Have you taken advantage of your partner in any way?. Like, using his/her weaknesses to achieve your personal aim. Do you think it is alright to use someone's weakness against him/her?.

No, I haven't and you certainly don't want to do that

sauer:

No, I haven't and you certainly don't want to do that 

What if you discover he/she loves you more than you do and because of that, you decide to keep your bad behaviors because she/he can always overlook that. Are you saying that you haven't done that before?.

aloy/emeka:

What if you discover he/she loves you more than you do and because of that, you decide to keep your bad behaviors because she/he can always overlook that. Are you saying that you haven't done that before?.

Would I want to go down the love path, if one person loves far more than the other? I don't think so. I haven't and even if I have, then she was comfortable with it cos she never complained. Am an advocate of loving each other with the senses intact. Preferably equally measurable love!

But really, it's undeniable that such things happen. Nevertheless, if it is comfortable with both parties. . . if the girl/guy can conveniently indulge the excesses of the other party, then I think it's okay. In that case, it's not "taking advantage". However, if one party decides to go over board into debauchery, then the other should quit!

Sauer, you have a fan in me.

rokiatu:

Sauer, you have a fan in me.  

sweet. . .  , Nairaland's little goddess!

done it a few times with partners i dont care about just because I DONT CARE but NO!, i wouldnt do it to whoever i seriously care about.

slimyem:

done it a few times with partners i dont care about just because I DONT CARE but NO!, i wouldnt do it to whoever i seriously care about.

If you don't care about them, why were they your partners in the first place?.

aloy/emeka:

If you don't care about them, why were they your partners in the first place?.

they were not relationships i was serious about.i was just passing time with them.

No 4 now.

The Questions above should be stated to those Nigerians (including me You) in the westerns world, Deceiving and marrying a lady just to get paper.

yes.

slimyem:

they were not relationships i was serious about.i was just passing time with them.

In essence you were just using them to get free sex,abi?

Nope

aloy/emeka:

Have you taken advantage of your partner in any way?. Like, using his/her weaknesses to achieve your personal aim. Do you think it is alright to use someone's weakness against him/her?.

yes!

dont do it if you do am once befor you know you go dey shake yansh frm their u go they like yansh small small

Sure I do, when necessary thou

all the time. we use each other.

Hmm Yemi took it easy o,prease.
I think partners use each other at one point or another,most times its not a harmful or wicked type of advantage taking,just something they may later laugh over.

yup. they take advantage of you too anyway. do me i do you . . .

My partner is part of me, so taking advantage of him will mean i am cheating on myself.
Itz like stealing your own goods. I will definitely not do that.

Taking advantage of his weaknesses doesn't mean i cheat on him but can do some silly things when necessary. But don't make it too much, because the day the juju go clear for him eyes, ehn, hmmn, i reserve my comment. But use sense.

aloy/emeka:

In essence you were just using them to get free sex,abi?

your thoughts, just your thoughts!

Sure, i cn do it, but wen necessary.

The power of a relationship is the hands of who cares less!

tEsLim:

The power of a relationship is the hands of who cares less!

exactly!!