twosquare:
Has she now been able to give birth?

IconicR:
Second paragraph is where most women get it wrong , how can you not interfere in your husband's dealings? Why then did you marry him if you don't want to interfare in all his dealings. Men are very cunning and manipulative, they will always come up with lines that will give them space for cheating e.g don't pick his calls, don't check his phones, don't question his movements and all that. A relative of mine was doing her traditional wedding and all those elders (men) were busy giving advise that'll enable the man to cheat, each time they give the advise I'll giggle with a bombastic side eyes till my mom stylishly summoned me and took me inside my aunt's room 🤣🤣🤣🤣

tonywonder:


It's going to 4 years and and she hasn't taken in yet!

gabbytabby:
Hopefully the children are for the man cos it happened to my aunt and as far as she knew the man was azoospermia and she was being loyal.

Na so she decided to try her luck and na so she get preggers. DNA proved the children from outside are not his. He asked my aunt not to say her child is not his and the whole malachy and she continued to be loyal and it was after she passed on that he told us her family.

Daddy and daughter are still together and he lives with her and her family.



2 can play at that game and no need to get angry you can't control what others decide to do.


reg

twosquare:
Such a sad tale...lack of money can also delay assisted reproduction treatment...the husband should also check himself too...

I wish I have one superpower to cure such things, and put a smile on the couple's face. Lack of children sometimes makes a sweet love tale grow bitter, especially when the couples want it, except they don't give a f*ck, but most Nigerians don't have such mentality.

I just heard a good news for a couple who married 6 years, God just answered them.

successmatters:


Oh, you even come from a harlot family? No wonder you keep talking like a LovePeddler.

gabbytabby:
Prostitution and drugs na the profession of your linage. Your mama na village harrlot and Papa mpurunmiri love-vendor.

tonywonder:


The husband has done sperm test which Doctors confirm is healthy although the lady has been having ceased menstruation for years😔

fourboys:
are U ok

successmatters:




I must have gotten under your skin, hit a raw valve, but your smell won't let me go further

Nonexisting1:
You will not give him children, he brought in someone who has done what you haven't been able to do even in a greater measure. Twins who are probably boys no be beans. He even respected you enough by putting the egg laying hen very far away from you. Now you, the old hen who probably damaged your womb with abortions are planning to do and undo. Okay then.

Sleekfingers:



Nigeria is the headquarter of paternity fraud in the world.

I have done DNA test for my Sons. Remaining my daughter. Women are good at keeping secrets.
She was angry when she found out that, I did DNA test for my kids. I no even say a word.

cococandy:
Pretty sure you guys believe in “for better or worse” but only where the woman is concerned though.

Following this logic any wife is justified to step out on her husband if she’s not getting what she expected from him when they got married even though it’s no fault of his?

labelle123:
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What if the problem lies with you?

cococandy:
Pretty sure you guys believe in “for better or worse” but only where the woman is concerned though.

Following this logic any wife is justified to step out on her husband if she’s not getting what she expected from him when they got married even though it’s no fault of his?

IconicR:
Second paragraph is where most women get it wrong , how can you not interfere in your husband's dealings? Why then did you marry him if you don't want to interfare in all his dealings. Men are very cunning and manipulative, they will always come up with lines that will give them space for cheating e.g don't pick his calls, don't check his phones, don't question his movements and all that. A relative of mine was doing her traditional wedding and all those elders (men) were busy giving advise that'll enable the man to cheat, each time they give the advise I'll giggle with a bombastic side eyes till my mom stylishly summoned me and took me inside my aunt's room 🤣🤣🤣🤣

LaRosa01:

man pay your bride price,feed you care for you,protect you and not even a child and you think it OK.my dear what are you doing for that man.you step out,I kick you out,go and be another mans problem.

Ategberoson:



I lost a friend on this page, he was married 8yrs nothing to show for it, the only child of his parents though his dad was died for so long, he has accident with no kids, he didn't survive the accident, that trauma killed his mom too


if he had a child wouldn't the family name still exist? a family lost their history because he couldn't check out, he impregnated a lady and force the lady to abort which she did. there are many things that's beyond your understanding, that's destiny

cococandy:
Pretty sure you guys believe in “for better or worse” but only where the woman is concerned though.

Following this logic any wife is justified to step out on her husband if she’s not getting what she expected from him when they got married even though it’s no fault of his?

linearity:


My sister calm down Jesus, married women have been stepping out since infinity, it is nothing new!

I am 100% that, if this man is your brother, you will be the one to introduce the new wife to him sharp sharp.

Let’s not pretend that, we don’t understand our culture and traditions and the pressure that man must have been under.

Plus, he housed and keep his first wife and never neglected her on account of her barrenness.

Nigeria women, una no dey copy better thing from Bible self….Sarah was in a similar situation and he profound a wonderful solution.

Nigeria ladies, God forbid if your marriage is barren be the Sarah in that family, go out and look for a young and delicate young maid for him, that can bear children through her for you, he will worship for eternity.

cococandy:


It’s the way y’all pick and choose which part of the Bible the Bible is applicable for me

If the man is impotent or not virile, can she cheat too? As long as she respects him?

linearity:


You didn’t answer my direct question though, is it because the answer will betray your current position on this issue?

If your blood brother is married to a lady and that marriage has produced zero children, what would you do?

I very well know you will be in the forefront of those making his life unbearable until you get a new wife or get a side-chick pregnant!

cococandy:


So if the woman cares for herself, feeds herself and is not getting what she expected from the man, can she kick him out or is it only applicable to women? For better for worse is only for women?

The reason why I ask these pointed questions is so your answer can be the thing that indicts you. and also the younger girls reading can get a chance to see how the average dude here thinks. That way, they never feel bad about prioritizing themselves in a relationship with people like you guys.

LaRosa01:

NO SHE CANT BECAUSE SHE DOESNT NEED A MAN,WHAT SHE NEEDS IS TO GET HERSELF A WOMAN.for better or worse is why the man didn't divorce her or chase her away.but if you have no child for your husband after 5 years and you are not making arrangements for another woman to try,then you are a witch,quote me.