ugbanante:
Are u really helping ur sister by this? There are NGOs handling such cases. Report to them so a legal action can be taken to help ur sister's condition

Dreamhighnow:


No justification to smell pants. Lmao. He should leave her if he feel so much insecure. Rubbish

Confirm4real:


This is someone that always paint my sister black to everybody including his family members. He's a womanizer that's why he believes my sister might also be cheating.

Rokiat:
Is she in jail serving a prison sentence under federal law that she can’t get out at her free will?

Is her self esteem so law that she don’t know her self worth because make it make sense this ridiculous to say the less.

I have never been slapped by a man before in my life, try it and I am out the door.

What sort of bullshiiit is this? Is this story even real? Why do women allow themselves to be treated like shiiit by men I mean why oooh why?


You birthed these men for God sake, never allow yourself to be tricked or treated like shit by them ever!

blackgold2018:
that’s a very insincere answer..

I ask again. Why did your sister chose to marry him?

BRATISLAVA:


This kind of man would've had loads of red flags. He was not always nice to her. She just never wanted to acknowledge it when it happened.

Confirm4real:
Please this is a serious case she happens to be my younger sister I'm putting this up on her behalf.

1. The husband doesn't give her money for upkeep.

2. Most times he beat her up mercilessly.

3. Disgraced her in the compound by telling a mechanic that she doesn't wear pants.

4. Treat her like rag.

5. Doesn't have regard for my family.

6. Monitor her everywhere and accuse her wrongly of following men, this is someone that they've been married for more than 15yrs and have 4kids together.

7. Always accuse her wrongly of stealing his money.

8. Follow her to the market and pays for any food items she buys.

9. The little money my sister earns as a teacher he will make sure she spends all the money at home.

10. Locks his phone but told my sister to always unlock her own so he will be seeing all her messages and calls. Even put tracker on her phone to monitor her calls.

11. Smells my sister's undies atimes to know if she went to meet a man.

12. There was a time my sister was into restaurant business the husband didn't allow the business to last, he told her customers should not sit down to eat they can only buy and go.

13. He now bought a Sienna he still put tracker to monitor the car and inner tracker to monitor calls inside the car. If he noticed some conversation in the car he will start calling my sister, if she doesn't pick while driving he will start insulting her.

14. He pays the children school fees and house rent with complains. They're living at Ajah.

Although I have reported the case to Human Rights. Please what advice can you give if she's your sister.

Note: They dated long before marriage almost 5yrs, but I wonder why she didn't see those red flags then.

Women should be careful in their choice of selection, most men pretends to be nice during dating but not knowing they're beast in human form.

BRATISLAVA:


This kind of man would've had loads of red flags. He was not always nice to her. She just never wanted to acknowledge it when it happened.

Kajaard:


Very true.

I also find it hard to believe that she dated this animal for 5 years before marriage and never noticed these animalistic traits.

I am forced to think this is another one of those made up tales to drive Nairaland traffic.

CuriousStudent:

In a society that shams women for being divorcees many will endure bad marriages. In the east,if your daughter divorce,you can't even quarrel with a market woman without her using it against you. In an august meeting,a little argument erupted and one woman was subdued because her daughter divorced. Alot of women relocate from communities if their daughters divorce for stigma. If the parents take her back home, the parents will be ostracized.

Omoawoke:
I bet the man has caught her several times cheating. Ask your sister to confess the reason why this started, she has cheated on him and she was caught which drove the man to started acting this way

tctrills:

So how do you know he battered his wife? How do you know he is starving his children? A wise person doesn't just conclude.

Kajaard:


Very true.

I also find it hard to believe that she dated this animal for 5 years before marriage and never noticed these animalistic traits.

I am forced to think this is another one of those made up tales to drive Nairaland traffic.

Confirm4real:


After the outcome of Human Rights I will know the next action to take. Thanks.

Confirm4real:
Please this is a serious case she happens to be my younger sister I'm putting this up on her behalf.

