Bluezy13:
Advice is sweet with options.

They can rent a room

mbaise1000:
So the poster is telling any girl that have met her soul mate to leave him because of where he is living?
This post say more about the poster than the one he or she is advicing because if he believes that people are going to offend her in that family house, it will mean that if she is there before the others, she will do same to them,
Wasn't it last week that a woman said she want to recommend a girl for me but I should tell her if I am living in a family house or I am in my own house, I asked her why and she said she know her friend that she will not stay in a family house, I looked at her and the type of person she is and I told her that I will drive away my siblings who haven't got their own houses yet because I want to marry your friend? Fortunately she is someone I know and will not marry someone like her because I saw how she is living with her own husband.
What I am saying is that any woman who will not want to stay in a family house because of what the people who are there before her will do to her is not BETTER than those she is trying to avoid and any woman who refuses to marry because of this reason is not ready for marriage yet

Uncle find apartment to live in alone if you want to get married. Leave all these talks. You will even be saving yourself a lot of stress

Persephone1:
Uncle find apartment to live alone in if you want to get married. Leave all these talks. You will even be saving yourself a lot of stress

LoveUdie:


My Sister, don't marry a Man Living in a Family House, you will never enjoy that Marriage.

I may sound Stoopid and senseless but believe me the day you're married into a family house you'll remember this post. Even flies in the house will abuse you including your in-laws.

Untill you find yourself in this situation you may not understand this post.

Sister, if a man does not have money to rent atleast one room apartment, then you guys have no business getting married.
How will you guys now cope with family expenses?

Don't be deceived, marriage needs money.

The day your husband marry you into family house, both of you have lost RESPECT and dignity in that family.

Even if it’s one room apartment it will be much more better than living in a family house, for peace to reign.

If a man still lives in his parents house, tell him to get an apartment before paying your BRIDE PRICE. Statistics shows that, the wives end up unhappy, caged and frustrated.

No matter how good your in-laws are, pray you don't have any reason to live with them. They will show you shege. It's a matter of TIME. Just give them TIME.
Visit them, let them visit you.

Your parents in-law maybe good but believe me your Co-Wives, brothers and sisters in-law will fight you. Some may even go diabolical to make sure you're 7feet down.

Dear Men, leaving a family house does not mean neglecting your parents and your responsibility, it means starting your own life, living a private life and having a peaceful home.

I repeat, Please don't marry a man living in a family house, you will never enjoy that marriage to its fullest.
Source...... https://www.gistreal.ng/?m=1

Persephone1:
Uncle find apartment to live alone in if you want to get married. Leave all these talks. You will even be saving yourself a lot of stress

LoveUdie:


My Sister, don't marry a Man Living in a Family House, you will never enjoy that Marriage.

I may sound Stoopid and senseless but believe me the day you're married into a family house you'll remember this post. Even flies in the house will abuse you including your in-laws.

Untill you find yourself in this situation you may not understand this post.

Sister, if a man does not have money to rent atleast one room apartment, then you guys have no business getting married.
How will you guys now cope with family expenses?

Don't be deceived, marriage needs money.

The day your husband marry you into family house, both of you have lost RESPECT and dignity in that family.

Even if it’s one room apartment it will be much more better than living in a family house, for peace to reign.

If a man still lives in his parents house, tell him to get an apartment before paying your BRIDE PRICE. Statistics shows that, the wives end up unhappy, caged and frustrated.

No matter how good your in-laws are, pray you don't have any reason to live with them. They will show you shege. It's a matter of TIME. Just give them TIME.
Visit them, let them visit you.

Your parents in-law maybe good but believe me your Co-Wives, brothers and sisters in-law will fight you. Some may even go diabolical to make sure you're 7feet down.

Dear Men, leaving a family house does not mean neglecting your parents and your responsibility, it means starting your own life, living a private life and having a peaceful home.

I repeat, Please don't marry a man living in a family house, you will never enjoy that marriage to its fullest.
Source...... https://www.gistreal.ng/?m=1

LoveUdie:
My Sister, don't marry a Man Living in a Family House, you will never enjoy that Marriage.

I may sound Stoopid and senseless but believe me the day you're married into a family house you'll remember this post. Even flies in the house will abuse you including your in-laws.

Untill you find yourself in this situation you may not understand this post.

Sister, if a man does not have money to rent atleast one room apartment, then you guys have no business getting married.
How will you guys now cope with family expenses?

Don't be deceived, marriage needs money.

The day your husband marry you into family house, both of you have lost RESPECT and dignity in that family.

Even if it’s one room apartment it will be much more better than living in a family house, for peace to reign.

If a man still lives in his parents house, tell him to get an apartment before paying your BRIDE PRICE. Statistics shows that, the wives end up unhappy, caged and frustrated.

No matter how good your in-laws are, pray you don't have any reason to live with them. They will show you shege. It's a matter of TIME. Just give them TIME.
Visit them, let them visit you.

Your parents in-law maybe good but believe me your Co-Wives, brothers and sisters in-law will fight you. Some may even go diabolical to make sure you're 7feet down.

Dear Men, leaving a family house does not mean neglecting your parents and your responsibility, it means starting your own life, living a private life and having a peaceful home.

I repeat, Please don't marry a man living in a family house, you will never enjoy that marriage to its fullest.

okoroemeka:
you are totally and absolutely wrong,making such assumptions without stating the type of house and type of family,even these days for girls to marry a man that has family house is a big achievement nowadays.

correctyourself:
Do people still do this?

Bigseven:
Not all families are like the family you got yourself into. In as much as I agree with you 100 percent that a man is more respected when he rent his apartment or build his house aside from family house, don’t discourage the young lads who are still staying in their family house. It might be for a short time before things fall in place. For some, their parents are aging and you want to separate the man from his parent because you got married to him. Do you know what the parents went through to train him to this point that you got married to him and even enjoying him? Pls don’t share this myopic opinion. Probably your bad character exposes you or some village people are after you that’s why you were seen finish proMax if not, allow every man to grow into different phases of life. May be from family house to his own or to a rented apartment, better still some parents will even advise him to move out. So don’t generalize such issues because you know of a failed home or had bitter see finish experience. A jobless lady staying in family house will be seen finish ofcourse. Therefore encourage your gender to get a job or be doing something to earn instead of this your yeye advice madam adviser. Husbands scarce oo

Persephone1:
Uncle find apartment to live alone in if you want to get married. Leave all these talks. You will even be saving yourself a lot of stress

Persephone1:
Uncle find apartment to live alone in if you want to get married. Leave all these talks. You will even be saving yourself a lot of stress

Gentlesoul2021:


Love the last paragraph. A jobless lady will b see finish. Lot of them have nothing to do, no job Nd no craft. They were only oppoturned to be rescued out of their miserable life yet they want to b calling the shot. A hardworking lady that leave home in morning and comes back in the evening will be highly regarded by her in-laws...