, This could be a tough one sometimes, but hanging in there trusting that nothing shady goes on will help a great deal.
Cheers!

Thanks for the response. I agree. I mean if i was with her for 3 months or something and that happened i would have left her. But i have been with this girl for a year and a half. And I know that's nothing. We still have way more time ahead of us. I'll be more serious if we are together for three years or something. But right now i'll just let her gain her trust back and see if she really "loves" me like she promises me.

jez keep her but keep a watchful eye on her ooo

nyash her & go my way

its hard to say my man.

sometimes jealousy clouds our judgment and we fail to pay attention to certain facts.
this friend of hers may be someone who genuinely makes her feel happy. someone who is
so to speak her friend away from the relationship that she can get advice from or just to clown
around with. we all need our space and have friends. i personally would invite my guy to hang out with
myself and my best friend and of course have time for my best friend alone too. its all about balance.

dont get too worked up unless you have FACTS/EVIDENCE that something is going on.

him calling her baby infront of you can mean that that one, he is a douche bag or two that he have been calling
her pet names so long that he fail to remember there is a thing called boundaries and respect. her storming
out following his calling her baby could also mean something too again just talk to her and get the facts. your age difference may also be a reason for your insecurity.

my bestfriend is a guy and he's always the first to be introduced to anyone i date.i use pet names for him and it has never been an hidden fact from any guy i dated and it still didnt give them any reason to doubt it was more than the friendship.you'd need to work on trust issues.
Dont get unnecessarily worked up over this.take your time and build up a little trust.it will get better.

Slimyem,you beat me to that question.

@ Op it could be nothing actually cos I have a male bestie too,I tell him things and its been pretty great so far,we've been friends for more than ten years now.so just learn to trust her but also be careful with her.

If u r not redy to trust right&give d benefit of doubt,i think u r not yet redy 4a relationship,try&work vividly on ur ego,if u continue disturbing urself over matters that r worth over-looking,u wud b causing more pain to urself,which mins u wont be able to get d best of ur relationship.

poster

you are in college now you will have to leave the teenie bopper high school love behind. I mean look in front of you can't you see all of then sweet sweet college girls? by the way do you live in the dorms? or are you a day student?

move to the dorms you would forget that high school senior fast. oh yea when she goes to college trust and beleive she will forget you.

so start hitting that pnssy now so that when she dumps you for either her "best friend" or some other dude in college you wont feel so bad

@OP----dont doubt her yet till she gives you enough reasons to, just be very watchful cos some gals hide under the guise of "best friend" while he is chopping her down.

@ SexKillz or whatever. All right, you are 100% right. Good for you. You can obviously analyze people's problems and tell them the solution in a rude way. But hey it's life right?? So i'm 18 year old ignorant teen. Hey at least i'm admitting it. I have a lot of growing up to do obviously. Sometimes it's better for someone to point out your weaknesses which you have done in a good manner except for the insults and that other unnecessary stuff.
But do you ever analyze your self for once?? Just think about it. Yeah I'm pretty sure your going to reply to this with a smart ass remark but at least consider the thought before you judge and put someone else down. Remember we are all human. Again i'm just a stupid young adult telling you this. Take how you want it.
Other than that, Good JOB on pointing out my weaknesses. It really helps me out. (:

@OP,
READ ur bookz, Ur a fwesha

@poster
FIRST i suggest you look into yourself to solve your jealousy issues. this "problem" (if we can even call it that) shouldnt even be an issue. TRUST your woman fully or bounce but dont go half-half in there.

SECOND YOU have a problem with her having a male friend. come bro, grow some balls and dont be childish. if you expect her to NOT have any male friends then you have a lot to discover in life.

THIRD YOU have a problem with her talking to her best friend about your issues. would you be ok if she was talking to her girl friend about your problems OR if her best friend was g[b]a[/b]y?

FOURTH YOU have a problem when she calls him sweet names in email. really?! is your self esteem THAT low?!

FIFTH YOU have a problem if he calls her baby in front of you. would you rather they do it in private?! it's her best friend and he knows her LONGER THAN YOU, what would you prefer they do?! anyway, you knew that from the email so what's the beef about?!

SIXTH YOU wanted to break up with her for no apparent reason, just the product of your jealous wild imagination.

. . . . . . . . . . . . .  and yet, you are trying to make it look like SHE is the problem here?

why should she prove her love to you when you have no idea what the word means? if you loved her you should have accepted her as a person, instead of trying to force her to dump her friend because of your INSECURITIES.

so she should not ave friends again. @MMM i fear for ur future if such advice is what comes to mind.