pussssssy''
Stop doing like toto will solve any problem for u.

Childbirth na messy affair o. The Doctor go manhandle the Toto WotoWoto.

If the baby's head is too big to come out during delivery, the doctor will use scissors to cut the Toto to allow the baby's head to come out and after delivery the doctor will sew the toto with needle and thread. Lobatan !!!

talented321:
That toto wey you dey die for'' they buy motor, pay pride price and vice versa
Ur doctor go do that toto anyhow' sometimes go put his full hand inside'' sometimes they finger her'' sometimes put sharp objects inside and sometimes put his head inside all in the name of delivery'' then after every thing u are the one to pay him for disorganizing your woman s pussssssy''
Stop doing like toto will solve any problem for u.
'''With My INNOCENT Loud''

Go and watch child birth videos on YouTube and see if you don't vomit. You'll see how doctors are really enjoying the "toto" with all the blood, the baby's head and the 💩 that comes out of the woman's body during childbirth.

Also, the fact that the "wife" is a 14 year old and you made such a comment makes me know how poor your orientation is.

I pity the wife wey go marry you.

cococandy:
That’s all you got out of this?

what do you expect from an invalid whose brain has been further corroded by substance abuse?

See insanity!
Those are people with wrong religious ideology.
Just imagine afgahnistan that preventing the female to get to their desire educational field, yet they want female doctors to attend to their wives and daughters.

In sane society, marriage and having children do not debar female achieving their desired educational target in life.

Kobojunkie:
The girl was actually 14-years old? So at 14, she is now divorced and with child?

Shortage of medical workers? And this is an activist for women’s rights? I am speechless here.

one idiot will tell you that feminism had served it's cause because women can now go to school.
Just continue to speak on women's right and you will be called victimhood gender

Males comment are scarce on this thread but they can swallow you or assume you are Hitler for requesting for urgent 2k or asking for money weeks after meeting them. That is obviously worse than pedophilia to them.

Even if she wasn't a minor,let us all acknowledge what a male ego can cause,and she how women are demonized for allowing their hypergamy cloud their decision to stay with a man,wheras men are permitted to let their ego cloud their decision to stay with or be with a woman. We are not ready for the discussion on the egoistic nature of men. But we are always ready for the discussion of "women being emotional beings loyal to their feelings"

Treepower2000:


Imagine the irony.
And divorcing a teenager for being attended to by a male doctor.

They don't want their girls to get education but want female doctors to attend to their wives. Epic buffoonery!

Mindlog:
They see nothing wrong in their daughters being teenage wives and still expect to have female doctors to attend to their females!

The madness is unprecedented

That so called women rights activist should be ashamed instead,talking of child abuse of 14 years old girl married off to a man old enough to be her father ,you are supporting the evil to ensure female doctors equality employment .
The man should be arrested for child abuse

She better go sue for alimony. It would suck to be left without nothing after this ordeal.

Blue3k:
She better go sue for alimony. It would suck to be left without nothing after this ordeal.

Divorce no easy for grown men and women to handle— sometimes the thing dey scatter brain and bowel—, na 14-year-old girl wey her bones never hard finish go come fit dey carry heart go dey pursue alimony left and right?

bukatyne:


14yrs is too young to have a baby.

I hope she doesn't have VVF and other complications in future. In the interim, the women advocate should care for the mother & child and enable her to continue her schooling or any trade of choice.

Their religion has stipulations on divorce though I doubt a male doctor attending to a wife is part of it.

I think she and her family should see the light in the situation: she is free from the clutches of a mad man who would marry a 12 - 13yr old.

I quite agreed with you.The husband must be mad.He forgot that the there's a possibility of having female child in future, would she be happy if a would be husband to her daughter does same thing to his daughter?. That is where the golden rules in came in-"DO UNTO OTHERS WHAT YOU WANT THEM DO UNTO YOU"

I was expecting to read a part where they advocate against underage marriage and poor medical attention that lead to complications initially instead they're more concerned about the gender of the doctor that saved her and the baby's life from possible mortality. I no even know who to blame cos this matter tire me I swear

Someone's sister, daughter and child. Impregnated and married at 14 still the husband is carelessly trying to kill her

I am confused at times when I read things like this. The Islam in Northern Nigeria is it different from the Islam in Morocco, Tunisia, Gambia, even in core Arab countries like Iran, Iraq, Quatar, Lebanon or even Southern Nigeria...I don't get it.
I believe that it is more of a cultural thing than a religious thing because we have seen Muslims from other climes nah!
Even a 20 year old girl small for my eyes talk less of a 14 year old girl...no be say dem dey even gather body like some 14 year old girls in the South... mtchew

Mindlog:
They see nothing wrong in their daughters being teenage wives and still expect to have female doctors to attend to their females!

How exactly does marriage stop woman from being educated.

Luckysbab:


How many women in the rural areas of the Southern part of Nigeria choose the educational part?

Y’all need to stop this one sided criticism. Rural areas in Nigeria often have unconventional practices, North or South.

We know but no be to marry at the age of 14 nah!... can a girl at 14 that's not in school in Delta, Edo, Plateau, Imo or even Kwara and Taraba get married? You self reason am nah!

The North is 200yrs behind.

Jesse6:
This is one thing I have been facing as a Community Nurse, The part of the country where I live people around won't let you associate with a female patient especially during labour even in emergency cases. It's quite really unfortunate tbh

Nothing unfortunate there.
The number of female medical doctors these days in different schools is greater than male students.
Some of the male health workers are actually perverts. I HAVE HEARD STORIES... I WOULDN'T LIKE A MALE HEALTH WORKER TO ATTEND TO MY WIFE AS WELL EVEN AS A CHRISTIAN!
BUT IT'S RIDICULOUS TO DIVORCE HER ON THAT GROUND. THAT USELESS MAN NEEDS TO BE JAILED.