Hi there, just a question
If you see the fiancé or GF/BF of your close friend cheating on him/her, would you tell her?
Quite a dilemna

As for me I'll prefer the truth, tell me even if it's hard, because if I know you knew it would be worst

Peace

i think i would like to know also
but there have been situation where the person who was told would turn around and accuse you of trying to break up her relationship because their significant other denied the claim.

yors ll say kilo kan e?

Nayah jst peeped on u
dat smile cld send anyman on an errand

omega25red:

i think i would like to know also
but there have been situation where the person who was told would turn around and accuse you of trying to break up her relationship because their significant other denied the claim.

Exactly brother that's why some people hesitate before revealing the all thing
As Cameroonian adage says "Never put your head between a couple's pillow"

Dyt:

yors ll say kilo kan e?

Nayah jst peeped on u
dat smile cld send anyman on an errand

Errand?

odiaero:

Nayah, what about our deal?

Hi Odiaero sorry but I can't remember of any deal

Saying the truth (when you know it) is better than lying (when you decide to keep mute) Meanwhile the bf/gf is gallivanting around.

Nayah

It is good to allow your friend catch his or her partner in the act.  You can always manipulate the situation where your friend will catch his or her partner.  Trust me friendships and families have broken over such "truth".  

I know you wouldn't want to keep a secret from your friend but getting involved would put you in a murky situation that will destroy every lines of communication.  

People would tell you, tell me everything but as I have stated in other threads knowing everything isn't necessary.  But what's done in the dark will come to light.

Dyt:

yors ll say kilo kan e?

Nayah jst peeped on u
dat smile cld send anyman on an errand

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u jst went on an errand by checkin er profile

That depends on the closeness we both share, else all I would say is "Beware of that ur bf/gf, use ur head" and if u r wise enough u will definitely use ur head. Shikena

Mrs, Chima:

Nayah

It is good to allow your friend catch his or her partner in the act.  You can always manipulate the situation where your friend will catch his or her partner.  Trust me friendships and families have broken over such "truth".  

I know you wouldn't want to keep a secret from your friend but getting involved would put you in a murky situation that will destroy every lines of communication.  

People would tell you, tell me everything but as I have stated in other threads knowing everything isn't necessary.  But what's done in the dark will come to light.  

Yes but seriously Mrs Chima don't you think it's like being betrayed twice not telling him or her? I'm quite reserved but if this is my friend I would be faced to a big dilemna

Dyt:

yors ll say kilo kan e?

Nayah jst peeped on u
dat smile cld send anyman on an errand

Just peeped on her too n am on my way to suya spot to buy her suya already

I will tell him straight away, except i have ma share

kpolli
i know u ll do more dan dat

::Andrew:::

I will tell him straight away, except i have ma share

lol Andrew

kpolli:

Just peeped on her too n am on my way to suya spot to buy her suya already

Translation please Kpolli?

^^ he s goin on errand jst 4 ur smile

Offcourse, infact I will go gaga on the guy to begin with.

I am talking abt best friend here jor.

rokiatu:

Offcourse, infact I will go gaga on the guy to begin with.

I am talking abt best friend here jor.

lol to the bold one

I will tell him after he has given me food in his house.

Nayah:

Yes but seriously Mrs Chima don't you think it's like being betrayed twice not telling him or her? I'm quite reserved but if this is my friend I would be faced to a big dilemna

I tell you what, let say you confided in your friend about the cheating partner and you ensured your friend that this is shared out of love and respect for her.  Now she is informed about her cheating partner confronts her cheating partner which spins out of control.  She is heartbroken and the guy vanish in thin air. 

Some people blames you for the breakup including the guy even the friend.  Then what? 

Here is another one, what if you tell the friend and she tell you so what?  Mind your business.  Then what? 

The point of this, let her catch him in act. Some people literally take the verse. "what God bring together let no man put asunder" to heart. So what if your friend say to you, "are you trying to break up my relationship"? What would your response be?

i dont/wont tell.if i love you very much,i'll pray you find out on your own.
Telling in the past has put me in lots of trouble with friends.i end up being the scapegoat.
Lesson learnt-NEVER get involved in bf/gf or husband/wifey relationships.

slimyem:

i dont/wont tell.if i love you very much,i'll pray you find out on your own.
Telling in the past has put me in lots of trouble with friends.i end up being the scapegoat.
Lesson learnt-NEVER get involved in bf/gf or husband/wifey relationships.

As hard as it may to keep from getting involve but at the end YOU ARE THE SCAPEGOAT no matter if the friend is grateful for the "truth" it will not change resentments on both side.