Just like the title says; I'm struggling with my social life. I thought going to a university will change things for me, but I thought wrong. I just rounded off my 100lvl, and I just realized that I made zero friends. Mostly all alone by myself, everyday.
Any tip/advice would be highly welcomed.

@dominique @lalasticlala @mynd44, this topic would get more traction if on the FP.

Make friends

Mingle

Try to join a sport group or any social group ,you would make friends there , also join a school fellowship too ,get involved in the fellowship by joining an ushering dept or choir , any one u suitable for u sha.
These are the Easiest ways to make friends as an introvert.

Just wait till you get to 400l.

Waste of time.

It doesn't worth it.

helinues:
Waste of time.

It doesn't worth it.

Why do you think so?

MikeofKd:
Try to join a sport group or any social group ,you would make friends there , also join a school fellowship too ,get involved in the fellowship by joining an ushering dept or choir , any one u suitable for u sha.
These are the Easiest ways to make friends as an introvert.

This is actually my intended plan, this new session.

EducatedMind369:
Why do you think so?

It's months I stopped going out on weekends. Not because I don't have the time or the cash to spend, but it's just get too boring hanging out in weekends.

I can flex anytime I feel like, average people only have time to flex on weekends, why should I be struggling with those who have 2 days to flex when I can take myself out anytime. Infact the behavior of those with few days for enjoyment is just sometimes annoying as they are always get too carried away.

The socialization itself, if you don't have money, you won't be regarded/respected, and if you have money, you will only waste your money all in the name of socializing with friends cos buying liquor, foods or arrange girls for your guys no be favour or help, so when you are broke, don't expect them to help you cos you never helped them.

So...

Introversion is bae bro...

Don't try to make friends


Try being on your own


Be productive, find something to excel at it can be programming or painting


Once you're good at something, people will be looking for ways to befriend you

MrsTwrite:
Just wait till you get to 400l.

thats what I’m doing i wan shock everybody for 400l now I’m on IT so next semester na 400lvl
Any tip to help

tobby20:
thats what I’m doing i wan shock everybody for 400l now I’m on IT so next semester na 400lvl
Any tip to help

Wait a minute, you're going to 400l and still no friends? Not even one? How did you do it, I wanna learn

Join a school fellowship, you can also create a study groups with some of your course mates.
I am an introvert too and I made a lot of friends from my school days

You are yet to understand the abilities of a lone ranger.

MrsTwrite:


Wait a minute, you're going to 400l and still no friends? Not even one? How did you do it, I wanna learn

i get associate they see me as friends but to me I no fit rely on them
But if na female friends na then many pass

Building a social life as an introvert undergraduate is the most difficult thing ever.

I was fortunate enough to have these two girls from my area back in varsity whom I quickly got along with because I was already familiar with them.

Friends are overrated.
But you need them anyways.
So, try.

Continue your introverted life with loud

helinues:


It's months I stopped going out on weekends. Not because I don't have the time or the cash to spend, but it's just get too boring hanging out in weekends.

I can flex anytime I feel like, average people only have time to flex on weekends, why should I be struggling with those who have 2 days to flex when I can take myself out anytime. Infact the behavior of those with few days for enjoyment is just sometimes annoying as they are always get too carried away.

The socialization itself, if you don't have money, you won't be regarded/respected, and if you have money, you will only waste your money all in the name of socializing with friends cos buying liquor, foods or arrange girls for your guys no be favour or help, so when you are broke, don't expect them to help you cos you never helped them.

So...

smiles. So true