1. The husband doesn't give her money for upkeep.

2. Most times he beat her up mercilessly.

3. Disgraced her in the compound by telling a mechanic that she doesn't wear pants.

4. Treat her like rag.

5. Doesn't have regard for my family.

6. Monitor her everywhere and accuse her wrongly of following men, this is someone that they've been married for more than 15yrs and have 4kids together.

7. Always accuse her wrongly of stealing his money.

8. Follow her to the market and pays for any food items she buys.

9. The little money my sister earns as a teacher he will make sure she spends all the money at home.

10. Locks his phone but told my sister to always unlock her own so he will be seeing all her messages and calls. Even put tracker on her phone to monitor her calls.

11. Smells my sister's undies atimes to know if she went to meet a man.

12. There was a time my sister was into restaurant business the husband didn't allow the business to last, he told her customers should not sit down to eat they can only buy and go.

13. He now bought a Sienna he still put tracker to monitor the car and inner tracker to monitor calls inside the car. If he noticed some conversation in the car he will start calling my sister, if she doesn't pick while driving he will start insulting her.

14. He pays the children school fees and house rent with complains. They're living at Ajah.

Although I have reported the case to Human Rights. Please what advice can you give if she's your sister.

Note: They dated long before marriage almost 5yrs, but I wonder why she didn't see those red flags then.

Women should be careful in their choice of selection, most men pretends to be nice during dating but not knowing they're beast in human form.

Haveyoueatentod:
the man done catch her before the op no write that part.

Confirm4real:
Please this is a serious case she happens to be my younger sister I'm putting this up on her behalf.

1. The husband doesn't give her money for upkeep.

2. Most times he beat her up mercilessly.

3. Disgraced her in the compound by telling a mechanic that she doesn't wear pants.

4. Treat her like rag.

5. Doesn't have regard for my family.

6. Monitor her everywhere and accuse her wrongly of following men, this is someone that they've been married for more than 15yrs and have 4kids together.

7. Always accuse her wrongly of stealing his money.

8. Follow her to the market and pays for any food items she buys.

9. The little money my sister earns as a teacher he will make sure she spends all the money at home.

10. Locks his phone but told my sister to always unlock her own so he will be seeing all her messages and calls. Even put tracker on her phone to monitor her calls.

11. Smells my sister's undies atimes to know if she went to meet a man.

12. There was a time my sister was into restaurant business the husband didn't allow the business to last, he told her customers should not sit down to eat they can only buy and go.

13. He now bought a Sienna he still put tracker to monitor the car and inner tracker to monitor calls inside the car. If he noticed some conversation in the car he will start calling my sister, if she doesn't pick while driving he will start insulting her.

14. He pays the children school fees and house rent with complains. They're living at Ajah.

Although I have reported the case to Human Rights. Please what advice can you give if she's your sister.

Note: They dated long before marriage almost 5yrs, but I wonder why she didn't see those red flags then.

Women should be careful in their choice of selection, most men pretends to be nice during dating but not knowing they're beast in human form.

lummily:
You said your in law told his mechanic that his wife doesn’t wear pant!!.. so what will your sister do? She will run into the house shamefully and weeping? ;DYou and your sister are very very sick!

Karnice600:


I already know the tribe that man comes from but I didn't come up here to spite any tribe.
A guy sometime ago asked a question here about who to marry among several women, with some who had good heads for managing his business... and I asked him to first get a sales girl and then marry her. Its better to turn a sales girl into a wife than a wife into a salesgirl.
Ladies if he showers you with gift, you should also be sensitive to know when he's buying you off the shelf like ketchup and mayonnaise.
He's not civilized but his money is, and so you die put on top him matter.

I can't encourage a divorce but I can encourage thorough prayer and dry fasting for her. Whether he's a smelling pant husband or not, he's the father of her kids. Someone suggested seeing Women welfare stuff. Its a good way to go too.

MS247:
Your sister once cheated on her husband and the childish insecure man is finding it very difficult to trust her back

The man would die of HBP if he doesn't change